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FirstLight

(13,360 posts)
Fri Mar 8, 2024, 03:59 PM Mar 8

How many folks have actual LIFE Insurance???

After my foks passed the last year I have been reminded several time by my partner and kids to set my affairs in order...

I'm curious... what Generation (age) are you and how big if any Life ins do you have? When did you get it?

I'm Gen X and I think dealing with our own mortality is coming to the forefront...

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How many folks have actual LIFE Insurance??? (Original Post) FirstLight Mar 8 OP
I get term life insurance through work... getagrip_already Mar 8 #1
Question: why do you need it? JustABozoOnThisBus Mar 8 #2
I dont want them to suffer hardship without me... FirstLight Mar 9 #16
We have term life to cover our mortgage Fiendish Thingy Mar 8 #3
Have it but don't need it. SarahD Mar 8 #4
I HAD employer paid life insurance ($100K face value) plus private term for $350K to cover mortgage and sinkingfeeling Mar 8 #5
None XanaDUer2 Mar 8 #6
$25K through my UAW retirement multigraincracker Mar 8 #7
I'm gen OLD, and have 100,000 to be divided 50/50 between my daughters in their 30s elleng Mar 8 #8
I have life insurance through work, but when I retire I don't plan to keep the policy. beaglelover Mar 8 #9
I got mine at 40 Fichefinder Mar 8 #10
I do. nt. drray23 Mar 8 #11
I'm mid-50s TexasDem69 Mar 8 #12
I'm also a Gen X. Niagara Mar 8 #13
Couple of policies on me, I might add a third. Xolodno Mar 8 #14
I've got life ins Marthe48 Mar 8 #15

getagrip_already

(14,764 posts)
1. I get term life insurance through work...
Fri Mar 8, 2024, 04:05 PM
Mar 8

2x my salary is free, I can buy up from there. I think I'm up to 4x on top of the 2x.

I also get acidental death/disability. I'm worth a lot more dead, especially if it's by an accident. There are other plans as well, but they are slipping my mind.

This has pretty much been standard forever in tech. Lots of bennies.

JustABozoOnThisBus

(23,350 posts)
2. Question: why do you need it?
Fri Mar 8, 2024, 04:08 PM
Mar 8

If you have a family that needs support, a home with a mortgage or a rental apartment, maybe you need it.

If your kids are grown and self-supporting, the house is paid, you have enough cash to get buried, maybe you don't.

This is just one piece of a full financial plan for you and yours.

Boomer here.

FirstLight

(13,360 posts)
16. I dont want them to suffer hardship without me...
Sat Mar 9, 2024, 02:59 PM
Mar 9

nobody is self-sufficient enough these days... (kids are too young to be established)

Fiendish Thingy

(15,623 posts)
3. We have term life to cover our mortgage
Fri Mar 8, 2024, 04:36 PM
Mar 8

Which will be paid off in July; we will let our insurance expire in 2025. (We are retired, and have enough in benefits/assets for one to live comfortably should the other die).

Note of warning to those considering life insurance:

Do NOT sign up for whole life/annuity - you will be committing to a decades long contract mandating contributions.

Term life is the way to go - it’s just like home and auto insurance, you can cancel any time, and your broker doesn’t get a massive commission.

SarahD

(1,189 posts)
4. Have it but don't need it.
Fri Mar 8, 2024, 04:52 PM
Mar 8

It's a small policy my mom got for me when I was an infant. It costs almost nothing to maintain so I keep it. Cashing it in would not get me much money.

sinkingfeeling

(51,457 posts)
5. I HAD employer paid life insurance ($100K face value) plus private term for $350K to cover mortgage and
Fri Mar 8, 2024, 04:54 PM
Mar 8

teen age son. I canceled it when I sold my house. I'm retired, but former employer still has $25K policy for me.

multigraincracker

(32,688 posts)
7. $25K through my UAW retirement
Fri Mar 8, 2024, 05:00 PM
Mar 8

Ins. I been retired for over 20 years. My funeral won’t cost my wife anything. Plus she keeps her BC/BS health coverage for the rest of her life.

elleng

(130,964 posts)
8. I'm gen OLD, and have 100,000 to be divided 50/50 between my daughters in their 30s
Fri Mar 8, 2024, 05:23 PM
Mar 8

so 4 Grands will be adequately taken care of.

Got it 3 years ago, is for a term but gonna change it to 'universal.'

Daughters regularly need my financial help, even tho one is a health professional and the other is married to a deputy sheriff.

beaglelover

(3,486 posts)
9. I have life insurance through work, but when I retire I don't plan to keep the policy.
Fri Mar 8, 2024, 05:32 PM
Mar 8

We have enough money in the bank to cover my final expenses and my husband will inherit more than enough to pay off the mortgage and live a very comfortable life.

TexasDem69

(1,781 posts)
12. I'm mid-50s
Fri Mar 8, 2024, 05:45 PM
Mar 8

And have several life insurance policies. Though they won’t help me when I die they’ll certainly benefit my wife and family

Niagara

(7,627 posts)
13. I'm also a Gen X.
Fri Mar 8, 2024, 07:34 PM
Mar 8

I use to have an Accidental Life and Dismemberment Insurance policy through my old Credit Union. I don't have that policy anymore.


I might have life insurance through my employer but I would have to ask to make sure.


I've instructed my loved ones to not do a viewing of my body. Most funeral homes do high pressure sales tactics where this casket isn't good enough but you need this more expensive one because the seals are better or you need this liner because it's better. Unless you want people to view your deceased body (which I don't) there's a bunch of charges for prepping the body for viewing. I don't need all the overpriced work done on me when I'm dead. I also don't want to go in the ground in a casket.


Funeral homes require a basic box to transport a body to the crematory for sanitary reasons. In 2001 the average cost for this box was $90. I have no idea what the cost is today.


On occasion you'll read me joking around on DU about me being cremated since it'll be my last chance for a smoking hot body. Most of the time I get other DU-ers to laugh with my comments.



The reality is, I'm curious about water cremation that's called Aquamation. It's cost is significantly lower than regular cremation and burial. Plus it's a faster, greener and more environmentally friendly compared to our current options.


I'm sorry that I rambled a bit and most likely didn't answer your question. With my current job, I think about my own mortality, probably more often than I should be thinking about it.

Xolodno

(6,395 posts)
14. Couple of policies on me, I might add a third.
Fri Mar 8, 2024, 08:23 PM
Mar 8

Through work I have 4x my pay. On my own, a Whole Life Policy of just 10k (basically to cover funeral expenses). For my wife, through work I got a 25k, which would be more than enough (belong to a community of churches that own their own cemeteries, so costs are not inflated).

Been thinking about getting another Term Life policy for my self for 50-100k. My insurance company on the Whole Life recently offered another 15k in coverage for another $50 a month, but I may just put that money into a S&P Index fund.

And yes, I'm GenX as well, looking to retire in about roughly ten years. 401k is well funded, and have a pension from a previous company and three more years at my current one, I'll have another pension.

So there are sources of income for my wife and two properties paid off she would inherit. Not to mention a friend of mine and I have agreed to help each other in case our wives become widowed (he owns a couple of small apartment buildings, he would put her in one of them rent free and let her use the money she gets from me for her enjoyment, if he went, I would help manage the properties as it frustrates his wife to no end at times and doesn't always make the right financial decisions).

If you have a Group Insurance policy through work, get on it for the maximum. Its cheap and usually subsidized. If not, I believe AAA has a Group Policy you can get, so get a membership (card often provides discounts for entertainment, restaurants, hotels, etc. so much so, I wouldn't even bother with an AARP membership, plus free towing). So that's a cheap option as well.

If you want a policy that is more investment driven, a Whole or Universal Life policy will work. Covers you to a certain age, then once it reaches maturity, you get the value of it (in my case 10k at 65...which I'll drop into and index fund).

Also keep in mind, funerals can be costly. Its in the interest of funeral homes to offer lots of services and up sell you. So make hard choices now, do you really need that nice metal awesome looking casket that you will only use once? My grandfather paid for his in advance and it was a very cheap one, his point, why waste the money when it could go to my grandkids. And some places that bury you, be sure you read the terms and conditions, sometimes they only intern you for a certain amount of time. Then dig you up and put someone else there.

Of course there is also cremation and some coffins that bio-degrade you at an accelerated rate. Depending on where you go, a headstone may also be in order. Most are simple and inflated price wise at certain cemeteries. At our community, they are more expensive and larger as your internment is considered permanent, but there are preferred companies that they use which offer a discount.

And there is no shortage of companies willing to offer Term Life (policies that offer insurance at a fixed rate for 10, 15, 20 etc. years), only catch there is once you hit the Term date, usually in your old age, if they keep you on, its at a much higher premium. But if you put enough away for retirement and "just in case", shouldn't be a problem.

Marthe48

(16,974 posts)
15. I've got life ins
Fri Mar 8, 2024, 09:19 PM
Mar 8

Enough to take care of cremation and a celebration of life. I was uninsured until about 20 years ago. I'm 71 now. My husband was insured, enough and some left over. With him, I worried that the hospital would send me a final bill, but it's been 7 years, so I think the wait is over.

I'd recommend having enough to cover whatever kind of service you want or your loved ones think you should have. I think my husband's sendoff was close to $2000.00

My husband converted his military ins. to NYL when he got out. We had an agent that made us aware of investment opportunities with NYL and we benefited from her advice. Not rich, but it is enough.





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