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In reply to the discussion: Word is that truckers got hit with higher taxes for 2018 [View all]A HERETIC I AM
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Is that it was sort of a case of familiarity breeds contempt
Back in the late 70s when the popularity of CBs was booming among the general public, the Breaker Channel - ch 19 - became overwhelmed with traffic, The rise in number of radios in use can be traced to the change in the national speed limit to 55 in 1973. Prior to that, Truck Drivers pretty much had the CB radio to themselves.
The term Good Buddy was fairly common parlance back then but with the new and overwhelming number of radio users, the term began to be co-opted by the 4 wheelers to the point of annoyance.
Side note; The traffic on channel 19 got so heavy that in California, the drivers switched to channels 17 and 15 as their breaker channels in order to get away from the madness 19 had become.
Where and exactly why and by whom the change began is anyones guess, but the flash point was the movie Convoy as I said before. EVERYBODY in a car thought they were Kris Kristofferson driving a black Mack with a duck hood ornament! Good Buddy became so overused that a response from a trucker to a car driver asking for information (where the cops are, etc.) would end up being acrimonious. Good Buddy? I aint your god damned good buddy, pal etc. etc.
As a way of easily distinguishing between fellow truckers and the general public, the word took on the new meaning Ive discussed.
Now...some points should be made;
Is it homophobic? Well, yeah, I suppose it is, although I agree with the point made by I think Morgan Freeman who said that it isnt really a phobia - these people arent afraid of homosexuals, theyre just bigoted assholes.
But trucking is a male dominated industry and always has been and as such, has a macho image, of this there can be no doubt. Also, you dont need an advanced degree to drive a truck so this isnt the most well educated demographic in the country. A certain amount of ignorance and bigotry in this regard must be expected.
So having this large group of individuals, who now feel as if a slice of their space was being overrun by unwanted and unwelcome outsiders, begin to associate an annoying car driver calling them Good Buddy, in other words, being unduly familiar, to being gay was a very short step.
It just morphed into this connotation because its usage among truck drivers tailed off dramatically and as such, anyone using that term was immediately identifiable as outside the group.
Does that make sense?
Again, it is now and has been for years, a slur, a pejorative, an insult. Having someone who is not a trucker, say 10-4, good buddy is taken by truckers as basically saying Ok, you faggot. Thats just its meaning these days and thats not going to change. As I said in one of my other responses, if you dont believe me, just go to a large truck stop on a night its packed to the gills, get on a CB and ask Are there any Good Buddys here tonight?
You will quickly see Im not making any of this up.
ONE LAST THING;
It might seem strange to some, and clearly to the person I had the exchange with earlier, why I would get so defensive or worked up over what many obviously see as a harmless phrase.
Heres why;
Because it comes from a really stupid place, was overused to the point of annoyance and now means something else. The fact that people still use it as if it doesnt mean what it means, indicates they got their information on the culture of trucking from a horribly badly written movie that ridiculously exaggerated what truckers do and how they conduct themselves, that came out in 1978, and those people seemed to stop learning about the culture right there and then!! Its fucking stupid and people need to learn its stupid, and it means something else now. Like I said, no one reading this would likely call an African American person Colored yet that term was very commonly used by white people when they talked about black people about the time the CB boom started.
Words evolve. This term means something else now, and people should stop using it as if it didnt.
I hope what I have written helps clear up any misunderstanding.
I apologize for the delay in responding, but I am on a trip right now, and my co-driver and I just switched 25 minutes ago.
So...time for bed for me..