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Perhaps this is a morbid question - what song do you want played at your funeral? (Original Post) cabot Dec 2016 OP
This message was self-deleted by its author flamin lib Dec 2016 #1
It's not morbid at all. I've got an ever changing playlist NightWatcher Dec 2016 #2
I love that song! cabot Dec 2016 #3
You could probably pick half of his discography and it'd fit. NightWatcher Dec 2016 #5
I freely admit I bawled my eyes out as he sang that on Letterman OriginalGeek Dec 2016 #45
Closing Time by Leonard Cohen: ret5hd Dec 2016 #4
Great choice. Amazing poet with a voice that reflected the emotions evoked by his songs. nt SickAndTiredOfRepubs Dec 2016 #18
Not a 'song,' exactly: elleng Dec 2016 #6
Miles' Kind of Blue... First Speaker Dec 2016 #7
Elton John, "Funeral For A Friend" lastlib Dec 2016 #8
This, maybe: The Velveteen Ocelot Dec 2016 #9
... Solly Mack Dec 2016 #10
ZZTop benld74 Dec 2016 #11
won't have a funeral Skittles Dec 2016 #12
I absolutely agree with your opinion ailsagirl Dec 2016 #34
"Where Eagles Dare" by the Misfits FSogol Dec 2016 #13
Three Little Birds rug Dec 2016 #14
These two Va Lefty Dec 2016 #15
"Dancing in Heaven"...Q Feel Tikki Dec 2016 #16
Anything that ever made Dr. Demento's weekly Funny Five. n/t eShirl Dec 2016 #17
"It's time for Num-ber One! Yes it is. Here it comes. Number One!" Iggo Dec 2016 #19
"Into The Mystic" -- Van Morrison. Iggo Dec 2016 #20
One of my absolute favorites. redwitch Dec 2016 #25
Yep, great send-off song. Iggo Dec 2016 #27
A band from here in NY does a tribute song to Into the Mystic. redwitch Dec 2016 #28
Cool, cool. Can't wait. Iggo Dec 2016 #29
Found it! redwitch Dec 2016 #30
That was nice! Iggo Dec 2016 #36
The lyrics are gorgeous aren't they? redwitch Dec 2016 #42
Chisled in Stone by Vern Goslin onecent Dec 2016 #21
well, I do know that the opposition will be playing "happy days are here again" once I am niyad Dec 2016 #22
Layla jcboon Dec 2016 #23
B-52s, Devo, maybe a little Ramones for the wind-down. Then close with Gary Numan Bucky Dec 2016 #24
When most people are asked this question they come up with a song stopbush Dec 2016 #26
In that vein, I'd consider "Keep The Customer Satisfied" by Simon &Garfunkel. Iggo Dec 2016 #38
"Shiver Me Timbers" by Tom Waits (nt) Paladin Dec 2016 #31
What a great song -- says it all. LuckyLib Dec 2016 #68
Posts like this make me love the Lounge. JudyM Dec 2016 #32
"Take Me Out to the Ball Game" mikeargo Dec 2016 #33
Finnegan's Wake struggle4progress Dec 2016 #35
Nature Boy -- Nat King Cole Zorro Dec 2016 #37
Bill Evan's "Peace Piece". jalan48 Dec 2016 #39
Pink Floyd- "Fearless" Doc_Technical Dec 2016 #40
The Dropkick Murpys Going Out In Style davsand Dec 2016 #41
"Spirit in the Sky," Norm Greenbaum Efilroft Sul Dec 2016 #43
"Piano Man" (the Tonight Show version where Elton messes up the lyrics) spiderpig Dec 2016 #44
I picture people sobbing to.... PassingFair Dec 2016 #46
Please Don't Bury Me bluedigger Dec 2016 #47
"The Body of an American," the Pogues shenmue Dec 2016 #48
Within You Without You Mr.Bill Dec 2016 #49
Seasons in the Sun jpak Dec 2016 #50
There can only be one choice NobodyHere Dec 2016 #51
The Great Gig In The Sky by Pink Floyd Lilyhoney Dec 2016 #52
Can't decide between... FrankfurtCat Dec 2016 #53
Message auto-removed Name removed Dec 2016 #54
"and when I die" onethatcares Dec 2016 #55
A Whiter Shade of Pale by Procol Harum. reflection Dec 2016 #56
"Always Look On The Bright Side Of Life" progressoid Dec 2016 #57
: Floyd R. Turbo Dec 2016 #58
Free Bird! BuddyCa Dec 2016 #59
Piper. Amazing grace. trof Dec 2016 #60
It's not morbid (or maybe it is)... but i have a playlist already created Rhythm Dec 2016 #61
Simply Having a Wonderful Christmastime. milestogo Dec 2016 #62
Ode to Joy Hekate Dec 2016 #63
My son and I decided to go morbid, for fun and kicks. nilesobek Dec 2016 #64
It's not morbid MountainMama Dec 2016 #65
Brokedown Palace (Grateful Dead) ghostsinthemachine Dec 2016 #66
Somewhere Over The Rainbow... Frustratedlady Dec 2016 #67
Eva Cassidy's version would be marvelous, no? dixiegrrrrl Dec 2016 #74
Lovely. I'll have to look into that. I'm not familiar with her music... Frustratedlady Dec 2016 #75
Her music was released after her too early death at age 32. dixiegrrrrl Dec 2016 #76
Sorry to hear that. Being older, I pretty much stick to earlier artists... Frustratedlady Dec 2016 #80
I first heard her in spring of 1998, singing Over the Rainbow. dixiegrrrrl Dec 2016 #81
This piece--soft and contemplative DFW Dec 2016 #69
Well, I don't really want a funeral at all. LeftishBrit Dec 2016 #70
When God Made Me jack69 Dec 2016 #71
Boogie 'til You Puke pfitz59 Dec 2016 #72
When Irish Eyes are Smiling IrishEyes Dec 2016 #73
Fairport Convention - "Who Knows Where The Time Goes" BluesRunTheGame Dec 2016 #77
easy answer demon in basement Dec 2016 #78
Magic Carpet Ride--Steppenwolf. kairos12 Dec 2016 #79
I'm going to have to die several deaths... FrankfurtCat Dec 2016 #82
Bill Kirchen's Rockabilly Funeral HeartachesNhangovers Dec 2016 #83

Response to cabot (Original post)

NightWatcher

(39,343 posts)
5. You could probably pick half of his discography and it'd fit.
Mon Dec 5, 2016, 12:15 AM
Dec 2016

Did you see his last week on Letterman when he knew he was dying?


I was diagnosed with something almost 4 years ago and while I slowed it down, I still got it inside of me, attacking my organs. I'm doing ok and took his advice to heart. "Enjoy every sandwich" he said and I do. I'm technically in remission but it's great advice. It sounds morbid but once you come to realize you're sick, you've no excuse to not enjoy every second of your time left.

Sorry to jack your thread

OriginalGeek

(12,132 posts)
45. I freely admit I bawled my eyes out as he sang that on Letterman
Tue Dec 6, 2016, 05:44 PM
Dec 2016

Even my dog looked at me funny but I didn't care.


Best wishes to you. Sometimes, I eat dessert first.

elleng

(131,227 posts)
6. Not a 'song,' exactly:
Mon Dec 5, 2016, 12:19 AM
Dec 2016


Have always loved the piece; saw it performed when visiting Prague, and almost my 'homeland.'

lastlib

(23,339 posts)
8. Elton John, "Funeral For A Friend"
Mon Dec 5, 2016, 12:40 AM
Dec 2016

/"Love Lies Bleeding"

And of course, Led Zeppelin, "Stairway To Heaven" (the greatest song ever recorded!

ailsagirl

(22,899 posts)
34. I absolutely agree with your opinion
Mon Dec 5, 2016, 11:00 PM
Dec 2016

Last edited Sat Dec 10, 2016, 07:50 PM - Edit history (1)

Both of them!!

Added later: If I did have to choose a song, Enya's "Orinoco Flow" would be it.

Iggo

(47,579 posts)
27. Yep, great send-off song.
Mon Dec 5, 2016, 02:51 PM
Dec 2016

A little bit sad and a little bit happy.

And definitely a tear-jerker. I want them suckers to be bawling.

redwitch

(14,951 posts)
28. A band from here in NY does a tribute song to Into the Mystic.
Mon Dec 5, 2016, 03:42 PM
Dec 2016

The band is/was Gandalf Murphy and the Slombovian Circus of Dreams. I will try to find it for you, I think you will appreciate it.

niyad

(113,636 posts)
22. well, I do know that the opposition will be playing "happy days are here again" once I am
Mon Dec 5, 2016, 12:37 PM
Dec 2016

gone.

no funeral, a big party, sooooo. . . whatever my friends want to hear!!

Bucky

(54,087 posts)
24. B-52s, Devo, maybe a little Ramones for the wind-down. Then close with Gary Numan
Mon Dec 5, 2016, 12:46 PM
Dec 2016

Yes, I never really left high school

stopbush

(24,397 posts)
26. When most people are asked this question they come up with a song
Mon Dec 5, 2016, 02:05 PM
Dec 2016

that expresses just how much the world is going to miss them and the profound effect they had on the human condition.

I think Peter Sellers got it right when he suppossedly had "In The Mood" played at his funeral.

Iggo

(47,579 posts)
38. In that vein, I'd consider "Keep The Customer Satisfied" by Simon &Garfunkel.
Mon Dec 5, 2016, 11:28 PM
Dec 2016

Folk singers topped off by breathless obnoxious trumpets.

Fun.

spiderpig

(10,419 posts)
44. "Piano Man" (the Tonight Show version where Elton messes up the lyrics)
Tue Dec 6, 2016, 03:40 PM
Dec 2016

I've instructed my survivors to provide barstools for all celebrants)

PassingFair

(22,434 posts)
46. I picture people sobbing to....
Tue Dec 6, 2016, 05:57 PM
Dec 2016

Fields of Gold.... sung by Eva Cassidy.

Also, The Dark Isle:



My father was a piper, and this one always made me cry.
The piper at his funeral was chosen based on his ability to play this one...

Response to cabot (Original post)

reflection

(6,286 posts)
56. A Whiter Shade of Pale by Procol Harum.
Wed Dec 7, 2016, 09:15 AM
Dec 2016

Beautiful and nonsensical, like life itself. And the organ lends itself very well to a funeral.

I actually have a will with 3 songs I want played at the funeral, and this is the first one listed.

trof

(54,256 posts)
60. Piper. Amazing grace.
Wed Dec 7, 2016, 08:49 PM
Dec 2016

I am an atheist.
But that song, done by a piper, always reduces me to tears.
Go figure.

Rhythm

(5,435 posts)
61. It's not morbid (or maybe it is)... but i have a playlist already created
Thu Dec 8, 2016, 12:33 AM
Dec 2016

All kinds of things i have loved over the years...
There's like 30+ songs on it for my friends and family to choose from when that time comes.
i'm sure i will be adding to it and changing it as i get even older than the 50 years i have lived so far.









milestogo

(16,829 posts)
62. Simply Having a Wonderful Christmastime.
Thu Dec 8, 2016, 12:47 AM
Dec 2016

Doesn't matter what season. It will make everyone miserable.

Hekate

(90,891 posts)
63. Ode to Joy
Thu Dec 8, 2016, 01:43 AM
Dec 2016

But the first time I ever heard The Parting Glass I knew I wanted to sing it for my brother if by any chance I outlived him.

nilesobek

(1,423 posts)
64. My son and I decided to go morbid, for fun and kicks.
Thu Dec 8, 2016, 06:40 AM
Dec 2016

Songs, like Electric Funeral, Children of the Grave, both by Black Sabbath, played at an unconscionable volume.

We have a whole playlist of death songs for this. We want the attendees to become uncomfortable as we celebrate my death...and death in general.

It's not an original idea, there is a celebration of death in Mexico I've heard about.

MountainMama

(237 posts)
65. It's not morbid
Thu Dec 8, 2016, 04:16 PM
Dec 2016

I want "Seasons of Love" from "Rent" and "Blackbird" by the Beatles. Something from Johnny Cash, too, but I'm not sure what.

Frustratedlady

(16,254 posts)
75. Lovely. I'll have to look into that. I'm not familiar with her music...
Sun Dec 11, 2016, 06:30 PM
Dec 2016

but I do like it. She accents the part of leaving problems behind and thinking positive on beyond.

dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
76. Her music was released after her too early death at age 32.
Sun Dec 11, 2016, 06:45 PM
Dec 2016

and it is still hugely popular. you tube has excellent collection of her songs.
Her version of Autumn Leaves is very moving, as is Fields of Gold.

Frustratedlady

(16,254 posts)
80. Sorry to hear that. Being older, I pretty much stick to earlier artists...
Mon Dec 12, 2016, 09:09 AM
Dec 2016

thus, I don't recognize many of the younger singers. Yes, she certainly did die too young.

Thanks for the suggestions. I'll check them out.

dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
81. I first heard her in spring of 1998, singing Over the Rainbow.
Mon Dec 12, 2016, 01:25 PM
Dec 2016

Heard it on a jazz program on the car radio, stopped the car to listen, and called the station when I got home, for her name.

Now, almost 20 years later, she is just as popular.
amazing.

DFW

(54,448 posts)
69. This piece--soft and contemplative
Fri Dec 9, 2016, 09:09 PM
Dec 2016


Also his tune "A Child Should Be A Fish" from the Ice Water album

LeftishBrit

(41,212 posts)
70. Well, I don't really want a funeral at all.
Sat Dec 10, 2016, 05:56 PM
Dec 2016

My death is not a social event!

But if it is made into one, might as well go the whole hog with:

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