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NYCButterfinger

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Fri Sep 18, 2020, 12:42 PM Sep 2020

"I don't have friend of another race and I don't care to" [View all]

This was what a white woman told me this morning at my local Sayreville ShopRite in New Jersey.

We were discussing the election and she is undecided, and also apolitical.

She said however, she is disgusted by Black Lives Matter and says she won't care if "segregation came back"

"The races don't get along, so segregation won't hurt", she told me.

"I don't have a friend of another race and I don't care to"

"I don't even remember hanging around another race in school, we were all equals in my eyes"

She doesn't understand why Colin Kaepernick, LeBron James, and the NFL are involved in social justice issues.

She said she is bothered by the fact that Matt Ryan and the Atlanta Falcons are involved in voting rights issues.

She says that "we are still equals, I don't understand how the NFL doesn't think we are equals."

I told her to think carefully about race and to think differently about what she is doing.

Yikes.

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LOL , She isn't Undecided or Apolitical . She is a racist trump supporter JI7 Sep 2020 #1
Who won't admit it. Delusional just like dump. LakeArenal Sep 2020 #2
Yep, there is no way she would support our party as racist as she is. redstatebluegirl Sep 2020 #4
Yup. She's about as undecided as David Duke. OneBro Sep 2020 #5
She's not political. She doesn't like Trump. She votes the person not party. NYCButterfinger Sep 2020 #12
none of that indicates being apolitical. She is a Trump supporter that doesn't JI7 Sep 2020 #13
She voted for Gary Johnson in 2016, voted for Corzine for gov in 2009 and Christie in 2013 NYCButterfinger Sep 2020 #15
The vast majority of protests are peaceful JonLP24 Sep 2020 #30
She says Matt Ryan and the Falcons should focus on winning a Super Bowl NYCButterfinger Sep 2020 #37
Why can't they do both? ahoysrcsm Sep 2020 #84
She is political. Maybe...maybe, she is not Partisan, but she is political Caliman73 Sep 2020 #54
She says we are all equal, but we should be separate but equal NYCButterfinger Sep 2020 #64
She seems like a lost cause to me JonLP24 Sep 2020 #67
She can be educated on healthcare. She's not. Most people are segregationist by nature NYCButterfinger Sep 2020 #69
She seems to be using rhetoric from the 60s which surprises me that she is in her 30s JonLP24 Sep 2020 #71
She said that 28-3 Falcons disaster should be Ryan's goal, not racial equality NYCButterfinger Sep 2020 #72
Ask her to define what White is. Caliman73 Sep 2020 #86
Separate but equal has been proven to be a very bad idea csziggy Sep 2020 #70
Separate but equal was never a thing. Caliman73 Sep 2020 #76
Separate but equal is a thing. She says she doesn't care about minorities NYCButterfinger Sep 2020 #77
Separate but equal is not a valid thing. It is a segregationist excuse. Caliman73 Sep 2020 #85
We have made progress since 1964, I'm not going to sit here and say we haven't NYCButterfinger Sep 2020 #87
Wow Proud liberal 80 Sep 2020 #3
Does she have any friends? White black green blue? LakeArenal Sep 2020 #6
LOL Spazito Sep 2020 #7
That other person obnoxiousdrunk Sep 2020 #17
LOL Spazito Sep 2020 #21
Sports--anti-BLM--NJ--Demoralize greenjar_01 Sep 2020 #25
Yep.... Spazito Sep 2020 #27
I missed the last one... demmiblue Sep 2020 #28
I wonder if they walk around with their information on a sandwich board... Spazito Sep 2020 #32
She is an friend of my cousin NYCButterfinger Sep 2020 #33
Cool story, bro n/t Spazito Sep 2020 #35
Yes. cwydro Sep 2020 #44
I think his Freudian slip is showing... just a wee bit bit. LanternWaste Sep 2020 #31
It is amazing that "a white woman told me".... Spazito Sep 2020 #39
Honestly, is it so simple as to present a persona through which you peddle right wing greenjar_01 Sep 2020 #40
I have to admit I find it amusing... Spazito Sep 2020 #46
I don't find it amusing...these posts are deeply fucking racist...that's it's fobbed off on a greenjar_01 Sep 2020 #53
Well, seeing as their OP has not been removed by the poster... Spazito Sep 2020 #57
Agreed greenjar_01 Sep 2020 #61
I agree JonLP24 Sep 2020 #74
I'm not promoting segregation, I'm telling you what an woman told me at ShopRite NYCButterfinger Sep 2020 #78
Spot on. cwydro Sep 2020 #81
Indeed. cwydro Sep 2020 #48
Damn, i missed that one! cwydro Sep 2020 #52
I don't see how anyone can claim to be totally one race, especially white. Croney Sep 2020 #8
hope you had a mask on. Whatever she has may be contagious. rurallib Sep 2020 #9
She had a mask, I had a mask. NYCButterfinger Sep 2020 #11
That sounds like the same reasoning that COVID is fake Claustrum Sep 2020 #10
Probably lived in a bubble her whole life. eppur_se_muova Sep 2020 #14
She is a white suburbanite from Sayreville, a working class town in Central Jersey NYCButterfinger Sep 2020 #16
I've met a few women like that. They think the whole country lives about as happily as they do ... eppur_se_muova Sep 2020 #18
That's certainly quite a bit of background for someone you merely encountered at a store... LanternWaste Sep 2020 #34
Yeah she is about as apolitical as Moscow Mitch Takket Sep 2020 #19
Right now I don't have any ongoing friendships PoindexterOglethorpe Sep 2020 #20
Hopefully she does not vote RhodeIslandOne Sep 2020 #22
A very kind response, considering. maxsolomon Sep 2020 #23
She's in her 30s NYCButterfinger Sep 2020 #26
Jesus Mary and Joseph. I'd have fucking GONE OFF. maxsolomon Sep 2020 #45
Yes, they are a lot of Black and Asian people in my town NYCButterfinger Sep 2020 #50
That's a really selfish perspective Zing Zing Zingbah Sep 2020 #24
For anyone interested: Sayreville is in the NJ 6th Congressional District greenjar_01 Sep 2020 #29
Everywhere has Republicans and Democrats NYCButterfinger Sep 2020 #36
Sure sure greenjar_01 Sep 2020 #38
You musta been in the market for a very long while MizLibby Sep 2020 #42
This is not made up. I would not make something up like this NYCButterfinger Sep 2020 #47
I believe you... MizLibby Sep 2020 #58
Sayreville is the Missouri/Ohio/Florida of New Jersey NYCButterfinger Sep 2020 #65
NJ has pockets of intense racism Wicked Blue Sep 2020 #83
welcome to DU maxsolomon Sep 2020 #49
Thank you max! MizLibby Sep 2020 #66
Wow, Trump is so bad even the White Nationalists are undecided Polybius Sep 2020 #41
She's not a white nationalist. She's not involved in that stuff. NYCButterfinger Sep 2020 #51
You are right Polybius Sep 2020 #56
No one is obligated to have friends of their own or any other race Klaralven Sep 2020 #43
You have clearly missed the point. Squinch Sep 2020 #60
I never have these political discussions in grocery stores. cwydro Sep 2020 #55
LOL, me too... Spazito Sep 2020 #62
"Romaine obsessed" cwydro Sep 2020 #80
Ignorant racist assholes tend to be ignorant and racist. And assholes. Squinch Sep 2020 #59
I must be spending too much time out of the country DFW Sep 2020 #63
As if it's her choice lame54 Sep 2020 #68
Good grief. Buckeye_Democrat Sep 2020 #73
Willful ignorance. She's closed her mind to learning anything more. yardwork Sep 2020 #75
The Northeast is not really that BLUE NYCButterfinger Sep 2020 #79
Too bad. She's missing out on the pontential of... electric_blue68 Sep 2020 #82
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