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joshcryer

(62,270 posts)
Fri Jul 29, 2016, 01:24 AM Jul 2016

My mom, who has not voted since 1992, asked me if I was registered to vote.

And said she was registering to vote tomorrow. For Hillary Clinton.

You have to understand how amazing this is to me. This is a woman who loathes liberals, is a die hard conservative, anti-choice, anti-gay (even with a gay son), anti-Muslims, whole nine yards.

"Are you registered to vote?"

"Um... yeah. I voted for Obama. Twice."

"I'm getting registered tomorrow to vote for Hillary! She really knocked it out of the ballpark!"

JAW TO THE FLOOR.

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My mom, who has not voted since 1992, asked me if I was registered to vote. (Original Post) joshcryer Jul 2016 OP
LOL, nice. K&R fleabiscuit Jul 2016 #1
You have no idea. She got banned from Yahoo! comments... joshcryer Jul 2016 #2
Banned from Yahoo is hard to do. Impressive. yardwork Jul 2016 #33
Great!!! Beacool Jul 2016 #3
The Hillary/Chelsea Moment Touched Her Stallion Jul 2016 #4
She was ecstatic. joshcryer Jul 2016 #5
Awesome...may there be hundreds of thousands like her. nt pkdu Jul 2016 #6
More like millions.... nt Wounded Bear Jul 2016 #16
THIS COULD BE BIG! ffr Jul 2016 #7
I swear, it's going to be a blowout. joshcryer Jul 2016 #8
From your lips to God's ears Hekate Jul 2016 #40
Just an update: she registered online. Was very skeptical about putting in her SSN*. joshcryer Jul 2016 #9
Now maybe you can help her register as a permanent absentee voter? pnwmom Jul 2016 #25
Amazing. I don't talk politics with people like Hortensis Jul 2016 #10
I try not to talk politics to my mom because I know she'd disagree across the board. joshcryer Jul 2016 #11
I hadn't thought much of the giant schism Hortensis Jul 2016 #12
What does a die-hard conservative who loathes liberals, gays, & Muslims like about Hillary Clinton? oberliner Jul 2016 #13
Don't look a gift horse in the mouth maxsolomon Jul 2016 #15
Obviously the more people who vote for Hillary, the better oberliner Jul 2016 #17
I do that all the time, to little avail. maxsolomon Jul 2016 #18
Scott Adams of Dilbert was an independent candidate for President in 2012, before he Bluenorthwest Jul 2016 #20
He's a tricky one maxsolomon Jul 2016 #21
A good portion of our convention was directed... NCTraveler Jul 2016 #19
I think it was Chelsea's and Clinton's speeches in tandem. joshcryer Jul 2016 #22
Wow oberliner Jul 2016 #23
That 4th convention day, especially, was a masterpiece. pnwmom Jul 2016 #26
Not for die-hard conservatives who loathe liberals, gays, and Muslims oberliner Jul 2016 #28
They might loathe them theoretically -- but not necessarily when facing them in person. pnwmom Jul 2016 #29
Hopefully you are right oberliner Jul 2016 #30
I'm afraid it will be a nail biter but I'm so glad that Dems seem to be joining together -- pnwmom Jul 2016 #32
Yes, that has been very encouraging oberliner Jul 2016 #34
Goes to show how smartly the Convention was framed maxsolomon Jul 2016 #14
Do you think that turned off any men? oberliner Jul 2016 #35
probably but i think they were already lost maxsolomon Jul 2016 #37
Fair point oberliner Jul 2016 #38
Whoa! I bet you helped fill the bases, joshcryer. And then Hillary knocked the ball out of the park. pnwmom Jul 2016 #24
Where if I might ask? underpants Jul 2016 #27
I'm taking a 75 year old to get registered later this week after she updates Ilsa Jul 2016 #31
I love hearing stories like this – thanks for sharing. :) sarae Jul 2016 #36
This choked me up! nt ncgrits Jul 2016 #39
Congrats!! redstateblues Jul 2016 #41
Congrats. My Mom is voting has decided to vote for her first Democratic Presidential Candidate cally Jul 2016 #42
Great to hear! blueseas Aug 2016 #43
Wow, maybe there's hope for my mom TuxedoKat Aug 2016 #44

joshcryer

(62,270 posts)
2. You have no idea. She got banned from Yahoo! comments...
Fri Jul 29, 2016, 01:28 AM
Jul 2016

...for writing very disparaging remarks about Michelle Obama. This is utterly shocking to me.

Beacool

(30,247 posts)
3. Great!!!
Fri Jul 29, 2016, 01:36 AM
Jul 2016

I hope that there are a lot more like your mother. I have never been as scared of a candidate as I am of Trump. He would be disastrous for the country.

ffr

(22,669 posts)
7. THIS COULD BE BIG!
Fri Jul 29, 2016, 04:02 AM
Jul 2016

People aligning for their best interests, instead of against. Imagine how many millions of people that represents. WOW!

It could mean the beginning of the withdrawal for Fox Entertainment and RW talking heads. Without an audience to eat up what they're dishing out, advertisers will move on. And best of all, our country can finally move forward.

Just need to sweep the republicans out of congress too. Her agenda will suffer without a crushing republican defeat...something I'll be working very hard to insure.


joshcryer

(62,270 posts)
8. I swear, it's going to be a blowout.
Fri Jul 29, 2016, 06:39 AM
Jul 2016

People are finally seeing that Clinton is another human being, not some evil caricature that the media has portrayed her as for decades.

joshcryer

(62,270 posts)
9. Just an update: she registered online. Was very skeptical about putting in her SSN*.
Sun Jul 31, 2016, 05:00 AM
Jul 2016

But I was able to convince her that it was no big deal and they needed it for verification purposes.

My mind is so blown that I really can't comprehend this. This is a woman who hates the voting process. I only hope I can get her to vote down ticket dem, but even if she doesn't, and only votes for Clinton, it's a major win.

*only wanted her last four digits of the SSN.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
10. Amazing. I don't talk politics with people like
Sun Jul 31, 2016, 06:02 AM
Jul 2016

you describe any more, knowing they won't/can't change. Well, there are a good many around here, and maybe I should dip my toes in. Congratulations to you and your mom for the removal, or shrinking, of an unfortunate barrier. That's nice.

joshcryer

(62,270 posts)
11. I try not to talk politics to my mom because I know she'd disagree across the board.
Sun Jul 31, 2016, 09:08 AM
Jul 2016

Bur this was astonishing to me. And she brought it up. Doubly impressed.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
12. I hadn't thought much of the giant schism
Sun Jul 31, 2016, 11:45 AM
Jul 2016

of politics cutting across families and what it could do to them, but of course. You guys obviously kept it nicely together.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
13. What does a die-hard conservative who loathes liberals, gays, & Muslims like about Hillary Clinton?
Sun Jul 31, 2016, 11:48 AM
Jul 2016

That makes no sense.

maxsolomon

(33,327 posts)
15. Don't look a gift horse in the mouth
Sun Jul 31, 2016, 01:11 PM
Jul 2016

Voting, as Scott Adams is reminding us on his Blog that predicts Trump will win, is largely an irrational process.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
17. Obviously the more people who vote for Hillary, the better
Sun Jul 31, 2016, 01:14 PM
Jul 2016

I just am trying to understand how this makes sense from this person's perspective.

maxsolomon

(33,327 posts)
18. I do that all the time, to little avail.
Sun Jul 31, 2016, 01:18 PM
Jul 2016

Right-wing "thinking" is baffling.

My father still insists (to my sister, 2 weeks ago) that Obama is a Muslim. I cannot fathom it.

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
20. Scott Adams of Dilbert was an independent candidate for President in 2012, before he
Sun Jul 31, 2016, 01:30 PM
Jul 2016

endorsed Mitt. His advice should be taken as the advice of a Republican.

maxsolomon

(33,327 posts)
21. He's a tricky one
Sun Jul 31, 2016, 01:34 PM
Jul 2016

He doesn't vote (or that's what he says), he says he endorses Clinton this time ("for his personal safety", because he lives in LA), he thinks Trump will win.

I think he puts too much stock in his "Persuasion Techniques". Trump uses them as part of his selling, but the sale (the General) is too drawn-out for the marks not to get wise to the con.

Well, that's what I'm telling myself this weekend...

 

NCTraveler

(30,481 posts)
19. A good portion of our convention was directed...
Sun Jul 31, 2016, 01:20 PM
Jul 2016

At making conservatives look deep within themselves. Trump is speaking truthfully about what their party has been promoting for a long time. Our convention was a gut check for them. Not all of them of course. Additionally, in this instance, gay marriage has not destroyed the fabric of society. My heart goes out to the op and this parent might have some end of life reconciling to do. There is no way to know the true underlying dynamics at play here. This might be a step toward repentance and acceptance. That would be wonderful and might manifest itself in a strange way.

joshcryer

(62,270 posts)
22. I think it was Chelsea's and Clinton's speeches in tandem.
Sun Jul 31, 2016, 04:08 PM
Jul 2016

She's also said glowing things about Kahn since (and of course he's getting great support).

pnwmom

(108,977 posts)
26. That 4th convention day, especially, was a masterpiece.
Sun Jul 31, 2016, 04:20 PM
Jul 2016

The emotion built all day long, up to the impassioned speeches of Mr. Kahn and General Allen -- and then, at the end, there was sweet Chelsea introducing her beloved mother. And there was Hillary, a calm, strong, capable, and soothing mother, daughter, grandmother.

I bet that's what josh's mother responded to.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
28. Not for die-hard conservatives who loathe liberals, gays, and Muslims
Sun Jul 31, 2016, 04:21 PM
Jul 2016

Most of them thought it was crap.

pnwmom

(108,977 posts)
29. They might loathe them theoretically -- but not necessarily when facing them in person.
Sun Jul 31, 2016, 04:24 PM
Jul 2016

The Kahn's and all the other "regular" people in the convention helped make gays, Muslims, and other liberals real to the viewers.

And die-hard conservatives have no reason to like Trump. Kasich and others despise him. So Trump has softened some of them up to take another look at Hillary.

pnwmom

(108,977 posts)
32. I'm afraid it will be a nail biter but I'm so glad that Dems seem to be joining together --
Sun Jul 31, 2016, 04:33 PM
Jul 2016

realizing who the real enemy is -- the great Narcissist.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
34. Yes, that has been very encouraging
Sun Jul 31, 2016, 04:36 PM
Jul 2016

The key, as far as I am concerned, is getting out the vote. Big turnout - especially from African-American and Latino voters.

maxsolomon

(33,327 posts)
14. Goes to show how smartly the Convention was framed
Sun Jul 31, 2016, 01:09 PM
Jul 2016

From top to bottom, it was about women. Grandmothers, Mothers, Daughters, Granddaughters.

Women's votes are the core of progress.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
35. Do you think that turned off any men?
Sun Jul 31, 2016, 04:36 PM
Jul 2016

I mean those "white working class men" that are supposedly important in the Rust Belt states.

maxsolomon

(33,327 posts)
37. probably but i think they were already lost
Sun Jul 31, 2016, 04:45 PM
Jul 2016

dems have been slaughtered in that demo for decades now. they know that.

of course, all those WWCM have moms, wives, daughters...

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
38. Fair point
Sun Jul 31, 2016, 05:01 PM
Jul 2016

I will say that I had a conversation with a white male who is in the category of people who dislike both Hillary and Trump, and he was turned off by it a little bit. But we might not actually need those voters if we get enough of a turnout with the demographics in which we are strongest.

pnwmom

(108,977 posts)
24. Whoa! I bet you helped fill the bases, joshcryer. And then Hillary knocked the ball out of the park.
Sun Jul 31, 2016, 04:14 PM
Jul 2016

Hopefully this is happening in many more families.

Ilsa

(61,694 posts)
31. I'm taking a 75 year old to get registered later this week after she updates
Sun Jul 31, 2016, 04:33 PM
Jul 2016

Her DL with her new address. She has never voted before. She was always afraid she'd be called for jury duty. Now you can be called whether you are registered to vote or not, and she's exempted.

Funny story, she thinks she voted in 2004. She had registered then, and wanted to vote for w. After registering, she received a big colorful flyer from the RNC with a push poll survey on various issues and then a portion of the ballot. She told me it was a mail-in ballot and Barbara Bush had a short letter in it. After she marked it, her husband said he'd put it in the mail. I tried to explain to her that it wasn't a ballot, but she insisted it was. Oh well, at least that was one less vote for Dumbya.

Good on your mom! Make sure she casts a real ballot!

sarae

(3,284 posts)
36. I love hearing stories like this – thanks for sharing. :)
Sun Jul 31, 2016, 04:36 PM
Jul 2016

My cousin has never voted either. He's always been of the opinion that his vote "doesn't really count", even though we've tried to argue with him. After talking to my mom yesterday, I found out that he'll be voting in November because he's really worried about Trump being elected.

cally

(21,593 posts)
42. Congrats. My Mom is voting has decided to vote for her first Democratic Presidential Candidate
Sun Jul 31, 2016, 08:23 PM
Jul 2016

--Hillary Clinton. She actually dislikes her and was going to just not vote for President this time but now she is terrified of Trump. She is voting for Clinton!

TuxedoKat

(3,818 posts)
44. Wow, maybe there's hope for my mom
Wed Aug 3, 2016, 06:15 PM
Aug 2016

She used to be a fairly liberal Democrat but in recent years has turned rightward from listening to the likes of Fox News, Michael Savage and others of that ilk. Having talked politics with her since the conventions though and am curious to see what she thought.

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