those are the two keys. and this is the blind we live... and the damage it creates eventually.... we live blind until we see.
erection. demanding ALL our lives evolve around erection. not even my erection. mans erection. they have nothing else to hold the power..... but have now bottomlined it to the erection.
it cannot control and dominate with intelligence anymore, gun can and other as awareness can lesson thru strength, cannot control thru finance, we are taking care of ourselves. man cannot control thru law... though they are still trying, that ship sailed. they are losing control thru shame, humiliation, inferior, though it still has some hold. too many women have and are putting that aside.
what is truly left for man... to control and dominate the inferior woman? and the only thing they have left is the erection.
and the increased interest on dworkin... lmFUCKINao. you see it. the thread is continuing. i am suppose to be in reading and i have not felt like it. but....
the almighty erection which is taking me to the one movie. ryan, the muscle dude in xman movies, and the other dude. wtf is that movie. oh.... erection and the goofy dude keeps laughing cause he said erection. gonna see it i can find that clip. i am in the mood. it would help if i could remember the name of the movie.
interesting thoughts redqueen.
it is so fuggin funny and exactly what we are talking about. i often go into a chuckle thinking about this scene, reading some of the posts on du.
have we totally ignored our young girls and their plight. there is not even a thought. a second thought. much less a third thought that forever girls too are effected. has nothing to do with what boys are wearing. and yet.... we are shamed, must hide it or ignore it.
and the boys????
OMG. it is uncontrollable. it is all that. it is is is
well. i cannot even get near telling you all that it is for a boys
those of us with sons and connected and close as they grew up knows exactly what it is. those of us with brothers. those of us that have men in our lives
we know the reality of it
and that reality is this pure bullshit and all about ego.
no. i have not read. as i say thru out this thread. as i have said whenever the men bring up dworkin, for us duers to have to address, once again.
you men always make me desire to read dworkin. a need a want a must..... to read dworkin. you all make her sound so very very very interesting. such a character, full of life. you show me her smarts. i just want to see how smart
so, no. i have not read
yes. i do want to read. looking to down load and have a book read and discussion in hof.
that is why thru out my posts in this thread i do not specifically talk about her and what she says. as if i understand. i readily leave it to those that have read and can articulate. hence, me directing you to those posts in this thread. mace would be one. and lyric. as i directed you. answering your comments specifically and academically. so any 8th grader can understand.
and that would be why i am mainly focusing on husband allowed to rape their wives into the 90's. because that mattered. that, i get. that, is fact. and that has a lot to do with the feminists mind set in the 70's. as you, a man, that was legally able to rape me, a wife..... (figuratively), i think i get to have a greater stake in it than you do.
young and old.
just in one particular issue. sexual dominance. who is gonna get to own it.
in the past we did not recognize it or we pretended we did not or we refused to be educated so we could recognize it. then we recognized it and stayed quiet. now....
it is recognized. it is called out. and we are finding in our legislation, our states, our justice system, our military, our universities.... we are clearly hearing it is a mans privilege, right, entitlement.
a general got off on 3?, 4? assaults and grinning, went on his way out of the court house.
a student uses his free speech to tell fellow male students to rape a girl in particular, and still attends the school.
a judge says a 13 yr old is more at fault with her rape, and subsequent suicide because she was more sexuality mature than a 40 something yr old man. who could blame this poor beffuddled man while his dick was involved. really? and he got NO time.
what we see today.
is our courts, police, military, govt. stand and clearly tell us women that they have it handled. men dominate. and feminism and women as a whole, and all their male supporters can fuck off. lol.
that is what i am feeling and seeing today. and the bottom line will be and is.... NO. unacceptable. thank you for showing your hand. now... time for us to unite and a simple, no.
we hear it on the board. i am hearing it from men here.
that it is biology. that there is not a rape culture. rape apology/dismissal/denying.
just a little free thinking this morning. so looking at moving to colorado springs. in thinnking about co sprs, it brought in my experience and feel. a town that is so comfortable and .... happy. with the military element. the opposite feel of the town as a whole. military is just pockets.... in the area i spent the time in. so, i do not think they have the town. a whole interesting feel with legalization, with the youth because knowledgeable and participants, well educated, forceful, vocal. strong dems.
i am going to edit and continue conversation in my own OP. i have not done this before. but, for clarification and further thought...
i am thinking "own it" and it made me realize. own WOMANS sexuality. who is going to get to OWN fuggin' WOMANS sexuality. isnt that really fuggin disgusting... everyone.
not even a could years ago or more, she would roll her eyes. now with a 6 yr old little girl that feels she is a princess and my nieces concern, and a son that is sensitive amongst a family of manly men.... i am the womans cats meow.
it is great when our kids grow up and we get to start having the adult relationship with them.
and ya... we need the refreshing and inspiring cause we are going to get the ugly and nasty. we need the refreshing and inspiring so we can continue to battle on.
my father told me, no hesitation, that if i got preg, my parents would be there to support me totally. absolutely. financially, emotionally, unconditionally. for years it allowed me to arrogantly, condescendingly declare.... personally i am against abortion, but..... i allow for choice, in my vote.
though, personally, i pretty much know i am the better person
then i grew up
i came to the realization not ALL girls and women had the support, safety net, unconditional love that i had. stupid me. and that there were far more stories out there than what i ever allowed myself to see or experience thru another girls/womans eyes.
this is why it is so offensive when men make statements about a womans choice. how much time have they spent thinking about the girl/womans experience.
at the point of getting preg, a woman is going to experience regret. it is already there. because now she has tough choices, regardless what that choice is. the regret does not come with the choice, none are easy. the regret is the sex that got her preg in the first place. protected/unprotected. and we are not gonna suggest that a woman only have sex when she is ready to have a baby.
any of the choices are life changing choice.
what many women on du are saying, is we must take away that lifetime changing guilt that effects a woman for her lifetime. because biologically we are the ones that carry that burden. that is what we address.
back to me. i learned that i was damn lucky to have the support i did. i learned i was arrogant in my condemnation of others making choice, even though i graciously allowed womens choice thru my vote. i learned, to keep my fucking mouth shut unless i could totally support a woman in her choice with no judgment what so ever.
that is what women on du are fighting today.
and amazingly, the number of people, a lot of men, that stand in the same position i did so many many years ago. as their lives will NEVER be effected with these choices.
that is not the only option in my book, or what i am willing to do.
ALL over the internet men throw their sexism, misogyny, hate and rape/death threat to have ownership of space.
when do women say... fuck that. i am not going to meekly stfu or walk away?