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Ron Obvious

(6,261 posts)
Thu Feb 14, 2013, 09:04 PM Feb 2013

The doctor said I'd probably never walk again.

When I was in hospital with heart failure a few months ago, the doctor told me I'd probably never walk again or even stand unaided and bike-riding was definitely over. The nurse said that in all her years, she'd only known one person who was as badly off as I was who made even a partial recovery.

Well I just walked 6 miles in an hour and a half and I feel fantastic!

That's one in the eye to you, Doc, ya bastard!

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The doctor said I'd probably never walk again. (Original Post) Ron Obvious Feb 2013 OP
Congrats, my dear Ron Obvious! CaliforniaPeggy Feb 2013 #1
Thanks, Peggy! Ron Obvious Feb 2013 #5
Fantastic... Sekhmets Daughter Feb 2013 #2
This one was pretty blunt... Ron Obvious Feb 2013 #6
I'm so happy for you... Sekhmets Daughter Feb 2013 #7
Don't worry Ron Obvious Feb 2013 #8
Wow. Just Wow. Denninmi Feb 2013 #9
Thank you! Ron Obvious Feb 2013 #13
You have a good wife, excellent! Sekhmets Daughter Feb 2013 #10
They're not entirely sure... Ron Obvious Feb 2013 #12
Then again, I used to drink a lot ... Sekhmets Daughter Feb 2013 #14
Absolutely Ron Obvious Feb 2013 #18
And I'm certain your poor wife Sekhmets Daughter Feb 2013 #21
Hey, I'm a typical guy! Ron Obvious Feb 2013 #32
I had politely refrained from sexist criticism... Sekhmets Daughter Feb 2013 #34
Good night! Ron Obvious Feb 2013 #37
Depression is actually more common than not after such events. Jackpine Radical Feb 2013 #45
Yes, I know... Sekhmets Daughter Feb 2013 #46
I wasn't too worried in this case, but maybe should have also mentioned Jackpine Radical Feb 2013 #47
way to go, Ron Skittles Feb 2013 #3
Woot! a la izquierda Feb 2013 #4
Ah doctors. Gotta love 'em. GoneOffShore Feb 2013 #11
Congratulations, Ron Art_from_Ark Feb 2013 #15
Thank you! Ron Obvious Feb 2013 #19
I hope your doctor wasn't the guy on the left :) Art_from_Ark Feb 2013 #23
Haha! Ron Obvious Feb 2013 #38
Just don't get the urge to eat an entire Anglican cathedral, OK? Art_from_Ark Feb 2013 #40
awesome riverbendviewgal Feb 2013 #16
Well done!! You must have a real appreciation for the simple things! nt Lucky Luciano Feb 2013 #17
Way to go! rurallib Feb 2013 #20
That is awesome!!! dbackjon Feb 2013 #22
Carlin said, "It's all guesswork in a white coat." - You just proved his point. Spitfire of ATJ Feb 2013 #24
Congratulations. I was in a similar situation Paula Sims Feb 2013 #25
Excellent! Ron Obvious Feb 2013 #33
That is fantastic! Chorophyll Feb 2013 #26
Haha! Ron Obvious Feb 2013 #36
Way to go Ron! Keep up the good work! bluesbassman Feb 2013 #27
awesome backwoodsbob Feb 2013 #28
YOU SHOWED 'EM!!! tblue Feb 2013 #29
That's right! Ron Obvious Feb 2013 #35
OMG! Heartiest of congrats to you! Send some of 'that' my way....will need it too soon. nt snappyturtle Feb 2013 #30
Good thoughts to you! n/t Ron Obvious Feb 2013 #39
That's awesome. bigwillq Feb 2013 #31
Brilliant. I'm proud of you. You could have believed them and laid down. nolabear Feb 2013 #41
Way to go! I'm glad you were able to school them with your determination. n/t woodsprite Feb 2013 #42
That is so GREAT!!! Arugula Latte Feb 2013 #43
Hey, thanks for all the hearts this evening! Ron Obvious Feb 2013 #44
EPIC WIN WilliamPitt Feb 2013 #48
I have but one thing to say: Brigid Feb 2013 #49
Congrat, Ron! geardaddy Feb 2013 #50
 

Ron Obvious

(6,261 posts)
5. Thanks, Peggy!
Thu Feb 14, 2013, 09:28 PM
Feb 2013

Thanks, Peggy, I certainly intend to!

You wouldn't believe how much I've gotten done around the house since I've been home. I even fixed two toilets and a kitchen sink, and I never ONCE did any plumbing before in my life!

 

Ron Obvious

(6,261 posts)
6. This one was pretty blunt...
Thu Feb 14, 2013, 09:34 PM
Feb 2013

This doctor -- the head of the cardio team, incidentally -- was pretty damn blunt. At first I thought he was trying to scare me so that I would stick to my dietary restrictions, but he was so negative I nearly asked him to leave the window unlocked as he left.

I'm going to bike to my next appointment.

Sekhmets Daughter

(7,515 posts)
7. I'm so happy for you...
Thu Feb 14, 2013, 09:45 PM
Feb 2013

but please don't overdo it. Sometimes we feel so good after a recovery, we forget that there are limits. 15 minutes miles make for a good clip, many people couldn't do that before a serious heart attack.

While the doctor's bedside manner may, indeed, be lousy...perhaps he just wanted you to stimulate you. Depression is not unknown after a serious medical event.

Take care of yourself, we don't like losing people here on DU.

 

Ron Obvious

(6,261 posts)
8. Don't worry
Thu Feb 14, 2013, 10:08 PM
Feb 2013

Oh, don't worry -- my wife watches me like hawk

I didn't have a heart attack, btw, they diagnosed a severely damaged left ventricle and the pumping power of my heart was inadequate (i.e. heart failure). I had a pulse like a hyper-caffeinated hummingbird on his wedding night, couldn't breathe and my stomach swelled up because of the fluid retension.

I was very fit, didn't smoke, typically biked 250-300 miles a week and often biked over 100 miles a day, so I couldn't believe something like this could happen to me.

 

Ron Obvious

(6,261 posts)
13. Thank you!
Thu Feb 14, 2013, 10:32 PM
Feb 2013

I still intend to do that solo coast-to-coast ride in a few years! I tried a few years ago, but had to give up after 1500 miles because of equipment failure.

Sekhmets Daughter

(7,515 posts)
10. You have a good wife, excellent!
Thu Feb 14, 2013, 10:12 PM
Feb 2013

How the heck did the left ventricle become damaged? Life is certainly arbitrary, isn't it?

 

Ron Obvious

(6,261 posts)
12. They're not entirely sure...
Thu Feb 14, 2013, 10:29 PM
Feb 2013

Apparently they never find out in about 50-70% of the cases. I had lung embolisms and pneumonia as well, so it might have been a thrombosis brought on by flying too much. Then again, heart failure causes embolisms as well so it's uncertain.

I also didn't have high cholesterol, high blood pressure, diabetes, or a family history of heart problems.

Maybe I just wore it out it biking so much, or else my dad's DNA was worn out as he was nearly 50 when I was born

Then again, I used to drink a lot and took Benadryll to sleep which is pretty damn stupid and that might well be the cause.

Sekhmets Daughter

(7,515 posts)
14. Then again, I used to drink a lot ...
Thu Feb 14, 2013, 10:33 PM
Feb 2013

what's that saying..."Be sure your sins will find you out" ?

Again, continue to take care of yourself and good health...much better than luck don't you think?

 

Ron Obvious

(6,261 posts)
18. Absolutely
Thu Feb 14, 2013, 10:58 PM
Feb 2013

The ancient Greeks coined the concept of 'Hubris', whereby just when everything in your life is working out swimmingly compared to everybody else, that's when fate kicks you in the testes to remind you how insignificant and vulnerable you are.

I had symptoms for 2 years and didn't know it.

As a public service announcement: excessive night-time urination (and almost none during the day), coughing, inability to sleep, inexplicable weight-gain, throwing up your food (without feeling nauseated) are potentially signs of heart trouble. If it can happen to me, it can happen to anyone!

Sekhmets Daughter

(7,515 posts)
21. And I'm certain your poor wife
Thu Feb 14, 2013, 11:04 PM
Feb 2013

kept asking you to see a doctor. Hopefully you now appreciate that your body sends signals for a reason, right?

 

Ron Obvious

(6,261 posts)
32. Hey, I'm a typical guy!
Fri Feb 15, 2013, 12:04 AM
Feb 2013

Hey, I'm a typical guy -- I thought I was both immortal and indestructible.

In my defence, I never actually felt bad enough to worry about it and I thought I was super-fit.

Sekhmets Daughter

(7,515 posts)
34. I had politely refrained from sexist criticism...
Fri Feb 15, 2013, 12:16 AM
Feb 2013


It's not even a case of feeling poorly...some of the symptoms you mentioned should have, at least, made you curious. The Google is your friend. Pay attention to your body, and not just how it looks. Class dismissed. I trust you have learned you are neither immortal nor indestructible. (Yikes, I feel like such a nag)

It is time to tune into the Daily Show...so I shall bid you a good night.

 

Ron Obvious

(6,261 posts)
37. Good night!
Fri Feb 15, 2013, 12:21 AM
Feb 2013

Good night! Enjoy the Daily Show.

I'll never feel immortal or indestructible again, I swear.

Jackpine Radical

(45,274 posts)
45. Depression is actually more common than not after such events.
Fri Feb 15, 2013, 01:45 PM
Feb 2013

Something to always keep in mind in these circumstances.

Sekhmets Daughter

(7,515 posts)
46. Yes, I know...
Fri Feb 15, 2013, 01:51 PM
Feb 2013

but I didn't want to be too negative, or imply that he could have had a problem with depression.

We really do need to educate people.

Jackpine Radical

(45,274 posts)
47. I wasn't too worried in this case, but maybe should have also mentioned
Fri Feb 15, 2013, 02:07 PM
Feb 2013

that exercise is more effective than antidepressants. He's clearly taking the right steps.

Paula Sims

(877 posts)
25. Congratulations. I was in a similar situation
Thu Feb 14, 2013, 11:43 PM
Feb 2013

3 ACL repairs and the 2nd one was not only done too short but backwards. My entire body rebelled and I almost ended up in a wheel chair. Found a doc to do the 3rd surgery and after a year, I'm going to start running in the pool tomorrow.

This is a great video of someone who walked the same journey as I (NOTE: HEAVY HANKY WARNING!!!)




We can never give up. NEVER.

Chorophyll

(5,179 posts)
26. That is fantastic!
Thu Feb 14, 2013, 11:45 PM
Feb 2013

Good for you, Ron Obvious! You're an inspiration to us all.

ETA: awesome user name. You don't by any chance have a friend named Mr. Devious, do you?

 

Ron Obvious

(6,261 posts)
36. Haha!
Fri Feb 15, 2013, 12:19 AM
Feb 2013

Haha, no, I came by my nickname because my name really is Ron and I used say 'obviously' a lot. I'm also a huge Python fan, of course.

tblue

(16,350 posts)
29. YOU SHOWED 'EM!!!
Thu Feb 14, 2013, 11:47 PM
Feb 2013

And you're giving other people hope. That is invaluable! Bless you and may you continue to beat all the odds. Wow! This makes my day. Really

Just want to add I had a friend who at age 39 had a massive heart attack. Wlile in a coma I was in the room with him as the nurse was saying he would likely not survive. Pissed me off! You don't talk about a patient that way when they're in a coma! Well, guess what. My friend survived. 16 years later he's still alive. Suffered some brain damage but he defied the doctors and nurses and proved to me you never give up, unless you decide you want to.

to you!

 

Ron Obvious

(6,261 posts)
35. That's right!
Fri Feb 15, 2013, 12:16 AM
Feb 2013

That's right -- never give up!

I had my deep, dark moments when I believed I was literally on my deathbed, and I remember hating the doctors and nurses for talking and laughing in the hallway where I could hear them. Didn't they know the universe was about to end? I hated the people I could see outside through my window just for having normal lives.

Most of the time though, I just knew I'd get better. I know that sounds corny, and maybe even insulting to people less fortunate than me, but when that nurse told me she only knew of one case of someone getting better, I thought to myself "and now you know two of them."

to you and your friend!

nolabear

(42,001 posts)
41. Brilliant. I'm proud of you. You could have believed them and laid down.
Fri Feb 15, 2013, 12:58 AM
Feb 2013

And you kicked their asses. Congratulations!!

 

Ron Obvious

(6,261 posts)
44. Hey, thanks for all the hearts this evening!
Fri Feb 15, 2013, 02:48 AM
Feb 2013

Thanks very much for the hearts this evening! Much appreciated!

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