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applegrove

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8. When you are a young adult, and have little history of your own, you borrow
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 11:05 PM
Feb 2019

from your ancestors. Family stories get passed down and you believe them and internalize them. My grandfather and his distant cousin got to thinking they were descendant from a family that was in the French court: Sully. When I went to France I stopped in at thei city house that was still named after them and I think had my picture taken there. It was only when I did genealogy and followed the family and name way back almost a 700 years in England that I realized it was in no way true. Some good came out of it. When my grandfather stopped in Paris during the occupation by the allies during and/or after WWII, he looked up the family name and found someone by that name who were struggling. He gave them some money. Sometimes the family stories totally compute when you do research on them. I've had that happen too. And am now trying to verify one such myth a little further. The basics of it match exactly so far as can be proved on a baptismal certificate. The story is true up to that point. I need more information on the rest of the story. Point is if you are called to the bar and fill out a card you are at the point in your life where you are still buying into the story of one branch or another. And you identify with that. You are the base of the tree. Then you get married and have kids and your children are the focus of all the stories for a generation. Then when you suddenly have time because your kids are almost grown you take a second older look at your history. With adult eyes. And compare notes. And maybe do a little genealogy using more modern resources.

notice how the media never vetted trump like this prior to the election EveHammond13 Feb 2019 #1
+1. dalton99a Feb 2019 #4
+1 uponit7771 Feb 2019 #5
They never vetted Bernie either Apollyonus Feb 2019 #7
Bernie is not the enemy, aim your fire at Trump. nt at140 Feb 2019 #31
A lot of the Trump corruption was out there before the election NewJeffCT Feb 2019 #14
exactly. all of the mob stuff, the sex assaults.... plenty was out there. EveHammond13 Feb 2019 #15
Absolutely right. Thanks. n/t Judi Lynn Feb 2019 #30
She was told by her family she was. I know Repugs will hit her on this--it almost is as bad as riversedge Feb 2019 #2
And Warren has American Indian heritage gratuitous Feb 2019 #3
+1000 Proud Liberal Dem Feb 2019 #18
Let's all pile up on all candidates Apollyonus Feb 2019 #6
It's annoying, isn't it ornotna Feb 2019 #22
ty for keeping abreast of my posts Apollyonus Feb 2019 #25
Happy to help ornotna Feb 2019 #28
Actually, we have no choice. Our standard is now "zero tolerance," ecstatic Feb 2019 #27
When you are a young adult, and have little history of your own, you borrow applegrove Feb 2019 #8
I was told my great grandmother was a Roma healer. leftyladyfrommo Feb 2019 #11
It is amazing what you can get on databases these days. I got a baptismal applegrove Feb 2019 #13
I followed it back as far as my grandmother. leftyladyfrommo Feb 2019 #17
Interesting. I wonder if there are DNA markers for them. I know when I did applegrove Feb 2019 #19
Sorry, it's going to kill her. Moral: DO NOT give an inch to Trump. marylandblue Feb 2019 #9
There's our candidate then superpatriotman Feb 2019 #12
Too bad she isn't running. Maybe she can teach Trump-taming classes. marylandblue Feb 2019 #16
It'll kill her campaign only if rusty fender Feb 2019 #20
No it shouldn't matter at all, but Trump poisoned the well for her. marylandblue Feb 2019 #26
So? nt Baltimike Feb 2019 #10
This reeks of oppo research from another 2020 candidate theboss Feb 2019 #21
Trump defrauded thousands with his fake school bigtree Feb 2019 #23
I think she should step aside. ecstatic Feb 2019 #24
this shows that her belief in her heritage was sincere renate Feb 2019 #29
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