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democrank

(11,096 posts)
Thu Mar 14, 2019, 02:59 PM Mar 2019

"If you had done what he said, he wouldn't have to do this." [View all]

That was my mother’s comment as I was being dragged down the stairs by my hair many years ago. Her words affected me like third-degree burns. They stung and I cried. I stopped fighting back, stopped trying to save myself, got quiet. I just wanted to stop breathing.

Years later, I still struggle with the question....how? How could anyone stand by and watch another person be abusive? Not only watch, but participate in a cowardly hands-off way? This memory comes to mind much too often lately. I honestly believe it’s because of Donald Trump. Seriously, how can some people just stand by and do nothing? Say nothing?

Some folks laugh at Donald Trump. They think he’s dumb. I think Trump is extremely dangerous. Nothing that matters to decent people means anything to him. Nothing. He doesn’t have a conscience to guide him, or empathy to check him. He just plays King of the Mountain like a ten year old bully. No rules, no oversight, he just flings people any way he wants.

I would not stand beside him, sit at his table, ride in his car, accept a phone call from him, allow a conversation with him, be in the same room as him, or let him anywhere near my daughter. There is nothing and nobody he wouldn’t sell out. No law he wouldn’t break. No tradition he wouldn’t demean. He’s a cold-blooded thug surrounded by enablers willing to nod in his direction in exchange for a piece of his putrid pie.

This is not the time to be tame or timid or stay quiet or not make waves. We need to take it to him, push aside his cronies, and expose him for the dangerous, thuggish, traitor he is.





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Treason and Fascism again and again and everyone just turns and looks the other way... magicarpet Mar 2019 #1
The GOP has a really great history since Nixon. BigmanPigman Mar 2019 #9
Post removed Post removed Mar 2019 #2
Well said. rainin Mar 2019 #3
Same here, Demo, MyOwnPeace Mar 2019 #7
What's the plan Phil? lame54 Mar 2019 #4
That was a great episode! FiveGoodMen Mar 2019 #22
Well said spike91nz Mar 2019 #5
Who did this to you, democrank? Control-Z Mar 2019 #6
My heart hurts knowing there are people like your father in this world. Rorey Mar 2019 #26
Thank you, Rorey. Control-Z Mar 2019 #55
People are broken. This excuses nothing. lapislzi Mar 2019 #43
Completely agree debsy Mar 2019 #8
What is justified to stop evil predators? What action would have been justified to stop Hitler? olegramps Mar 2019 #17
first you would need a consensus that he's *evil* . Neither had/has that. Kurt V. Mar 2019 #20
Objectively or Subjectively? Or could it be both? olegramps Mar 2019 #32
Any and All actions gets my vote FiveGoodMen Mar 2019 #23
there will always be "good germans". nt Javaman Mar 2019 #10
Absolutely BEAUTIFULLY said, democrank! Rainngirl Mar 2019 #11
You are 100% on target! n/t GetRidOfThem Mar 2019 #12
And later those "enablers" will PatSeg Mar 2019 #13
Absolutely. catbyte Mar 2019 #14
Whoa. calimary Mar 2019 #40
+1 uponit7771 Mar 2019 #41
Dear catbte lunatica Mar 2019 #47
Will do. catbyte Mar 2019 #54
+1 Ferrets are Cool Mar 2019 #15
every day his friend and palm beach neighbor leads a chorus of ignorant racist liars on certainot Mar 2019 #16
I could not disagree in ANY way. dchill Mar 2019 #18
kinship agingdem Mar 2019 #19
Your post lunatica Mar 2019 #48
what doesn't kill you makes you stronger is total crap.. agingdem Mar 2019 #51
Yes. It's always there. lunatica Mar 2019 #52
Absolute best description of the man I have ever read. colorado_ufo Mar 2019 #21
Awesome post democrank TEB Mar 2019 #24
So glad you survived and can now speak your peace loudly! 🌷🌺🌿🌸☀️😉 MLAA Mar 2019 #25
This thread is why watoos Mar 2019 #27
Agreed 100% N/T usrbs Mar 2019 #45
Something like the Stockhom Syndrome has procon Mar 2019 #28
You're right lunatica Mar 2019 #49
Very powerful post Ohiogal Mar 2019 #29
I'm sorry you had to go through that Demo. It sounds like your mom was abused also and Maraya1969 Mar 2019 #30
I read something the other day, not sure where... maybe here on DU, Dan Mar 2019 #31
What an amazing post. llmart Mar 2019 #33
K&R...👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼 spanone Mar 2019 #34
K and fucking R Blue Owl Mar 2019 #35
This message was self-deleted by its author geralmar Mar 2019 #36
"It was all very careless and confused. They were careless people, Tom and Daisy - they smashed up struggle4progress Mar 2019 #37
I am so sorry. My mother was the same way. My father was a brute. He thought the size cpamomfromtexas Mar 2019 #38
Big K&R Duppers Mar 2019 #39
I'm so glad you survived your abusers. raccoon Mar 2019 #42
"Well, don't push her buttons." A chillingly similar phrase we heard a lot Neema Mar 2019 #44
Kick dalton99a Mar 2019 #46
Thank you for posting this thread lunatica Mar 2019 #50
Nailed him malaise Mar 2019 #53
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