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(5,191 posts)Russian interference is OK! Augh!!!!!
Floyd R. Turbo
(26,546 posts)First Speaker
(4,858 posts)...in short, we were allowed to be kids. Our childhood wasn't stolen from us, in the name of Good Intentions.
Floyd R. Turbo
(26,546 posts)FoxNewsSucks
(10,429 posts)was "free-range" kids then
Still In Wisconsin
(4,450 posts)Boxerfan
(2,533 posts)If a kid anywhere in the neighborhood got a new fridge we would purloin the box from the curb & make a toboggan out of it.
Major grass burns from ditching at high speed & wouldn't have had it any other way.
Floyd R. Turbo
(26,546 posts)A cardboard box could be anything you wanted. I had one that was time machine! Beware of Morlocks!😏
angstlessk
(11,862 posts)my grandmother tacked it between two large trees in the yard...instant fort!
At four years I roamed the neighborhood and took the mail from lots of mailboxes and brought it home...my mother informed me I could go to jail and we had to re-deliver said mail.
At four I also begged coins from my dads employees for 'soda and snack'..used said proceeds to catch a bus...ALONE..to the end of the route, at which time the bus driver said I had to exit the bus. I walked the neighborhood, crying, and some little girl who was home 'sick' from school was jumping rope in her front yard and took me in to her mother...she called the police, and the only thing I knew at the time was my name was kitty boo and my daddy owned a cleaners...they found the cleaners and my mother (who worked there) said my heels were slapping my fanny as I ran home. I have no idea if the bus driver was admonished?
My two twin cousins and I roamed our neighborhoods all summer in search for fruit trees..and found them all!
flor-de-jasmim
(2,125 posts)Luciferous
(6,078 posts)MyOwnPeace
(16,926 posts)the street lights come on.
That was my summer rule.
NEVER a concern where you were and for how long - just be home "when the street lights come on!"
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Floyd R. Turbo
(26,546 posts)Jeroen
(1,061 posts)And the summer seemed to last forever!
Binkie The Clown
(7,911 posts)Still Blue in PDX
(1,999 posts)I learned some words that I have yet to use in conversation.
Hoyt
(54,770 posts)jberryhill
(62,444 posts)lunasun
(21,646 posts)But now days I don't think they would even leave that stuff in a bin with access
Had a whole collection of wild swirly glass blobs . So did other kids around the area of course it caught on!
Still In Wisconsin
(4,450 posts)You came home when you heard your bell. I'm 52 now and I can still hear the slow, rhythmic cling-clang of mine. Come to think of it I can just about hear all the other neighborhood kids' bells too.
zipplewrath
(16,646 posts)Gong actually. Mom would step out onto the porch and call us all to dinner by ringing that gong.
jberryhill
(62,444 posts)She used a cowbell. Seriously.
Crazy lady out on the porch with a cowbell.
jberryhill
(62,444 posts)And their mom would come out with a freaking referee's whistle and blow three sets of three long bursts. You could hear that thing for miles.
I remember thinking, so that's what they do in Wisconsin, eh?
Still In Wisconsin
(4,450 posts)pansypoo53219
(20,976 posts)at least south eat WI. no bells in the outer hood tho.
Still In Wisconsin
(4,450 posts)Wawannabe
(5,657 posts)I have a very unique whistle.
Taught my son to listen for it in case we were ever parted or I could not find him.
It is very LOUD, too. So he would be able to hear it a ways away.
Only employed a few times but that kid showed up each time!
moonscape
(4,673 posts)llmart
(15,536 posts)We used to watch it go down the street! It's a wonder we're not all dead yet.
moonscape
(4,673 posts)We kids hated it. We'd watch and then as the fog seemed like it was chasing us we'd run!
AgadorSparticus
(7,963 posts)I wish they could live in a world where they can safely have that sort of freedom.
tazkcmo
(7,300 posts)I'm sure there are a few young people that do it but I get some crazy looks when I set aside 20 bucks every pay day for a future purchase. Credit used to be for high priced purchases like a house or car and even the car could be saved for. Now I know people buying food with a cc w/o paying off the balance before interest accrues. A loan for food? Things are pretty bad for a lot of families right now.
Floyd R. Turbo
(26,546 posts)LisaM
(27,808 posts)I used to put clothes on layaway and look forward to the day I got to take the outfit home and wear it!
tazkcmo
(7,300 posts)I remember lay away, too. Eegads. I'm my grandpa...
LisaM
(27,808 posts)I don't use it anymore, but I think KMart (and probably Walmart) have it.
LeftInTX
(25,305 posts)They did not believe in mortgages.
llmart
(15,536 posts)for delayed gratification. Most people nowadays don't understand the value in that. You have to understand psychology to "get it" - that waiting for something makes it so much more special.
bobbieinok
(12,858 posts)My brother's step-daughter's reaction 'What did you guys DO??'
Ñote: we were kids in the 40s and earely 50s.
Floyd R. Turbo
(26,546 posts)MFM008
(19,808 posts)The parents of who you were going to see called to let them know you were there ok.
Floyd R. Turbo
(26,546 posts)mahatmakanejeeves
(57,432 posts)Floyd R. Turbo
(26,546 posts)poor to have fire!
A HERETIC I AM
(24,367 posts)TexasProgresive
(12,157 posts)Kids today, at least here, are only outdoors in adult regulated and supervised sports. How boring.
LuckyLib
(6,819 posts)running around with friends all day long. Acting out TV dramas, huge hide and seek games. Fun! No adults around!
ailsagirl
(22,896 posts)Counted the stars, talked half the night.
Can't do that today-- that's for sure
moose65
(3,166 posts)And most of these kids have every moment of their time scheduled and supervised by their parents. I used to go out "exploring" after school in the woods or would ride bikes with the neighbors and we would go like 5 or 6 miles away from home. My parents didn't know where I was and there was no constant contact via cell phones. We were free!
Freddie
(9,265 posts)All day at age 5 and up with no grownups watching. I have a 6 year old granddaughter and can't imagine her folks allowing this. I let my kids play free outside with neighbor kids but not til 7 or 8.
lindysalsagal
(20,680 posts)We would eventually come home when hungry, filthy, bug-bitten, sun-burned, and exhausted. And happy.
One time we got so lost in the woods we were 2 hours late for dinner. No one even cared when we finally found the road and made it home. They were all eating dinner, having totally forgotten us. Awesome.
Golden Raisin
(4,608 posts)out of the way when the occasional car came along and the car slowed down too. Giant Steps! Rover Red Rover! Hopscotch (that was usually on the sidewalk!)
Still In Wisconsin
(4,450 posts)lindysalsagal
(20,680 posts)all the while. So much fun, everyone in the house hearing what you're saying and who you're talking with.
Mother: "Who's that?" "Why are you talking to him/her?"
DBoon
(22,363 posts)The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,683 posts)so the cord would stretch enough for me to stuff myself into the broom closet with the phone and close the door most of the way. That was the only privacy I got.
ailsagirl
(22,896 posts)when it was deemed that I had talked long enough
TexasBushwhacker
(20,185 posts)Lasted about 15 minutes in Houston's humidity. Now they just use flat irons.
luvMIdog
(2,533 posts)and all the hot sweaty kids lining up for a couple spoons of it
Wawannabe
(5,657 posts)Got a second place one time with my hand cranked version of peach!
Yum
luvMIdog
(2,533 posts)rurallib
(62,411 posts)from the big cities far away that had all night TV.
Now it is 24X7 on cable but back then TV shut down at midnight or earlier. Then we'd get to play with the signals that would bounce around when there was high pressure over our area.
In the midwest on a good night we could get some good to fuzzy pictures from Seattle, New York, Chicago, Louisville, Denver and many more.
What a thrill to see signals from around the country.
Aristus
(66,328 posts)Plus, consulting printed matter for, well, anything really...
rurallib
(62,411 posts)station.
All these years later I think I could name about half of the 50,000 watt stations - or their cities at least.
Phoenix61
(17,003 posts)so they made a really cool sound when you were riding. Riding bikes behind the skeeter truck. That probably wasn't the best idea. I have no idea what kind of poison they were spraying back then.
Phentex
(16,334 posts)but I can still remember that smell!
jberryhill
(62,444 posts)Those clouds were great and I haven't had any lasting edddjjenenects
lunasun
(21,646 posts)asiliveandbreathe
(8,203 posts)I remember stacking the 45 records..we had 33 1/3 and 78's...Burl Ives, Georgia Gibbs, Bing Crosby - oh my....
roscoeroscoe
(1,370 posts)Who had little dance parties... He had all these 45's like Jackson Five. Soul Train fun times!
Skittles
(153,160 posts)jberryhill
(62,444 posts)Still In Wisconsin
(4,450 posts)ailsagirl
(22,896 posts)peacebuzzard
(5,170 posts)those once abundant critters have been decimated. Encyclopedias always had their own bookcase in the house, and were great to read.
planetc
(7,808 posts)We were a group of three, my brother, and sister, and me, and nobody had put ground glass in candy in those days. So we put on our super costumes, hand made by Mom, and went out trick or treating. Being a whole block from home after dark, with the wind blowing the branches around and the street light shadows moving, and it would have been scary, except we were all together, and there was safety in numbers. Kids couldn't have that experience today. Also spending your entire summer in motion, in bare feet. To this day I regret the loss of calluses on the bottoms of my feet. Being allowed to stay up a bit late to hear The Green Hornet on the radio. It was an idyllic childhood.
Lars39
(26,109 posts)Laffy Kat
(16,377 posts)We could run down the street on the asphalt and sparks would fly!
The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,683 posts)So they were all pink with calamine lotion. I still remember the smell of that stuff.
Laffy Kat
(16,377 posts)Lars39
(26,109 posts)ailsagirl
(22,896 posts)I used to cut my toes up doing that-- I can still remember the blood
Lars39
(26,109 posts)I don't remember ever any cuts, and we had chert gravel. But I vividly remember getting my foot cut in the spikes of my bike.
ailsagirl
(22,896 posts)Lars39
(26,109 posts)llmart
(15,536 posts)I still have scars on both knees from that and probably some old gravel deeply embedded
Lars39
(26,109 posts)Covered head to toe in merthiolate and bandaids.
The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,683 posts)with instructions to come home when it started to get dark. We'd go from house to house to see who was around to hang out with, then maybe take off on our bikes. There was a swamp not too far away and sometimes we'd go there to poke around in the mud and try to make boats that wouldn't sink. If it was raining we'd hang out in somebody's room or their basement rec room and play games or draw or make up stories. We rarely interacted with parents - they left us alone for the most part except a mom might make sandwiches and lemonade if we were in a house or a back yard. We were semi-feral. I can't imagine constant adult supervision and play dates and organized activities.
irisblue
(32,971 posts)Said Grandma D...
Likely a thousand times
ailsagirl
(22,896 posts)Keep those doors shut!!
sarge43
(28,941 posts)Love it! And so true.
Doreen
(11,686 posts)will be with. I remember not having to make plans on where you were going and who you were going to be with. No appointments with your friends parents to be there with them. Also running in and out of each others houses all day to find which parent is going to feed you or give you money for the ice cream man.
csziggy
(34,136 posts)Watching the launch of the moon rockets on TV then running out to watch and listen as they got high enough to see from our backyard ninety miles away. Watching men walk on the moon for the first time.
I did spend most of my childhood outside. No one seemed to worry about us kids playing in and around the swamp/lake next to our house, even after my dog was killed by a water moccasin and another neighborhood dog was eaten by one of the alligators that lived there.
We were a feral pack of kids - and most of the kids in my age group were girls, but that didn't stop us from getting covered in mud, collecting wildlife, and generally getting into stuff. My Mom was pretty tough, too. Mom didn't freak out when my sisters and I brought home handfuls of ring neck snake babies. She did help us find out what they needed to stay alive and to recognize that we were not going to be able to keep them supplied with insects. That research convinced us to let the snakes loose before they starved to death. We learned that wild animals don't make the best pets despite our repeated efforts to find new species to adopt.
jberryhill
(62,444 posts)And were allowed to play with it?
csziggy
(34,136 posts)Because otherwise Mom would have made my sisters stay inside.
The radio was actually Dad's but that summer he was working eighteen hour days trying to start a new business so when Sputnik was launched he let them take it out to listen. We were living in a rental house outside the crossroads that passed for a town. Dad's business was in another little crossroads town smaller than the one where we were staying. We all lived in fear his business would take off since he had scoped out a house to buy near his business so we could live there year round. I think we kids were the only ones happy when he nearly went bankrupt when the business failed and we could go back home.
That summer sucked for anything fun - there were no kids nearby, no library, nothing to do. Mom sent us to Bible school at the local church but whatever denomination it was they taught a totally different form of Christianity than the Presbyterian Church in our hometown. It was confusing for a five year old and I argued with the teacher about some of the stuff that sounded wrong - mostly about the things they thought should send people to hell - so I was not very well liked by the teachers or their children.
The most fun thing was following my sisters around. My oldest sister hunted butterflies that summer and got a nice collection, but I didn't like that she killed them. My other sister found a stash of bottles from when our rental house had been a doctor's home and office. Those were pretty cool, but when we packed to go home there was no room for them so they got left.
So when my oldest sister heard about Sputnik, we got all excited because it was something to do in a wasteland for activities.
WinkyDink
(51,311 posts)jberryhill
(62,444 posts)jpak
(41,757 posts)We were not disappointed.
csziggy
(34,136 posts)With street lights and more traffic. While the skies were still darker than they are now, they were not as dark as that rental house in the middle of nowhere.
Major Nikon
(36,827 posts)Kaleva
(36,298 posts)Phentex
(16,334 posts)I mean there are only so many ways you can name the capital of state.
earthshine
(1,642 posts)When my grandfather died, and then when my father died, I inherited loads of useful pliers, screwdrivers, drills, sanders, and so much more. When I use one of these tools, I always feel the love that was there when they lived.
I have no children of my own. My nephews have no interest in learning how to use them. <sigh>
wcmagumba
(2,886 posts)I'm currently living with my sister and 20 year old (soph. in college) nephew. He plans to major in biology but has no seeming interest in ever being outside (smart kid but always gaming). I have been doing a bunch of neglected yard work and minor repairs and every time he sees me with a tool (or even outside) he looks at me like I am crazy and often will ask "what are you doing", with that teen-20 something disdain and simply walks off...weird. I was always outside our little edge of small town house in the fields and creek (polluted from the nearby oil refinery, but I didn't know that at the time). I had a paper route I delivered by bike and could go anywhere in town. There used to be local stores in the neighborhoods where the operators/owners lived in the back or upstairs. I used to ride to the local drugstore just to buy a superman or other comic book. Great fun...all gone now...
lunasun
(21,646 posts)Grandfathers coal shovel. As you said I'm not done feeling the love of using them yet. The coal shovel is not used for coal of course
A lot of folks like old tools maybe hook up with someone when you think you are probably not going to use them much anymore . They will love the history I bet and you will be part of it by then!
LeftInTX
(25,305 posts)One is an architect and the other a mechanical engineer.
We used to have issues with them getting too into my husband's stuff. The engineer - LOL even had a battery collection. He collected C and D batteries. When we needed a battery, we would just bug him about it.
Grammy23
(5,810 posts)In the hot Mississippi summer time, that was a top hit with the neighborhood kids. When the heat got to be too much and we were tired of running around, we retreated to the screened porch of the family across the street. One time we started a marathon Monopoly game that went on for three days and only ended when a big gust of wind came along and scattered our money and property cards all over the porch. Other favorite games were Go Fish, Cootie and War (card game).
Those were some happy days....
roscoeroscoe
(1,370 posts)We played those long Monopoly games labor day weekend during the Jerry Lewis Telethon - remember how that was a big deal?
Grammy23
(5,810 posts)I never understood how he held up. He was all but hallucinating at the end!
Oh, and I also remember looking forward to the Miss America pageant every year. Seems like it was around Labor Day, too. I lived in Mississippi when our contestant won two years in a row! 1959 and 1960. Mary Ann Mobley and Lynda Lee Mead. My younger sister and I would watch, totally involved in it and cried at the end when Burt Parks sang the theme song. The talent has definitely changed since then. Baton twirlers, dramatic recitations and even a fashion show where the contestant wore clothing she designed and sewed were typical. There was not the emphasis on the academic achievements or asperations of the contestant like we see today. The bathing suits were modest and, if I remember, all were from Jantzen or Catalina. Not a two piece in sight!
livetohike
(22,140 posts)Going into the woods in the morning and playing there all day until supper time.Sleeping out in the backyard and making a campfire to pop corn and bake potatoes.
Grammy23
(5,810 posts)After a day of that, my toes would be soooo sore. But of course, that didn't stop me from strapping those skates on the next day.
byronius
(7,394 posts)Still in five states, I think. Trump states.
mercuryblues
(14,531 posts)measles, mumps, chicken pox. Which is why some millennials are anti-vac.
The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,683 posts)My mom was a nurse and she remembered taking care of kids in iron lungs. We weren't allowed to go swimming in public swimming areas or pools on hot summer days even though pools were chlorinated by then. As soon as the Salk vaccine came out she hustled our butts to the doctor to get the shots, which we were not thrilled about. We did get measles, mumps and chicken pox because there were no vaccines for those things then; but we did get the smallpox vaccination (and now smallpox is effectively eradicated). Anti-vaxxers are idiots.
jberryhill
(62,444 posts)I do not understand this "You can't enroll your kid in school unless they've been vaccinated" stuff.
School was where we GOT vaccinated!
WTF ever happened to that? All the kids need them and, hey guess what? They also need to be in school.
Why is this no longer freaking obvious as hell?
Oh, yeah, AND an annual physical exam, hearing tests, and vision tests.
The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,683 posts)but I do remember getting Mantoux tests and the oral Sabin vaccine at school, and hearing tests at some point.
jpak
(41,757 posts)There were n objections
enid602
(8,616 posts)One of the kids in my neighborhood had a 30 foot may pole in his back yard with about 8 or ten ropes with a sling at the end of each rope. Each kid would sit in a sling and run as fast as they could. Each kid would go flying. Too dangerous for today. Liability and all.
jpak
(41,757 posts)We would all pitch in to make one - and would hang them on teacher.
The older teachers were more fun as they were not fast enough to catch us.
WinkyDink
(51,311 posts)Indians" with toy guns. Having Teen Idols who never went naked or had a sex-tape.
Non-electronic music.
Laffy Kat
(16,377 posts)WinkyDink
(51,311 posts)Wawannabe
(5,657 posts)Doing that.
Never liked guns but I bought rolls and used all kinds of stuff to make em pop!
Zorro
(15,740 posts)Sounded like a real gunshot. Got all the neighborhood parents to come streaming out of their houses.
I won't forget that for several reasons...
irisblue
(32,971 posts)I am the oldest of 6 kids, and the first born & a girl, going inside to get a drink, for sure meant changing diapers, watching a littler one or something less fun.
TeamPooka
(24,223 posts)Still In Wisconsin
(4,450 posts)jberryhill
(62,444 posts)Did you get to work the projector?
Or, better, actual films.... "Play it backwards, pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeaassse!"
Still In Wisconsin
(4,450 posts)redstateblues
(10,565 posts)stopbush
(24,396 posts)was sit on a varnished wood floor while hiding under a wooden desk.
jberryhill
(62,444 posts)No, the only way to survive a Communist first strike on the critical facilities of your elementary school is to sit cross-legged on the linoleum floor in the hallway, while facing a cinder block wall with your hands clasped on the back of your head.
The rest of civilization will be incinerated but, god-dammit, you will emerge from the rubble as long as you can uncross your legs afterwards.
stopbush
(24,396 posts)in the old building, linoleum in the newer annex.
llmart
(15,536 posts)I can clearly remember being about 7 or 8 and thinking "What good is this going to do?"
I was a bit precocious
Laffy Kat
(16,377 posts)If we got really thirsty we'd wander into someone's back yard and drink out of their water hose. We lived.
Kaleva
(36,298 posts)jberryhill
(62,444 posts)Can you freaking imagine?
Kaleva
(36,298 posts)JenniferJuniper
(4,512 posts)the kids had an actual riot when they were told they could no longer smoke inside and had to stay out on the patio.
Wawannabe
(5,657 posts)Principal smoked a pipe in his office.
Windows open in early fall and the smell of cherry pipe tobacco wafting through the rambling three story brick building.
Can still smell it too!
jberryhill
(62,444 posts)The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,683 posts)I saw him do a live comedy act, late '60s, it was hilarious. Who'd have thought he'd turn out to be a total perv?
LeftInTX
(25,305 posts)The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,683 posts)Cold War stuff, military jets operating out of MSP. They were very startling; they made the windows rattle.
ailsagirl
(22,896 posts)Sounded how (what I imagined) a bomb going off would sound
unblock
(52,208 posts)No hyper-partisan lying.
Republicans and democrats went out of their way to show the points where they agreed.
No "what common thing in your kitchen can kill you? Find out on news tonight!"
No screaming or interrupting.
Just "and that's the way it is."
JenniferJuniper
(4,512 posts)Eugene
(61,881 posts)Penmanship class brings back lots of memories.
Also no in-school lunch. In my elementary school
kids went home to eat except during winter.
cwydro
(51,308 posts)In the cafeteria.
cwydro
(51,308 posts)Hell, my first bike had no brakes.
Wawannabe
(5,657 posts)After my first cuz was killed by head injury riding a bike and hit by car.
I made sure my kid had one!
Helicopter? No, I love him.
LeftInTX
(25,305 posts)I had just learned to rid my bike in Japan.
We moved to Seattle, but the move took several months.
When I finally got my bike from the movers, I rode down the hill on our block.
My dad kept yelling, "Put on the brake"
I had no idea what he was talking about.
The bike gained speed and crossed a street.
I finally just jumped off the thing.
I was probably going at least 10 mph.
sakabatou
(42,152 posts)The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,683 posts)How about the test pattern that was on TV all night after midnight, when the stations played the national anthem and then went off the air? Internet! Pffft!
Wawannabe
(5,657 posts)Damn. Must be old.
I for sure remember 2400 bd modems too!
The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,683 posts)And the kind you'd attach your phone headset to, called an acoustic coupler:
Eugene
(61,881 posts)The senior engineers had the VDT's with the 2400 baud modems.
Support people like me had portable 300 baud printing terminals.
sakabatou
(42,152 posts)rurallib
(62,411 posts)not to mention B&W TV
ailsagirl
(22,896 posts)The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,683 posts)CottonBear
(21,596 posts)I watched Star Trek reruns on Channel 17 back in the 1970s.
Lars39
(26,109 posts)ailsagirl
(22,896 posts)The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,683 posts)We loved them. I even remember a couple:
Don't stick your elbow
Out too far
Or it may go home
In another car.
Burma Shave
Free! Free!
A trip to Mars
For 900
Empty jars.
Burma Shave
Chipper Chat
(9,678 posts)Around the curve likkity split.
It's a beautiful car
WASN'T IT
Mopar151
(9,983 posts)DON'T TAKE THAT CURVE
AT 60 PER
WE HATE TO LOSE
A CUSTOMER
BURMA SHAVE
demosincebirth
(12,536 posts)The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,683 posts)Lots of scraped elbows, knees and butts. And then there were those merry-go-round things - big round flat hunks of painted sheet metal that pivoted on an axis and had handles to hang onto while you ran along and made it go as fast as possible, then you'd jump on and hope you didn't slide off the other side onto the concrete, blacktop or gravel. They also got really, really hot out in the sun. I loved them.
demosincebirth
(12,536 posts)The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,683 posts)Actually, some of that playground equipment did cause some pretty serious injuries, which is why it's all made of plastic now.
jberryhill
(62,444 posts)Children who were killed by unreasonably dangerous toys and playground equipment are not around to say, "What's all the fuss about, we're still here!"
It's like marveling at medieval architecture and saying, "They knew how to build stuff that lasted hundreds of years!"
Ummm... because you are looking at the structures which didn't fall down.
The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,683 posts)I was never badly injured on a playground, though I got my share of scrapes and bruises; and I don't know anyone who was, but some of those things were obviously dangerous when you think about it - even though they were fun. I'm not sure why more people didn't notice some of those hazards at the time, like lawn darts, which were a pretty dumb idea in the first place. That stuff is much safer now, which is a good thing. But those merry-go-rounds were a whole lot of fun, and I don't know if there is anything like them any more.
ailsagirl
(22,896 posts)Actually, I rather miss those innocent days in certain respects
Oh, and Fizzies!!
http://lh3.ggpht.com/ShermCohen/SAZ0GRP3F6I/AAAAAAAAA1Y/7TjUvLkDtk8/Fizzies-Happy-Family[3].jpg?imgmax=800
blue neen
(12,319 posts)My brother and I LOVVVEEDDD Fizzies!
The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,683 posts)So were "poop" and "butt." I never even knew the word "fuck" until I was in about 7th grade, and I didn't know what it meant for quite awhile afterwards. I only knew that it was a very, very bad word that you must never under any circumstances say in front of a grownup.
luvMIdog
(2,533 posts)" You're a liar! My parents would never do something that filthy!" And then I stopped talking to her for a long time
The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,683 posts)and then you figured out that *your parents* must have done it... the horror...
lunasun
(21,646 posts)LeftInTX
(25,305 posts)ailsagirl
(22,896 posts)I thought Fizzies were actually fruit-flavored Alka-Seltzers at one time (when I was a kid, of course)
blue neen
(12,319 posts)Then we take them home to Mom. She'd boil them and make tea for us!
yellowdogintexas
(22,252 posts)There were four girls all the same age and some others who were a couple years younger We pretty much roamed as a pack, moving from one house to another. We made mud pies, picked fruit, slid down hills, hopscotch, jump rope, Red Rover, swinging statue, "Mother May I" and on rainy days, marathon Monopoly games or canasta. Lots of canasta.
When we hit our teens, we spent a lot of time sunbathing or camped out on someone's front porch where we could see and be seen by the local boys.
Creek swimming, running through the hose spray - anything to get wet and cool off.
I did a lot of reading too. I had one friend who was a reader and both our moms were too. The four of us passed around a fair number of books
We also had the lightening bugs, junebugs, porch swings and porch visiting at night. Oh and before whole house air conditioning, we would put breeze boxes in a couple of windows blowing out, and crack all the windows in the rest of the house so the hot day air would get pulled out. Then when we went to bed, all the windows except the bedrooms were closed and that would kick up some cool sleeping.
Of course that wouldn't work so well here in Texas, since it does not cool down at night here.
First Speaker
(4,858 posts)...when I grew up outside New Haven, CT, our town still was more of a small town, as opposed to a suburb. My relatives owned over 100 acres of woods and farm on the outskirts of town. Gone with the wind. Now it's developments and malls. A Stop and Shop is right where their cow pasture was. CT is still green and woodsy in spots, but it's green suburbia. Genuine "countryside" is virtually a thing of the past, and that's true for most of the Northeast Corridor, and increasingly in other parts of the country, too. I can't believe this is a good thing for the country, and feel that today's urban-suburban kids are missing something precious...
tblue37
(65,340 posts)The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,683 posts)tblue37
(65,340 posts)The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,683 posts)Now there's virtual reality headsets.
benld74
(9,904 posts)Not like today's cable cartoons 24x365
The_Casual_Observer
(27,742 posts)citood
(550 posts)Whenever I go home, I can't imagine swimming in that black water. It seemed perfectly normal growing up though. I also remember being puzzled when my mom would insist we takes baths after swimming in the lake - we thought we were clean since we had just been in water.
redstateblues
(10,565 posts)iamateacher
(1,089 posts)And A&W Root beer, and Shakey's Pizza Parlors. Up until then, pizza was out of a box and not very good. Shakey's had a player piano.
roscoeroscoe
(1,370 posts)We played 'tree dodge.' All the kids would be up in the tree except the kid with the ball. If you got hit, you had to go down and be it.
Grew up on Navy bases, kids everywhere so we could get enough kids together for 9-on each team baseball.
ailsagirl
(22,896 posts)The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,683 posts)The manhole cover was home plate. IIRC, the tree in our front yard was third base. When cars came down the street we'd just move out of the way.
ailsagirl
(22,896 posts)I never was very good at it but it was still fun
Yonnie3
(17,434 posts)Reading books in the shade of a tree on the days it was just too hot and humid to play.
Acting respectful to all adults (at least to their face).
Getting yourself to and from extracurricular events by walking or riding your bike.
Agreeing on the ONE TV show with your siblings you were allowed to watch. This became much more difficult when there were three(!) stations.
Reading (and explaining) the Sunday funnies in the paper to the younger kids.
DrivingOnThe Left
(33 posts)One of my saddest moments was trying to introduce my 6-year-old niece to Laurel and Hardy and her first comment was "Urgh - it's in black and white" Kids want everything in 4K HD these days.
MosheFeingold
(3,051 posts)1. Fleeing home because the Nazis had come to power and my father saw the writing on the wall.
2. Learning English on a boat.
3. Earning money by polishing shoes, selling newspapers, and acting as a runner for some shady guys who hung out by the coffee shop (mom put an end to this)
4. training to go to war with Nazis
5. Fighting Nazis
6. Being a cop, walking the beat in Crown Heights, and using a wooden billy club and a .38 revolver
7. Going to law school without going to college
8. Being excluded from the DC area country clubs for being Jewish.
9. Honest politicians, both parties
10. Bipartisanship
LeftInTX
(25,305 posts)One of my first memories is Dennis the Menace.
We are worlds apart.
Eugene
(61,881 posts)Not to mention television sets with channel dials and rabbit ear antennas.
underpants
(182,789 posts)LeftInTX
(25,305 posts)This was 1975 when bikini underwear was the newest thing for guys:
Called all the guys we knew and asked them if they preferred bikinis or traditional
I'm sure they didn't know who was calling.
jazzcat23
(176 posts)But prank phone calls were the best fun! If you could get a free line, usually long after dark.
underpants
(182,789 posts)not that long ago either
Welcome to DU
The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,683 posts)that sat on a little table next to the stairway. There was no extension cord - you just stood there and talked.
At my grandma's house there was a party line system where if the phone rang once it was for the other person on the line; if it rang twice it was for Grandma. But you could pick up and eavesdrop on the other line, though we never did.
llmart
(15,536 posts)I still have rabbit ears! I refuse to pay for cable. Sometimes I get about 20 stations.
Chipper Chat
(9,678 posts)You could be artistic and apply one strand at a time or you could be sloppy and have more fun by just to sing globs of it as high as you could and let it land where it wanted. But you had to keep an eye on the floor so the cat or crawling baby wouldn't ingest it.
The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,683 posts)The reason it draped so nicely is that it was made of lead. Lead tinsel was outlawed years ago (the '70s, I think), and now tinsel is made of shiny plastic, which is safer but it's light and flimsy and just doesn't drape as well. And you can't throw it at the top of the tree because it just flutters away.
Chipper Chat
(9,678 posts)Damn tinsel!
The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,683 posts)AmandaRuth
(3,105 posts)oh jr high. good memories. i can still here The Smiths Baby its You. All Skate! Couples only! The races
ailsagirl
(22,896 posts)Another ouch
chia
(2,244 posts)... late at night while dad drove us home from vacation (usually camping - there were six of us kids, no money to do much else).
No one wore seatbelts then, so during the day we kids were usually hopping up and down, holding on to the back of the seat right behind mom or dad's head.
murielm99
(30,736 posts)to see family movies. We would bring our own food.
Or, going to the Dairy Queen in the back of the station wagon to get ice cream cones.
I had two brothers. We would bring our friends sometimes, taking turns. Then, the friend would stay overnight at our house.
crazycatlady
(4,492 posts)And I remember those station wagons that had the rear facing 3rd row seat.
The other day, I crammed a 6 people into my Subaru (2 illegally) and 2 sat in the back end (Forester, so no trunk). I immediately had a flashback to being in elementary school and sitting in the 'way back'
chia
(2,244 posts)That's a 1968 Ford Country Sedan - boy does that take me back!
They'd fold down and then we could lie in the back, 2 or 3 across (I'm one of 6 kids).
Mosby
(16,306 posts)llmart
(15,536 posts)As kids we were always so excited when we were getting company. Does anyone get "company" any longer? We'd have to clean the house and my mother would bake something special for dessert. The adults would talk and us kids would eavesdrop.
doc03
(35,330 posts)on test papers.
doc03
(35,330 posts)neighbors our ring was a long and a short.
MyOwnPeace
(16,926 posts)"Joh-----nny - can you come out and play?"
Sometimes Johnny would come out, sometimes his Mom: "Johnny's not allowed out today - maybe tomorrow."
We'd go to Billy's next.................
sarge43
(28,941 posts)Took up one section of the newspaper, full page spread, beautiful artwork, exciting stories - Prince Valiant, Terry and the Pirates, Tarzan, The Phantom and more. A whole Sunday morning adventuring and didn't have to leave the living room floor.