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Without going into too much detail... Sometimes "no" doesn't mean "no." [View all] LAS14 Feb 2018 OP

way to make light of the attempt to warn kids off "stranger danger" hlthe2b Feb 2018 #1

+1 MrsCoffee Feb 2018 #2

+2 Laffy Kat Feb 2018 #23

Geez...no kidding! Texasgal Feb 2018 #48

I don't see this as making light. It was a strong.... LAS14 Feb 2018 #73

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Post removed Post removed Feb 2018 #10

victim blaming is never good. PERIOD. niyad Feb 2018 #11

+1 demmiblue Feb 2018 #13

And using the jury system in an effort to squash differing views is never good either. Kaleva Feb 2018 #16

rigghhhhht niyad Feb 2018 #17

For what reason did you think the OP deserved being alerted on? Kaleva Feb 2018 #22

you are, of course, free to assume whatever you wish. niyad Feb 2018 #24

So you don't know what rule the OP broke? Kaleva Feb 2018 #26

Caliman73 in post #20 articulated what I think. Kaleva Feb 2018 #28

You are unable or unwilling to consider additional possibilities beyond the one? LanternWaste Feb 2018 #32

What rule did the OP violate? Kaleva Feb 2018 #34

Odd, that's what you're indicting others for. LanternWaste Feb 2018 #35

So no one can articulate the rule the OP supposedly violated. Kaleva Feb 2018 #38

So you still can't articulate an answer to a supposedly simple question either. LanternWaste Feb 2018 #41

If you have no idea as to why the OP was alerted on, then just say so. Kaleva Feb 2018 #43

I do not think you are aware of the meaning of the word bemusedly. Tipperary Feb 2018 #67

+1 jalan48 Feb 2018 #19

An unpopular opinion will get blowback. Like what is happenening to this OP. Kaleva Feb 2018 #25

I agree-it feels like a form of censorship to me. jalan48 Feb 2018 #64

Thanks. See my reply #69. And no, I don't take... LAS14 Feb 2018 #79

What did she say that was victim blaming? She wasn't talking about victims. nt pnwmom Feb 2018 #33

what part of this did you not understand: niyad Feb 2018 #37

You don't think girls should be taught that they have the right to end sexual behavior? pnwmom Feb 2018 #39

you know I do, but I don't see anything there about teaching males NOT to be sexual niyad Feb 2018 #42

I'm sure LAS14 would agree on teaching sons not to be predators. But I didn't see pnwmom Feb 2018 #46

I agree that males should be taught... LAS14 Feb 2018 #82

Thanks. LAS14 Feb 2018 #80

I certainly don't want to blame the victim.... LAS14 Feb 2018 #78

I'm seeing this more often on DU. Not sure if these aren't trolls trying to cause dissension. jalan48 Feb 2018 #15

no question we have had, and continue to have, trolls here. we certainly saw them niyad Feb 2018 #18

Projecting your own pillow-talk onto national legislation is flawed. LanternWaste Feb 2018 #4

Flawed, simplistic projection to the point of...irrelevancy. Hortensis Feb 2018 #59

Ewwww n/t leftstreet Feb 2018 #5

I know Skittles Feb 2018 #66

... demmiblue Feb 2018 #6

What the fuck is this shit right here. WhiskeyGrinder Feb 2018 #7

Good post. Nt Phentex Feb 2018 #84

My responses LAS14 Feb 2018 #85

This message was self-deleted by its author WhiskeyGrinder Feb 2018 #8

Wow. The tone-deafness of that post was mind-boggling. Aristus Feb 2018 #9

Without going into to much detail...wow I shudder to think how much more you may dewsgirl Feb 2018 #12

I'm sorry I keep kicking this garbage but this post actually boils down to an excellent example of WhiskeyGrinder Feb 2018 #14

word. nt TheFrenchRazor Feb 2018 #61

Human behavior is complex, but your post misses some obvious notes. Caliman73 Feb 2018 #20

+1 Kaleva Feb 2018 #27

Couldnt have said it better. nolabear Feb 2018 #74

Nice strawman you're putting up mythology Feb 2018 #21

No. liberalmuse Feb 2018 #29

I submit that there's a significant difference in informed consent between a long-married couple... Spider Jerusalem Feb 2018 #30

No. ismnotwasm Feb 2018 #31

It's not fucking complicated, not in the least. alarimer Feb 2018 #36

I agree with your statement. Human behavior however, is complicated. Caliman73 Feb 2018 #50

I agree and my response was a little intemperate. alarimer Feb 2018 #52

It is understandable. Caliman73 Feb 2018 #53

I don't believe your "too much detail" (it was) for an instant. 50 Shades Of Blue Feb 2018 #40

WOW....YOU GOT GUTS. Rustyeye77 Feb 2018 #44

Sure, I get what you're saying. And people communicate in a myriad of ways. Thing is, some people JCanete Feb 2018 #45

I appreciate your attempt to discuss the issues hueymahl Feb 2018 #47

I think it's because it's an anti "me too" post womanofthehills Feb 2018 #49

I don't think she is making an anti "me too" post. IluvPitties Feb 2018 #58

From a past post of hers, I believe it was her intent womanofthehills Feb 2018 #75

I'm not anti #MeToo.... I'm just anti the extreme proponents. LAS14 Feb 2018 #86

Thanks. See my reply #86. LAS14 Feb 2018 #87

discuss what? Skittles Feb 2018 #65

... shanny Feb 2018 #51

Good job training your husband not to understand no. Good luck to him if bettyellen Feb 2018 #54

+1 nt NCTraveler Feb 2018 #71

And sometimes the N-word means we're friends! Iggo Feb 2018 #55

What a disgusting post JenniferJuniper Feb 2018 #56

Thanks for sharing. I know you are being attacked, but it is important to have these conversations. IluvPitties Feb 2018 #57

why do you say no, when you mean yes? maybe that's part of the problem. nt TheFrenchRazor Feb 2018 #60

Cool story, bro. Nt raccoon Feb 2018 #62

I hope this is sarcasm. Ms. Toad Feb 2018 #63

Society isn't trying mercuryblues Feb 2018 #68

OK, I'll try to answer some of the responses, and... LAS14 Feb 2018 #69

it is not "narrow thinking" to be nauseated by your post Skittles Feb 2018 #81

What does "post removed" mean? Does it mean a jusry voted it out? nt LAS14 Feb 2018 #70

yes Skittles Feb 2018 #77

You should go into more detail. NCTraveler Feb 2018 #72

Terrible post. Putting you on Ignore. shenmue Feb 2018 #76

You Can Teach Them All You Want Me. Feb 2018 #83

The difference here is between being w/an intimate partner and Rape. Sugar Smack Feb 2018 #88

What, there's legislation in place that would make use of safewords other than "no" illegal? moriah Feb 2018 #89