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Marthe48

(17,005 posts)
Thu Apr 11, 2024, 02:50 PM Apr 11

Thank you everyone. Going to say goodbye to my grand dog

Last edited Thu Apr 11, 2024, 04:33 PM - Edit history (1)

She's been having hip trouble, testing today shows not only arthritis, but cancer. So glad I have always spent time with her, and so sorry to hear this news. She is such a good dog, and has added so much to our lives.

It was very peaceful. The vet office put us in a small room with cloth furniture, and brought our girl in. They brought a nice think blanket for her to lie on and let us take our time to say goodbye. So hard. She had a port in her leg, and the vet put the drug in thru the port. It was the easiest passing I've seen. She's over the bridge and hope she remembers the others who loved her, who will be glad to see her.

Thank you for the support in this sudden awful moment.

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Thank you everyone. Going to say goodbye to my grand dog (Original Post) Marthe48 Apr 11 OP
I am so sorry. I'm glad you had her and she had you. LoisB Apr 11 #1
So sorry to hear that. Dogs are truly our best friends if we let them be. KPN Apr 11 #2
I'm so sorry and sending all your grand dog's loved ones hugs. MLAA Apr 11 #3
I'm so sorry. cilla4progress Apr 11 #4
Never long enough Marthe48 Apr 11 #6
Animals give us SO much! ShazzieB Apr 11 #5
I am so sorry for you and your familys loss. They leave such large paw prints in our hearts irisblue Apr 11 #7
Owning a pet is tough duty but you did the right thing even though it hurts Botany Apr 11 #8
I'm so sorry, FoxNewsSucks Apr 11 #9
Sending you thoughts of love and solace, Marthe48. calimary Apr 11 #10
Zooka was euthanized less than a month ago Ponietz Apr 11 #11
So very sorry for your loss as well. May you and .Bunji have many years niyad Apr 12 #24
Nothing better than a good doggie. Elessar Zappa Apr 11 #12
Aw, sorry for your loss wendyb-NC Apr 11 #13
They ask for so little, and give so much! 70sEraVet Apr 11 #14
So very sorry for your loss. AltairIV Apr 11 #15
I'm sorry for your loss. TomSlick Apr 11 #16
I haven't had my own dog since 2004 Marthe48 Apr 11 #17
I go through the calculation with the death of each pet. TomSlick Apr 11 #18
I have a 19 or 20 year old cat Marthe48 Apr 11 #19
Today is National Pet Day Marthe48 Apr 11 #20
Thank you for that. My little one is sleeping right next to me as I niyad Apr 12 #23
Big Hugs Chicagogrl1 Apr 11 #21
Lady of the Beasts, please take Your little one gently home in Your niyad Apr 12 #22
So sorry, Marthe48. ❤️ littlemissmartypants Apr 12 #25
It is hard to say goodbye to a family member LetMyPeopleVote Apr 12 #26
Hugs Duncanpup Apr 13 #27

KPN

(15,647 posts)
2. So sorry to hear that. Dogs are truly our best friends if we let them be.
Thu Apr 11, 2024, 03:00 PM
Apr 11

They can bring us so much pure joy.

Marthe48

(17,005 posts)
6. Never long enough
Thu Apr 11, 2024, 03:17 PM
Apr 11

She was a rescue, washed out of a training program. Big baby is afraid of fireworks and other loud noises. Her people were going to get her started on a new kind of med for arthritis today. She's been so healthy except for soreness that was getting more frequent. She loves to run, and patrolled her perimeter each time she went out. Wildlife fears and respects her. She has never caught anything, but she makes sure they exercise when she is out.

Botany

(70,551 posts)
8. Owning a pet is tough duty but you did the right thing even though it hurts
Thu Apr 11, 2024, 04:49 PM
Apr 11

When my lab bothers me for walks, play time, food, or hops up on my bed I
always think that sometime in the future I would give anything for just 30
seconds w/her. I hope she lives on in you and your family’s hearts 💞.

calimary

(81,415 posts)
10. Sending you thoughts of love and solace, Marthe48.
Thu Apr 11, 2024, 04:58 PM
Apr 11

Take a deep breath (or 1300), and know that she's watching from Overhead. Sounds like the way our Goldie finally went. Peacefully with us there and the lights low and the room to ourselves and soft music playing from somewhere. It IS hard. MISERABLY hard. But brief, and you console yourself with thoughts that your little sweetheart is at peace and no longer in pain, and that you may be able to get over it eventually. All that stuff. I think lots of us have known that pain. So you have comfort coming your way from MANY - here and elsewhere in your life.

One of the things that unites us all. Sad as it is.

Ponietz

(3,000 posts)
11. Zooka was euthanized less than a month ago
Thu Apr 11, 2024, 05:01 PM
Apr 11

She also had hip dysplasia. The day after we said goodbye I adopted Bunji from the shelter. Very happy with that decision.

wendyb-NC

(3,328 posts)
13. Aw, sorry for your loss
Thu Apr 11, 2024, 05:10 PM
Apr 11

You did the right thing, But I know how hard it is when they pass. You loved and cared for her and gave her a good life. Likewise, she gave you the gift of joy and heartfelt companionship, for the time she was in your life.

Imagine her now having a wondrous reunion with those who are waiting for her, over the rainbow bridge.

70sEraVet

(3,508 posts)
14. They ask for so little, and give so much!
Thu Apr 11, 2024, 05:13 PM
Apr 11

Sorry for your loss. But it sounds like she had a good, full life, and was well-loved. You did well.

TomSlick

(11,107 posts)
16. I'm sorry for your loss.
Thu Apr 11, 2024, 05:54 PM
Apr 11

The price we pay for the love pets give us is that their lives are so much shorter than ours and it's painful when one dies.

It's well worth the cost but the cost is significant.

TomSlick

(11,107 posts)
18. I go through the calculation with the death of each pet.
Thu Apr 11, 2024, 06:03 PM
Apr 11

There will surely come a time when I can no longer bear the cost.

Marthe48

(17,005 posts)
19. I have a 19 or 20 year old cat
Thu Apr 11, 2024, 06:37 PM
Apr 11

If fate allows, I'll take a break when she's gone, and then decide what is next. Most of the pets we have had came to us as strays or other routes. If the next pet doesn't come to me, maybe I'll go looking :/

Marthe48

(17,005 posts)
20. Today is National Pet Day
Thu Apr 11, 2024, 06:55 PM
Apr 11

Hope we can celebrate the pets we have, even if we had to say goodbye to others.

niyad

(113,508 posts)
22. Lady of the Beasts, please take Your little one gently home in Your
Fri Apr 12, 2024, 12:08 AM
Apr 12

loving arms, and send peace and comfort to her grieving loved ones.

I am so very sorry for the loss of your precious girl. So glad that you could all be there with her. Your DU family grieves with you.

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