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cbayer

(146,218 posts)
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 11:50 AM Mar 2014

Ex-Westboro Baptist Church Leader Fred Phelps is Finally Dying

http://gawker.com/ex-westboro-baptist-church-leader-fred-phelps-is-finall-1544924334

Jordan Sargent

Today 10:42am


image of Fred Phelps via AP

Fred Phelps, the one-time leader of the infamous "GOD HATES FAGS" church, is on his deathbed in Kansas. Hopefully, you can carry on with your day having learned of this terrible news.

Phelps' son Nathan, who left the church in 1980 and now lives in Canada working on behalf of LGBT rights, posted on Facebook late last night that his father is dying in a hospice in Topeka.

I've learned that my father, Fred Phelps, Sr., pastor of the "God Hates Fags" Westboro Baptist Church, was ex-communicated from the "church" back in August of 2013. He is now on the edge of death at Midland Hospice house in Topeka, Kansas.

I'm not sure how I feel about this. Terribly ironic that his devotion to his god ends this way. Destroyed by the monster he made.

I feel sad for all the hurt he's caused so many. I feel sad for those who will lose the grandfather and father they loved. And I'm bitterly angry that my family is blocking the family members who left from seeing him, and saying their good-byes.


The legacy Phelps will leave is of having turned his religion into a sideshow, and of having made the notion of the protest a farce. We may never know the extent to which Phelps realized that his church moved the "cause" backwards, or whether he even gave a shit.

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Ex-Westboro Baptist Church Leader Fred Phelps is Finally Dying (Original Post) cbayer Mar 2014 OP
I detest that man with all my strength. hrmjustin Mar 2014 #1
Unfortunately if there was a god he probably loves grifters. Exultant Democracy Mar 2014 #2
Say what? Why would a god love grifters? cbayer Mar 2014 #3
I have faith that if there was a god he would. Exultant Democracy Mar 2014 #6
Okey dokey, then. cbayer Mar 2014 #8
Indeed! tosh Mar 2014 #11
G*d May Love Grifters BUT Vogon_Glory Mar 2014 #21
There are times I wish I believed in Hell. The Velveteen Ocelot Mar 2014 #4
If there was, it would validate all that bile he spewed his entire life. AtheistCrusader Mar 2014 #23
Good point. The Velveteen Ocelot Mar 2014 #29
Oh, hogwash. cbayer Mar 2014 #33
Not quite. AtheistCrusader Mar 2014 #34
No post death fantasies. Interesting. cbayer Mar 2014 #35
No. AtheistCrusader Mar 2014 #36
That's too bad. Dreams serve an important purpose for me. cbayer Mar 2014 #37
"Dyke Liberty"? Mojo Electro Mar 2014 #5
Remember the random mechanism they used for mission names in WWII? AtheistCrusader Mar 2014 #25
Good point! And his might have "catchpole" in it too. Mojo Electro Mar 2014 #31
May his passing be easy Gothmog Mar 2014 #7
You are far more solicitous than I... cilla4progress Mar 2014 #12
This is the first I heard Westboro threw him out. rug Mar 2014 #9
WBC spokesman declines to say whether church founder has been excommunicated struggle4progress Mar 2014 #20
I wonder what happened. rug Mar 2014 #40
DUzy! EvilAL Mar 2014 #46
Wonder what protest signs his minions SummerSnow Mar 2014 #10
Maybe "We hate ourselves" shenmue Mar 2014 #13
Just about to post something like that underpants Mar 2014 #15
Lol, i wonder what group will protest it. rug Mar 2014 #41
Anyone up for a funeral protest? Philly Cowboy Mar 2014 #14
As was posted on DU when Falwell died... underpants Mar 2014 #17
That is one ugly man! asjr Mar 2014 #16
Forgive our sins as we forgive struggle4progress Mar 2014 #18
Meh AtheistCrusader Mar 2014 #26
Whatever struggle4progress Mar 2014 #30
On the subject of artistic Expression... AtheistCrusader Mar 2014 #32
Guido Sarducci's benediction at the rally to restore sanity struggle4progress Mar 2014 #39
That was pretty funny, actually. AtheistCrusader Mar 2014 #42
Yeah, Novello's being cracking folk up with that persona for thirty-five years or so struggle4progress Mar 2014 #43
I feel sorry for the kids who had the strength and courage to leave. Warpy Mar 2014 #19
"I hope the god he meets is a drag queen." pinto Mar 2014 #27
Unfortunately, Sinistrous Mar 2014 #22
Will Fred come out of the closet before he dies? Politicalboi Mar 2014 #24
Party time real soon. kestrel91316 Mar 2014 #28
There should be a protest at his funeral. I'll carry this sign. Lint Head Mar 2014 #38
Hate is a poison that destroys one for the inside LostOne4Ever Mar 2014 #44
Anyone feel like picketing a funeral? Act_of_Reparation Mar 2014 #45

Vogon_Glory

(9,117 posts)
21. G*d May Love Grifters BUT
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 01:31 PM
Mar 2014

G*d may love grifters, but I believe she / he abhors their conduct. I suspect Preacher Fred has a whole lot of 'splainin' to do. .

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,683 posts)
4. There are times I wish I believed in Hell.
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 11:56 AM
Mar 2014

Or at least Purgatory (eternal damnation seems a bit harsh, no matter how awful you were). If anybody deserves to get his ass jabbed with a pitchfork it's that guy.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
23. If there was, it would validate all that bile he spewed his entire life.
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 01:34 PM
Mar 2014

He'll be worm food with no afterlife. Punishment enough I guess for someone who believes what he believed.

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
33. Oh, hogwash.
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 02:49 PM
Mar 2014

I don't believe in hell, but from an atheistic POV, he ends up the same as everyone else.

In my fantasies, he has to pay up somehow.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
34. Not quite.
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 02:52 PM
Mar 2014

He did leave behind a legacy that will be long remembered.

I don't have post-death fantasies, myself.

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
35. No post death fantasies. Interesting.
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 02:55 PM
Mar 2014

You never have dreams about people that have died? Pets? Your own post-death experiences?

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
36. No.
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 03:22 PM
Mar 2014

When I was young I was a lucid dreamer and could dream about whatever I liked. As an adult, I don't really remember them much anymore. When I do have one, it's of a fairly mundane nature.

Mojo Electro

(362 posts)
5. "Dyke Liberty"?
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 11:59 AM
Mar 2014

That's a new one.

Let's hope this so-called "church" just dissolves without their fearless leader at the helm.

The poor guy never got to have the homosexual experience he obviously craved so badly all of his life. (the only thing that could explain such an obsession.)

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
25. Remember the random mechanism they used for mission names in WWII?
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 01:40 PM
Mar 2014

Market Garden. Operation Catchpole. Etc.

I like to think of the Phelps as having a random-word associator like that. Two columns of filth to randomize.

struggle4progress

(118,282 posts)
20. WBC spokesman declines to say whether church founder has been excommunicated
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 01:29 PM
Mar 2014

By Jan Biles and Steve Fry

A Westboro Baptist Church spokesman declined to comment Sunday on whether a report that Pastor Fred Waldron Phelps Sr. has been excommunicated from the conservative church, known for its controversial anti-gay stance, that he founded in the 1950s.

Church spokesman Steve Drain also said Westboro Baptist Church doesn't have a new leader of the church because it doesn't have a designated leader of the church ...

"We don't owe any talk to you about that," Drain said. "We don't discuss our internal church dealings with anybody. It's only because of his notoriety that you are asking" ...


http://m.cjonline.com/news/local/2014-03-16/wbc-spokesman-declines-say-whether-church-founder-has-been-excommunicated


 

Philly Cowboy

(35 posts)
14. Anyone up for a funeral protest?
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 12:33 PM
Mar 2014

Borrowing a phrase that Thumpers like to use, "An eye for an eye." While we should turn another cheek, maybe we should demonstrate the harm he brought to others.

underpants

(182,794 posts)
17. As was posted on DU when Falwell died...
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 01:03 PM
Mar 2014

When someone dies you are supposed to say something good. He is dead. Good.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
32. On the subject of artistic Expression...
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 02:48 PM
Mar 2014

Dostoyevsky;

"I don't want the mother to embrace the oppressor
who threw her son to the dogs! She dare not forgive him! Let her
forgive him for herself, if she will, let her forgive the torturer for
the immeasurable suffering of her mother's heart. But the sufferings
of her tortured child she has no right to forgive; she dare not forgive
the torturer, even if the child were to forgive him! And if that is
so, if they dare not forgive, what becomes of harmony? Is there
in the whole world a being who would have the right to forgive
and could forgive? I don't want harmony. From love for human-
ity I don't want it. I would rather be left with the unavenged
suffering. I would rather remain with my unavenged suffering
*nd unsatisfied indignation, even if I were wrong. Besides, too high
a price is asked for harmony; it's beyond our means to pay so much
to enter on it."

struggle4progress

(118,282 posts)
39. Guido Sarducci's benediction at the rally to restore sanity
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 03:40 PM
Mar 2014

Sarducci begins around the 3:18 mark

... and thank you for all the good things we do in your name, like charity --- and forgiveness: that's an idea we would never come up with, that's for certain ...

&t=3m18s

Warpy

(111,255 posts)
19. I feel sorry for the kids who had the strength and courage to leave.
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 01:22 PM
Mar 2014

Whatever else that awful man was, he was also their father and the memories are likely not all bad. It's only as he aged that he was eaten up with hate and violence.

I hope the god he meets is a drag queen.

It's going to be fun to watch how long they can sustain the hate without him. Even now, they're threatening more protests than they actually do. Shirley just aint up to the job, you know what the bible says about uppity women who try to speak in church.

pinto

(106,886 posts)
27. "I hope the god he meets is a drag queen."
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 01:48 PM
Mar 2014

Was going to stay out of this thread, but, lol, that got a laugh out of me.

I hope his kids, actually any of his family, heal the extreme anti-social hate and move on if possible.

Sinistrous

(4,249 posts)
22. Unfortunately,
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 01:33 PM
Mar 2014

Phelps infected enough of his spoor with his loathsome bigotry and hate such that their vile antics are liable to continue without him.

 

Politicalboi

(15,189 posts)
24. Will Fred come out of the closet before he dies?
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 01:35 PM
Mar 2014

Getting married and having 13 children still didn't "cure" him. Burn in your Hell Fred.

Lint Head

(15,064 posts)
38. There should be a protest at his funeral. I'll carry this sign.
Sun Mar 16, 2014, 03:31 PM
Mar 2014

God Hated Fred Phelps
So Much...........
That He Killed Him!

LostOne4Ever

(9,288 posts)
44. Hate is a poison that destroys one for the inside
Mon Mar 17, 2014, 06:33 AM
Mar 2014

I am sure that it has left him hollow and bitter. He was a horrible, horrible person; but, I feel strongly that hate only begets more hate, and the only way to combat it is through compassion.

So, I hope his passing is a painless one and that before he meets oblivion that he, his family, and his followers finally are able to see their own bigotry for what it is and change. And, I hope that they are given the comfort that their bigotry denied so many other in their time of bereavement.

>.>
<.<

And I hope they choke on their own guilt.

Ehhhhh, I mean, that they can now understand how their actions hurt so many others...

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