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Behind the Aegis

(53,956 posts)
Fri Oct 22, 2021, 03:29 PM Oct 2021

Jonathan Bennett details the extreme homophobia that made him develop ulcers

Actor Jonathan Bennett has opened up about growing up in an environment so homophobic he developed stomach ulcers.

Bennett, 40, took to Instagram to share the story to coincide with Spirit Day, the annual celebration that encourages people to wear purple as a sign of anti-bullying solidarity with the queer community. The Mean Girls star offered the tale as a means of inspiring other LGBTQ youth experiencing bullying that life can–and does–get better.

“I give you a video of a 16-year-old gay boy in Ohio,” Bennett wrote. “He has a pitchy voice, no rhythm, and can’t dance to save his life. He’s awkward, his teeth are too big for his face, and he lives in fear every single day because he doesn’t fit in with the rest of the boys in his class. He constantly gets pushed into a locker by an assh*le named Justin and when he walks down the halls he gets called a faggot.”

“He cries himself to sleep every night and develops stomach ulcers because of the stress and the homophobia in his small town,” he further confessed. “He thinks really dark thoughts and lives miserably in secret.”

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Alcoholism, drug misuse, suicide, mental health issues (depression, OCD, agoraphobia), and physical health issues, these are the "gifts" given to the queer community from a hetero/cisnormative, heterosexist, and homophobic society. Have things become better? Of course, but it doesn't mean things are where they should be, or are even close. I yearn for the day when people realize that systemic bigotry against queer people exists and is as important to dismantle as as any other form of systemic bigotry!

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Jonathan Bennett details the extreme homophobia that made him develop ulcers (Original Post) Behind the Aegis Oct 2021 OP
Believe it or not, hollywood is not the perfect place some make it out to be jimfields33 Oct 2021 #1
Huh? Behind the Aegis Oct 2021 #2
I know what it's like gay texan Oct 2021 #3

jimfields33

(15,789 posts)
1. Believe it or not, hollywood is not the perfect place some make it out to be
Fri Oct 22, 2021, 04:00 PM
Oct 2021

A lot of problems occur in that city.

Behind the Aegis

(53,956 posts)
2. Huh?
Fri Oct 22, 2021, 04:28 PM
Oct 2021

This isn't about Hollywood per se, but rather about gay people developing issues because of homophobia. Therefore, I don't understand your comment.

gay texan

(2,442 posts)
3. I know what it's like
Fri Oct 22, 2021, 05:31 PM
Oct 2021

I started honing my humor and acting skills during the 7th grade.

If I could make people laugh, they'd leave me alone. I learned how to act straight really quick. I'd pick up on visual cues and speech patterns of the straight kids and practice them.

Pretty soon you can blend in, but it comes at a cost to your well being.

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