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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsThe doctor said I'd probably never walk again.
When I was in hospital with heart failure a few months ago, the doctor told me I'd probably never walk again or even stand unaided and bike-riding was definitely over. The nurse said that in all her years, she'd only known one person who was as badly off as I was who made even a partial recovery.
Well I just walked 6 miles in an hour and a half and I feel fantastic!
That's one in the eye to you, Doc, ya bastard!
CaliforniaPeggy
(149,757 posts)You did show him!
May you walk many more miles, and happily...
Ron Obvious
(6,261 posts)Thanks, Peggy, I certainly intend to!
You wouldn't believe how much I've gotten done around the house since I've been home. I even fixed two toilets and a kitchen sink, and I never ONCE did any plumbing before in my life!
Sekhmets Daughter
(7,515 posts)Doctors can only make educated guesses about outcomes.... They can't see what's in your soul.
Ron Obvious
(6,261 posts)This doctor -- the head of the cardio team, incidentally -- was pretty damn blunt. At first I thought he was trying to scare me so that I would stick to my dietary restrictions, but he was so negative I nearly asked him to leave the window unlocked as he left.
I'm going to bike to my next appointment.
Sekhmets Daughter
(7,515 posts)but please don't overdo it. Sometimes we feel so good after a recovery, we forget that there are limits. 15 minutes miles make for a good clip, many people couldn't do that before a serious heart attack.
While the doctor's bedside manner may, indeed, be lousy...perhaps he just wanted you to stimulate you. Depression is not unknown after a serious medical event.
Take care of yourself, we don't like losing people here on DU.
Ron Obvious
(6,261 posts)Oh, don't worry -- my wife watches me like hawk
I didn't have a heart attack, btw, they diagnosed a severely damaged left ventricle and the pumping power of my heart was inadequate (i.e. heart failure). I had a pulse like a hyper-caffeinated hummingbird on his wedding night, couldn't breathe and my stomach swelled up because of the fluid retension.
I was very fit, didn't smoke, typically biked 250-300 miles a week and often biked over 100 miles a day, so I couldn't believe something like this could happen to me.
Denninmi
(6,581 posts)Congratulations. Keep on keeping on. Ride that bike. Live!
Ron Obvious
(6,261 posts)I still intend to do that solo coast-to-coast ride in a few years! I tried a few years ago, but had to give up after 1500 miles because of equipment failure.
Sekhmets Daughter
(7,515 posts)How the heck did the left ventricle become damaged? Life is certainly arbitrary, isn't it?
Ron Obvious
(6,261 posts)Apparently they never find out in about 50-70% of the cases. I had lung embolisms and pneumonia as well, so it might have been a thrombosis brought on by flying too much. Then again, heart failure causes embolisms as well so it's uncertain.
I also didn't have high cholesterol, high blood pressure, diabetes, or a family history of heart problems.
Maybe I just wore it out it biking so much, or else my dad's DNA was worn out as he was nearly 50 when I was born
Then again, I used to drink a lot and took Benadryll to sleep which is pretty damn stupid and that might well be the cause.
Sekhmets Daughter
(7,515 posts)what's that saying..."Be sure your sins will find you out" ?
Again, continue to take care of yourself and good health...much better than luck don't you think?
Ron Obvious
(6,261 posts)The ancient Greeks coined the concept of 'Hubris', whereby just when everything in your life is working out swimmingly compared to everybody else, that's when fate kicks you in the testes to remind you how insignificant and vulnerable you are.
I had symptoms for 2 years and didn't know it.
As a public service announcement: excessive night-time urination (and almost none during the day), coughing, inability to sleep, inexplicable weight-gain, throwing up your food (without feeling nauseated) are potentially signs of heart trouble. If it can happen to me, it can happen to anyone!
Sekhmets Daughter
(7,515 posts)kept asking you to see a doctor. Hopefully you now appreciate that your body sends signals for a reason, right?
Ron Obvious
(6,261 posts)Hey, I'm a typical guy -- I thought I was both immortal and indestructible.
In my defence, I never actually felt bad enough to worry about it and I thought I was super-fit.
Sekhmets Daughter
(7,515 posts)It's not even a case of feeling poorly...some of the symptoms you mentioned should have, at least, made you curious. The Google is your friend. Pay attention to your body, and not just how it looks. Class dismissed. I trust you have learned you are neither immortal nor indestructible. (Yikes, I feel like such a nag)
It is time to tune into the Daily Show...so I shall bid you a good night.
Ron Obvious
(6,261 posts)Good night! Enjoy the Daily Show.
I'll never feel immortal or indestructible again, I swear.
Jackpine Radical
(45,274 posts)Something to always keep in mind in these circumstances.
Sekhmets Daughter
(7,515 posts)but I didn't want to be too negative, or imply that he could have had a problem with depression.
We really do need to educate people.
Jackpine Radical
(45,274 posts)that exercise is more effective than antidepressants. He's clearly taking the right steps.
Skittles
(153,258 posts)you took that word "probably" and kicked its ass!
a la izquierda
(11,802 posts)GoneOffShore
(17,342 posts)Though sometimes they can be pretty good.
Art_from_Ark
(27,247 posts)Ron Obvious
(6,261 posts)And you divined the origin of my username too!
Must be a fellow Python Fan!
Art_from_Ark
(27,247 posts)Ron Obvious
(6,261 posts)I feel energetic enough to jump the Channel right now!
Art_from_Ark
(27,247 posts)riverbendviewgal
(4,254 posts)Lucky Luciano
(11,267 posts)rurallib
(62,477 posts)dbackjon
(6,578 posts)Congrats!!
Spitfire of ATJ
(32,723 posts)Paula Sims
(877 posts)3 ACL repairs and the 2nd one was not only done too short but backwards. My entire body rebelled and I almost ended up in a wheel chair. Found a doc to do the 3rd surgery and after a year, I'm going to start running in the pool tomorrow.
This is a great video of someone who walked the same journey as I (NOTE: HEAVY HANKY WARNING!!!)
We can never give up. NEVER.
Ron Obvious
(6,261 posts)Wow, inspirational stuff! All the best of luck to you!
Chorophyll
(5,179 posts)Good for you, Ron Obvious! You're an inspiration to us all.
ETA: awesome user name. You don't by any chance have a friend named Mr. Devious, do you?
Ron Obvious
(6,261 posts)Haha, no, I came by my nickname because my name really is Ron and I used say 'obviously' a lot. I'm also a huge Python fan, of course.
bluesbassman
(19,385 posts)backwoodsbob
(6,001 posts)fuck em...live long and prosper
tblue
(16,350 posts)And you're giving other people hope. That is invaluable! Bless you and may you continue to beat all the odds. Wow! This makes my day. Really
Just want to add I had a friend who at age 39 had a massive heart attack. Wlile in a coma I was in the room with him as the nurse was saying he would likely not survive. Pissed me off! You don't talk about a patient that way when they're in a coma! Well, guess what. My friend survived. 16 years later he's still alive. Suffered some brain damage but he defied the doctors and nurses and proved to me you never give up, unless you decide you want to.
to you!
Ron Obvious
(6,261 posts)That's right -- never give up!
I had my deep, dark moments when I believed I was literally on my deathbed, and I remember hating the doctors and nurses for talking and laughing in the hallway where I could hear them. Didn't they know the universe was about to end? I hated the people I could see outside through my window just for having normal lives.
Most of the time though, I just knew I'd get better. I know that sounds corny, and maybe even insulting to people less fortunate than me, but when that nurse told me she only knew of one case of someone getting better, I thought to myself "and now you know two of them."
to you and your friend!
snappyturtle
(14,656 posts)Ron Obvious
(6,261 posts)bigwillq
(72,790 posts)Good for you. Enjoy the walks!
nolabear
(42,001 posts)And you kicked their asses. Congratulations!!
woodsprite
(11,940 posts)Arugula Latte
(50,566 posts)I love stories like that!
Many congratulations!
Ron Obvious
(6,261 posts)Thanks very much for the hearts this evening! Much appreciated!