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TNNurse

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99. Continue as you see fit.

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Thu Nov 15, 2018, 10:10 PM

Nov 2018

Do not get ugly, just be yourself and use your whole damn name.

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Ok my blood is boiling today!!! [View all] samplegirl Nov 2018 OP

so sorry MFM008 Nov 2018 #1

We can't talk it alway ends up this way! samplegirl Nov 2018 #9

i am so sorry girlfriend. i feel for you, my story is very similar. trueblue2007 Nov 2018 #72

I am always sad to read stories like this. madaboutharry Nov 2018 #2

My parents were both staunch democrats! samplegirl Nov 2018 #10

Hugs to you samplegirl. madaboutharry Nov 2018 #76

well, there WAS a time when families were split. Some chose the Union. Others, the Confederacy. Grasswire2 Nov 2018 #96

Sorry about your brother gratuitous Nov 2018 #3

Tell him to change HIS name to Trump. guillaumeb Nov 2018 #4

Beat me to it!! 😉 LakeArenal Nov 2018 #26

It that I've got mine samplegirl Nov 2018 #68

Sad if true. guillaumeb Nov 2018 #74

Like that idea. About him changing his name. LiberalFighter Nov 2018 #90

Stay your course and use whatever name you want. democratisphere Nov 2018 #5

I think I'm to that point but a life long fellow D.U.er and personsal friend is begging me not to as samplegirl Nov 2018 #11

I have nothing to do with my drumpf loving brother and life democratisphere Nov 2018 #12

I tried for years to wait for things to change with my RW evangelical sister. pazzyanne Nov 2018 #54

So glad you held your ground and head high and your health improved! MLAA Nov 2018 #62

You don't have speak to him. And use words. LiberalFighter Nov 2018 #92

I'm sorry blue cat Nov 2018 #6

Could there be a much bigger socialist than a union rep? I bet he doesn't like hearing that. brewens Nov 2018 #7

He hated Obama samplegirl Nov 2018 #13

It's a wonder some family will talk to me. I know they saw one exchange I had on FB. brewens Nov 2018 #15

I'm very sorry, samplegirl. Stand your ground, though as your own self-respect is more hlthe2b Nov 2018 #8

Hi samplegirl, Ohiogal Nov 2018 #14

Thanks Ohiogal samplegirl Nov 2018 #20

Almost no one can push our buttons like our siblings. Solly Mack Nov 2018 #16

Thanks Solly samplegirl Nov 2018 #46

Thankfully my sister is on the same page as me, but my mother...85...so sad onlyadream Nov 2018 #17

Simple solution ..ask him to change his last name. Le Gaucher Nov 2018 #18

I refuse to change my name samplegirl Nov 2018 #21

My thought also - seems like the brother is the one on the outs with thegenersl rurallib Nov 2018 #23

excellent reason to not do facebook grantcart Nov 2018 #19

Well you can only imagine🙄 samplegirl Nov 2018 #24

Don't ever change anything about yourself, your name, anything. It's you, period. And if ... SWBTATTReg Nov 2018 #22

Thank you samplegirl Nov 2018 #28

umbrella drinking buddies Farmer-Rick Nov 2018 #25

He's a pathetic rich samplegirl Nov 2018 #30

Is it possible to babylonsister Nov 2018 #27

I'm not blocking him samplegirl Nov 2018 #31

Sorry for you. bluestarone Nov 2018 #29

His wife was the total oppisite. samplegirl Nov 2018 #34

She's SMART!! bluestarone Nov 2018 #39

Me me me!!! samplegirl Nov 2018 #106

Best advice i saw here was tiredtoo Nov 2018 #32

Yes I think that was the best advice samplegirl Nov 2018 #36

You have a right to your name, your life and your truth n/t TexasBushwhacker Nov 2018 #33

So sorry! Jrsygrl96 Nov 2018 #35

We were all brought up devout Catholics samplegirl Nov 2018 #42

Huh? it's your name too! Did he ever think you may be the one embarrassed sharing it with him ? lunasun Nov 2018 #37

I think I will!!! samplegirl Nov 2018 #43

I avoid talking to both of my brothers Bettie Nov 2018 #38

I'm sorry, Samplegirl Niagara Nov 2018 #40

Toxic is putting it mildly samplegirl Nov 2018 #44

Sorry to hear this . . . however . . . Roadside Attraction Nov 2018 #41

Wow! samplegirl Nov 2018 #45

He's lying to you. pamela Nov 2018 #47

He don't like it that people ask him samplegirl Nov 2018 #64

Your brother has no right to ask you to change your name. Jim__ Nov 2018 #48

One thing you can count on is positive samplegirl Nov 2018 #50

Only a deeply sexist jackass would try to tell a woman what name she can use or sputter Maru Kitteh Nov 2018 #49

He is a sexist but that is the least of samplegirl Nov 2018 #51

Family is way overrated. roody Nov 2018 #52

I hope you post this on Facebook so he can read it. SleeplessinSoCal Nov 2018 #53

He was way out of line. littlemissmartypants Nov 2018 #55

He might be able to hurt me even samplegirl Nov 2018 #73

"Piss off" was the only acceptable response to that clod Tarc Nov 2018 #56

Eloquently stated Sherman A1 Nov 2018 #59

He can't ever tell me what to do samplegirl Nov 2018 #65

Sorry. Duppers Nov 2018 #57

Be proud! vishnura Nov 2018 #58

You go samplegirl! Don't take any crap from him or any republican! MLAA Nov 2018 #60

You won girl. You are not dropping your middle name but don't not Laura PourMeADrink Nov 2018 #61

That may work for some people but don't discount the need for some people to part ways r/o BlueInRedHell Nov 2018 #63

Your right. samplegirl Nov 2018 #66

Good on you AND, you were much nicer than I would have been. nt Ferrets are Cool Nov 2018 #67

Probably so samplegirl Nov 2018 #70

That and a multitude of other things. Ferrets are Cool Nov 2018 #95

Couple of comments... jmbar2 Nov 2018 #69

I won't be eating Swanson samplegirl Nov 2018 #71

I'm so sorry that you have to go thru this shanti Nov 2018 #75

Thank you samplegirl Nov 2018 #80

Why are his Republican buds seeing your posts to begin with? Zing Zing Zingbah Nov 2018 #77

I'm not sure he's telling the absolute truth. samplegirl Nov 2018 #82

You make me happy my family is dead. LOL. Vinca Nov 2018 #78

I know your right. samplegirl Nov 2018 #83

hang in there Samplegirl vlyons Nov 2018 #79

It just angers me samplegirl Nov 2018 #84

Anger is poison vlyons Nov 2018 #87

Happy to be the 100th Rec. My PITA will be here for Christmas. IADEMO2004 Nov 2018 #81

As long as I can still come to Thanksgiving. JohnnyRingo Nov 2018 #85

You will always have a seat as long as I can still cook! samplegirl Nov 2018 #86

I cant understand why or how a Union member or rep vote INdemo Nov 2018 #88

He doesn't need a union samplegirl Nov 2018 #89

His union is paying his pension. Thank God for unions - someone should tell him demosincebirth Nov 2018 #94

I retired (1999) from the Teamsters union after 40 years - shop steward for 25 years, organizer demosincebirth Nov 2018 #93

I would have asked him to drop HIS last name, because it was embarrassing me. nt Honeycombe8 Nov 2018 #91

He does embarrass me samplegirl Nov 2018 #97

That was my immediate thought as well, Honeycombe.... KY_EnviroGuy Nov 2018 #103

My suggestion, take it or leave it :-) FakeNoose Nov 2018 #98

He told my sister I hate samplegirl Nov 2018 #107

Just might have to! samplegirl Nov 2018 #113

Thanks😌 samplegirl Nov 2018 #116

Continue as you see fit. TNNurse Nov 2018 #99

Too fucking bad for him. PoindexterOglethorpe Nov 2018 #100

That's exatly how I feel! samplegirl Nov 2018 #108

Tell him he would have to pay you to not use your maiden name. Ilsa Nov 2018 #101

I'd like to samplegirl Nov 2018 #109

Ugh, 9/10ths of my family are Trump puppets. Onyrleft Nov 2018 #102

Now that's a happy Thanksgiving!...... KY_EnviroGuy Nov 2018 #104

I did a Mexican Thanksgiving a few years ago. Huevos rancheros for breakfast to Churros for dessert. Lochloosa Nov 2018 #114

I'm so sorry LittleGirl Nov 2018 #105

I'm hurt and I'm samplegirl Nov 2018 #110

That's the thing too LittleGirl Nov 2018 #111

I've never been a samplegirl Nov 2018 #112

i blocked one of my t party sisters ages ago on FB... samnsara Nov 2018 #115

That sucks big time. geardaddy Nov 2018 #117

Your brother. Aw damn, samplegirl. I'm so sorry about your having to go through calimary Nov 2018 #118

Thank you❤️❤️❤️ samplegirl Nov 2018 #119