I was thrilled to be able to be the primary care person for some of my grandchildren so they wouldn't be cared for by a stranger. But there were times it was demanding, and now I'm relieved that I can completely make my own schedule. Or not schedule anything at all.
I've always enjoyed my own company, so in that respect, the restrictions because of this pandemic haven't been that difficult for me. Last year I got a divorce, and after my ex-husband moved out, I realized I REALLY like living alone and I hope that never has to change. One of my sons repeatedly asked me to go live with him and his family, and I finally had to just get blunt and tell him it was never going to happen. I love them and they love me, and I want to keep it that way. At this moment, I can't imagine being more content with the way things are for me personally.
It's sounds like your life has been and is awesome, and you have the wisdom to appreciate it. I think life is a lot easier, and way more fulfilling, when you're a glass half full kind of person. I usually feel like my glass is way more than half full. I'm very fortunate, at least at this moment in time.
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