NYT, again...geez"How to talk to Racists"
Ahh no. The whole article is too long to post here.
https://www.nytimes.com/2018/07/30/opinion/how-to-talk-to-a-racist.html?smid=tw-nytopinion&smtyp=cur
snip..."
There are still white Southerners who honestly believe that American culture worked better for everyone, white and black alike, under segregation. There are still white Southerners who question how bad slavery really was. When an enslaved black person’s health and strength are needed to guarantee the slaveholder’s livelihood, this argument goes, it just wouldn’t make sense to whip them or starve them or rape them or work them to the point of collapse.
Southerners aren’t alone in believing such mendacity, but the South is where slavery and segregation metastasized, so it may be more concentrated here. Wherever this insidious delusion takes hold, however, it requires a gargantuan ignorance of history to maintain, and there’s a lot of ignorance afoot in the land right now. More people here in Tennessee today drive cars bearing license plates emblazoned with the Confederate battle flag than ever before. A strong majority of Southerners — 61 percent — are committed to keeping their Confederate monuments on public land."
snip..."OK., they’re definitely all racists. But here’s the thing: They don’t believe they are. And the problem with writing off people who don’t recognize this country’s pervasive and enduring culture of white supremacy, much less the ways in which they themselves benefit from it, is simple: Being called a racist almost never causes a racist to wake up. Being called a racist almost never causes a racist to say, “Oh, wow, you’re right.”
I get that it’s hard not to scream “Racist!” at a racist. If you’re a white person who wants to be an advocate, it’s both infuriating and demoralizing to know that the people causing all this suffering are people who look just like you. That much is true about being a white liberal in a culture of white supremacy. But it’s not the only truth."
Today.I.Can't.With.This.Racist.Apologist.Article.
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But I wished she'd taken her conclusion further by pointing out what words she uses or has used to change the minds of racists. Would white supremacy do? How about white privileged and fragility? Shoot, I remember one white leader during a town hall meeting right after Ferguson, hosted by the late Gwen Ifill, saying that using the words "the system" was unacceptable. The author has to accept, too, that there is no reasoning with Willful Ignorance by those deeply committed to racism though there's centuries of evidence to prove them wrong.
Today.I.Can't.With.This.Racist.Apologist.Article. ~ irisblue
On Edit: It just hit me that the author is tone policing 
first with PoC and now with white anti-racists. SSDD.
IF they wanted to NOT be racist they could stop. Any racist wants to be a racist and will not stop unless they have one of those evolutionary jumps called compassion and self-recognition of how stupid and ignorant they are. Period. Since trump, to hell with any goddamn racist!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
