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raccoon

(31,110 posts)
Wed Aug 7, 2019, 07:59 AM Aug 2019

How do I train a cat to sleep away from me?

My cat passed away two months ago and I’m thinking about getting another.

I live in a one bedroom apartment. I would like for my cat to sleep in the utility room. My older cat slept with me until she got elderly and then would allow me to put her in the utility room to sleep and not yowl or tear up the linoleum. Otherwise, she would wake me up at dark 30.
Sometimes more than once. It was like being a parent of an infant who never got older.

Is it possible for me to train even a young cat (not a kitten) to be content to sleep in the utility room?

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How do I train a cat to sleep away from me? (Original Post) raccoon Aug 2019 OP
Train kitty with a "lovey" like a stuffed animal. dawg day Aug 2019 #1
Many cats like to sleep with their people; it's a bonding thing. democratisphere Aug 2019 #2
As I said, she used to wake me up in the middle of the night raccoon Aug 2019 #3
I have three cats who are not allowed Phoenix61 Aug 2019 #4
Maybe a new cat would not wake you up Freddie Aug 2019 #5
Cat "training" Sleepscratch Aug 2019 #6
This Freddie Aug 2019 #7
I think it's a great asset to have a marybourg Aug 2019 #11
Get a dog mnhtnbb Aug 2019 #8
Close the bedroom door with the cat on the other side. n/t TygrBright Aug 2019 #9
That Bayard Aug 2019 #10

dawg day

(7,947 posts)
1. Train kitty with a "lovey" like a stuffed animal.
Wed Aug 7, 2019, 08:08 AM
Aug 2019

Put the lovey in a nice bed in the utility room. And never cuddle the cat in your bedroom. Keep the cuddles in the living room.

Kitten won't even know about the bedroom unless you tell them. Be tough.😉

democratisphere

(17,235 posts)
2. Many cats like to sleep with their people; it's a bonding thing.
Wed Aug 7, 2019, 08:10 AM
Aug 2019

Not sure what your issue would be about THIS?

raccoon

(31,110 posts)
3. As I said, she used to wake me up in the middle of the night
Wed Aug 7, 2019, 08:15 AM
Aug 2019

It wouldn’t be a problem of if we could synchronize our wake ups but I don’t think that will be a possibility.

If the cat didn’t wake up unless I did it wouldn’t be any problem.

Phoenix61

(17,003 posts)
4. I have three cats who are not allowed
Wed Aug 7, 2019, 08:53 AM
Aug 2019

in my bedroom. They have the run of the house and do just fine. Give her/him one of your T-shirt’s you haven’t washed to sleep on.

Freddie

(9,265 posts)
5. Maybe a new cat would not wake you up
Wed Aug 7, 2019, 08:58 AM
Aug 2019

Both our boys sleep with us and they don’t wake us up. It depends on what kind of feeding schedule you have and if the cat is a “grazer” or gobbles down their food all at once. Our boys are grazers and don’t wake us up for breakfast. However a cat I had years ago refused to touch dry food and was quite obnoxious until he got his morning can.

Freddie

(9,265 posts)
7. This
Wed Aug 7, 2019, 09:54 AM
Aug 2019

People who get their knickers in a knot about cats jumping on the kitchen counter shouldn’t have cats. Charlie jumps up there to give me head butts and purrs while I cook. I’m honored by his affection.

marybourg

(12,631 posts)
11. I think it's a great asset to have a
Wed Aug 7, 2019, 06:03 PM
Aug 2019

(somewhat) trained cat. My rescue kitty's first owner apparently taught him "come' & "stay". Because he understood the concept of human utterances, he learned "sit" and "get down" and " get brushed" very quickly.

It's great to have a cat that behaves cooperatively, at least some of the time. He also knows to stay off counters, and that human skin is not the same as clothing. He's a real gentleman. Well, for a cat.

mnhtnbb

(31,388 posts)
8. Get a dog
Wed Aug 7, 2019, 10:32 AM
Aug 2019

Put the dog bed on the floor of your room, or, train the dog to sleep in its crate.

OR, get two compatible kitties and they will sleep together in another room.

Bayard

(22,069 posts)
10. That
Wed Aug 7, 2019, 10:57 AM
Aug 2019

But I have two cats and a Miniature Dachshund that sleep in the bed with me at night. The doxie insists on being under the covers. They don't wake me up because I sleep like the dead.

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