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hedgehog

(36,286 posts)
Mon Jul 23, 2012, 09:50 PM Jul 2012

So, my sister told me that in light of my diagnosis, I need to start cutting back.

I will die with Sjogren's, not from Sjogren's, but I intend to live as well as I can every day. I don't see a need to start sitting around waiting to die. I am working on making my garden easier to care for - I have access to all the wood chips I want for mulch. In the mean time, if I have to make a choice, I can live with dust bunnies on the stairs!

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So, my sister told me that in light of my diagnosis, I need to start cutting back. (Original Post) hedgehog Jul 2012 OP
cut back by not speaking mopinko Jul 2012 #1
LOL, no, she means well, but I think she's been preparing to be an old lady hedgehog Jul 2012 #2
What does she think you should cut back on? kdmorris Jul 2012 #3
She wants me to cut back on my garden's size. I'm coping by laying down lots and hedgehog Jul 2012 #4

hedgehog

(36,286 posts)
2. LOL, no, she means well, but I think she's been preparing to be an old lady
Wed Jul 25, 2012, 10:59 AM
Jul 2012

since she was 40! My preparations are more along the lines of removing tripping hazards so I can stay active!

kdmorris

(5,649 posts)
3. What does she think you should cut back on?
Sat Jul 28, 2012, 12:55 PM
Jul 2012

I say do everything you can to live every day to its fullest. And when you find something that you can't do - its up to you how to handle it. Each day is a series of choices and if you can do one thing to make your life happier (ride a bike, garden, etc) then I say "DO IT!"

The first month after I found out I had Diabetes, I cried almost every day. It was overwhelming and I felt a little "poor me" for not being allowed to eat spaghetti and rice and chocolate. 10 years later, I've learned that I can eat anything I want... in moderation. And changing my diet has made things like Snickers bars just too sweet. I don't even like them anymore. I do still wish I could eat a pile of Jasmine rice sometimes but I don't. It's about choices and trade offs some days, but I'm not about to act like I'm dead 40 years before I die.

hedgehog

(36,286 posts)
4. She wants me to cut back on my garden's size. I'm coping by laying down lots and
Sat Jul 28, 2012, 12:57 PM
Jul 2012

lots of mulch instead!

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