'He will forgive the crook...but he will not forgive the people who made him feel dumb'

[PatSeg]

25. In many instances, it actually makes it worse

Now they are verified fools and sadly you are a witness, hence a constant reminder of their embarrassment.

My father was very active in republican politics and was a huge Nixon supporter. He was crushed by Watergate and felt betrayed, but he rarely ever discussed politics after that and I didn't bring it up.

Often over time, the wounds will heal, but we can't expect it to happen quickly. Your daughter is getting used to the idea that she was used and deceived by someone she admired and trusted. I suppose it is lot like a divorce from a lying, cheating spouse.