I don't know what we do.

[thucythucy]

15. I'm pretty much in the same boat.

My sweetie is terminally ill--a brain tumor. She needs care 24-7, much of which I provide. We used both to be politically active--it was a huge part of our lives, but for now all that is on hold.

So thank you for this post, and to all the responses which offer such good advice. You are one of the main reasons I keep coming back to DU.

Best wishes to you and yours.