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Bucky

(54,013 posts)
Sun Jul 3, 2016, 04:23 PM Jul 2016

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How should she be addressed?


23 votes, 4 passes | Time left: Unlimited
Madame President
6 (26%)
Madam President
11 (48%)
Mrs. President
2 (9%)
Ms. President
4 (17%)
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protocol (Original Post) Bucky Jul 2016 OP
For the record, "Ms. President" is the best answer Bucky Jul 2016 #1
I agree. It is the proper equivalent to "Mr. President" Warren DeMontague Jul 2016 #8
Agree. Should be an option. nt DURHAM D Jul 2016 #10
I like Madame President ... zenabby Jul 2016 #16
the same reason why we say "Sir President" instead of "Mister President" Bucky Jul 2016 #22
i chose madame president drray23 Jul 2016 #2
but Madame is French. The English word is Madam Bucky Jul 2016 #3
sure madam will work. drray23 Jul 2016 #5
I can just hear some Faux News bleachjob complain: forest444 Jul 2016 #4
well maybe its a good idea then. drray23 Jul 2016 #6
Well said. forest444 Jul 2016 #11
How about we ask her, after the inauguration? Warren DeMontague Jul 2016 #7
I hope her campaign settles on whatever will piss the right off most! Native Jul 2016 #9
The Repubs think it will be Your Majesty. MineralMan Jul 2016 #12
The only real difference okasha Jul 2016 #13
John Adams and George Washington had this same argument. Bucky Jul 2016 #23
They'll use Madam. Adrahil Jul 2016 #14
And Madam Secretary... Orangepeel Jul 2016 #18
+1 Adrahil Jul 2016 #19
Which is silly. We don't say "Sir Speaker" or "Sir President". We use the common honorific, "Mister" Bucky Jul 2016 #20
The counterpart of "Sir' is "Lady," not Madam. okasha Jul 2016 #27
I guess I see your point, sir. Or, if you're a madam, I guess I see your point, lady. Bucky Jul 2016 #28
Uh, no. okasha Jul 2016 #29
except the counterpart to Lady is also "Lord" Bucky Jul 2016 #30
Is there supposed to be a period after Ms? aikoaiko Jul 2016 #15
American usage = period; British usage = no period. nt tblue37 Jul 2016 #17
Like Harry S. Truman Bucky Jul 2016 #21
'Madam President' for me until/unless both Robert's Rules of Orders and AP Style Book update it. LanternWaste Jul 2016 #24
However she wants. Motown_Johnny Jul 2016 #25
Our Lord and Savior, Praise Be Unto Her. name not needed Jul 2016 #26

Bucky

(54,013 posts)
1. For the record, "Ms. President" is the best answer
Sun Jul 3, 2016, 04:24 PM
Jul 2016

It's status neutral and has an American etymology.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
8. I agree. It is the proper equivalent to "Mr. President"
Sun Jul 3, 2016, 05:03 PM
Jul 2016

I suspect it will end uo being "madam President", though, similar to the way she has been "Madam Secretary"

zenabby

(364 posts)
16. I like Madame President ...
Mon Jul 4, 2016, 12:07 AM
Jul 2016

but by just saying that we need to use a special title such as "madame" shows how Ms. is not as respectable or as adequate as Mr.

Bucky

(54,013 posts)
22. the same reason why we say "Sir President" instead of "Mister President"
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 03:34 PM
Jul 2016

it just sounds so... so... equal to the common people

drray23

(7,629 posts)
2. i chose madame president
Sun Jul 3, 2016, 04:27 PM
Jul 2016

because the fact Hillary Clinton is married is besides the point. She will be the president not just Bill Clinton's wife.
Why do I think it matters ? Because many rwingers were pushing the narrative that the only reason Hillary is sucessful is because she is married to Bill.

Bucky

(54,013 posts)
3. but Madame is French. The English word is Madam
Sun Jul 3, 2016, 04:31 PM
Jul 2016

Not that I'm an English-firster, but surely we can agree that a honorific that changes with marital status is sexist.

The advantage of Ms. is that it doesn't imply marriage changes a woman's status as a person.

drray23

(7,629 posts)
5. sure madam will work.
Sun Jul 3, 2016, 04:36 PM
Jul 2016

Full disclosure, I was born in France.. Yes, I know what the usage is for Ms but since its often pronounced miss it is ambiguous sometimes. I like Madam as in Madam Secretary. It just seems to carry more weight.
But yes we both agree it should not be a term referring to her marital status.

drray23

(7,629 posts)
6. well maybe its a good idea then.
Sun Jul 3, 2016, 04:38 PM
Jul 2016

After all we need to give them something to be outraged about.. . to keep us entertained.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
7. How about we ask her, after the inauguration?
Sun Jul 3, 2016, 05:02 PM
Jul 2016

Since she's first, she should have some say in establishing the proper precedent.

okasha

(11,573 posts)
13. The only real difference
Sun Jul 3, 2016, 09:01 PM
Jul 2016

between madame and madam in English is the spelling. I prefer these two because the are generally attached to a woman of authority.

Bucky

(54,013 posts)
23. John Adams and George Washington had this same argument.
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 03:44 PM
Jul 2016

Adams thought the honorific "Mr. President" was too common. He said it sounded like the chief executive was only the president of a fire company or a cricket club. He suggested the new president be addressed as "His highness, the President of the United States of America, and Protector of the Rights of the Same."

Washington, who relied on his own merit and personal dignity, shot down Adams's proposal. He said he should be called only "Mister President" in a move toward "republican simplicity." The president, he believed, would have respect by behaving in a way that commanded respect, without the fetters and pomp of elevation above the status of equal citizen.

I'm with George on this one. Ms President will receive the respect she warrants by leading us wisely. We don't need Latin American style sashes and festoons to dignify the office. Getting the majority of the Electoral College and the votes of her fellow citizens will embue her all the dignity she needs.

Harry Truman considered leaving the White House to become a private citizen to be a promotion. I'm with Harry too.

Bucky

(54,013 posts)
20. Which is silly. We don't say "Sir Speaker" or "Sir President". We use the common honorific, "Mister"
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 03:28 PM
Jul 2016

Why employ the formal honorific for a female office holder?

Sir = Madam
Mr. = Ms.

okasha

(11,573 posts)
27. The counterpart of "Sir' is "Lady," not Madam.
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 06:12 PM
Jul 2016

We do, however, use "Sir," as a direct address for the President. Staff will similarly address Hillary as "Ma'am," which is just the short form of "Madam," and in the US can be used to address any adult woman, from a bag lady to the Queen of England. Pretty egalitarian.

Bucky

(54,013 posts)
28. I guess I see your point, sir. Or, if you're a madam, I guess I see your point, lady.
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 06:47 PM
Jul 2016

The counterpoint of Madam (or ma'am) is "Sir". The counter point of Lady is "Gentleman". You don't get to reinvent the English language.

The counterpoint of Mr is Miss if you're single, Mrs if you're married, or Ms. if you choose not to be defined by your marital status. That is well established in the English language ever since Gloria Steinem reinvented it.

okasha

(11,573 posts)
29. Uh, no.
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 07:41 PM
Jul 2016

If you use "Sir, as in "Sir President," you are addressing him, perhaps unwittingly, as a knight or baronet. "Sir Richard," "Lady Anne."

The precise counterpart of "gentleman" is "gentlewoman.". Apparently one extra syllable is too much for American idiom.

And anyone can add new usages to the English language. Neologisms occur almost daily.

Bucky

(54,013 posts)
30. except the counterpart to Lady is also "Lord"
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 07:49 PM
Jul 2016

There's a difference between an honorific and a title, which you seem to be conflating here.

You're still not addressing the main point. The equivalent of Mister <Title> is Ms. <Title>
.
Obviously common usage is going to trump linguistic logic, and so the unthinking masses will embrace Madam President. But I still assert that the implication that a woman needs a more elevated sounding formal address than a man (ie, Madam Prez instead of the logical equivalent Ms Prez) is implicitly sexist. It is the high heeled shoes of protocol.

Bucky

(54,013 posts)
21. Like Harry S. Truman
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 03:32 PM
Jul 2016

The S didn't stand for anything, but he used a period behind it most of the time anyway.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
24. 'Madam President' for me until/unless both Robert's Rules of Orders and AP Style Book update it.
Tue Jul 5, 2016, 03:58 PM
Jul 2016

'Madam President' for me until/unless both Robert's Rules of Orders and AP Style Book update it.

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