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LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
Wed Oct 8, 2014, 01:41 PM Oct 2014

Fraternity Loses Its Charter After Displaying ‘No Means Yes’ Banner At A Party

The Texas Tech chapter of the international fraternity Phi Delta Theta is being stripped of its charter following controversy over a party last month that included a banner reading “No Means Yes, Yes Means Anal.”

In September, images of the banner were posted on the sites BroBible and Total Frat Move. Those photos of the party also showed a sprinkler in the shape of female genitalia that sprayed guests with water. The incident prompted Texas Tech University to launch an investigation, and Phi Delta Theta suspended the chapter while reviewing the case.

Indeed, these type of pro-rape messages aren't entirely uncommon. In 2008, frat brothers at Yale University chanted the exact same message — “No Means Yes! Yes Means Anal!” — sparking a federal investigation and eventually getting the chapter suspended. More recently, a fraternity at Georgia Tech was suspended after leaked emails exposed the brothers discussing “how to lure your rapebait.”

The idea that “no” can somehow mean “yes” during a sexual encounter isn’t limited to college students. One 2009 study found that some Americans, particularly people who subscribe to traditional gender norms and don’t place as much value on gender equality, believe that acquaintance rape doesn't count as an assault even if a woman says “no.” Recently, conservative radio host Rush Limbaugh sparked outrage for suggesting that men know that “no means yes if you know how to spot it.”


http://thinkprogress.org/health/2014/10/08/3577243/texas-tech-fraternity-banner/

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Fraternity Loses Its Charter After Displaying ‘No Means Yes’ Banner At A Party (Original Post) LanternWaste Oct 2014 OP
Who raisises these idiots? ismnotwasm Oct 2014 #1
me too, glad they got the boot. That's new. Finally, the tide's turning. BlancheSplanchnik Oct 2014 #5
The stupidity burns... charter up in flames. n/t JimDandy Oct 2014 #2
And this is from a "dry" fraternity. Indydem Oct 2014 #3
Greeks on campus = increase in rapes BrotherIvan Oct 2014 #4
and to think I was considering going to school there. redruddyred Oct 2014 #6

ismnotwasm

(41,978 posts)
1. Who raisises these idiots?
Wed Oct 8, 2014, 01:56 PM
Oct 2014

I understandstand social pressures but that party took planing and thought. IF a rape had occurred. The word "premeditated" comes to mind. The young women at the party probably thought it was funny-- the ones who stayed, or the ones who laughed, again; social pressure, combined with utter self centeredness, entitlement and ignorance.

I'm glad they lost their charter. Very good news.

BlancheSplanchnik

(20,219 posts)
5. me too, glad they got the boot. That's new. Finally, the tide's turning.
Wed Oct 8, 2014, 04:40 PM
Oct 2014

The historical refusal to hold men and boys accountable for what they do (to women, especially) is changing.

BrotherIvan

(9,126 posts)
4. Greeks on campus = increase in rapes
Wed Oct 8, 2014, 02:33 PM
Oct 2014
http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2014/sep/24/rape-sexual-assault-ban-frats

When are parents going to speak up for their daughters? There are plenty of campuses that ban the greek system. Again, this is about $$ for the organization, nothing more.
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