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DFW

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150. Sorry about that!
Fri Jul 26, 2024, 02:14 PM
Jul 26

Yes, Renaissance Weekend is different from almost all the other meeting-of-the-mind gatherings. The egalitarian vibe is one of the core principles. It is nothing like the TED talks, where some guru imparts wisdom to the crowd. The main tenet of being invited to Reniassance is that if accepted, it is taken for granted that you will participate and have something to contribute. Everyone who is supposed to have expertise is expected to speak briefly, and then the rest of the people in the room chime with comments or questions. At dinner, you can be sitting with a Senator, a Nobel Prize winner, a Supreme Court Justice, and a famous author. Or a university professor, or someone who rowed the Atlantic solo, or just another mere mortal, like me. It's where I got to be friends with Gabby Giffords and Mark Kelly, Howard Dean, Dr. Ruth, Theo Bikel, Peter Norton, Veronica Biggins, Wes Clark and a LOT of etc. You can just go up and chat to anyone (including Bill Clinnton, when he attends).

Just before it breaks up, on Jan. 1, there is a panel called "if these were my last words." For some there, it turned out to be just that. I had a near-miss with "the Reaper" in 2004, and was asked to give one of the speeches there on Jan. 1, 2005. After I was done, I heard someone behind me say, "good speech!" I turned around, and it was Justice Stephen Breyer of the Supreme Court. THAT'S what Renaissance Weekend is like. Breyer never introduced himself there as "Justice Breyer," but as "Steve Breyer." That is what sets Renaissance Weekend apart from all these other fancy-dancy meet-ups. The small groups can be about authoring books, politics, gay rights, medicine, exploring, economics, government, movie music scoring, social issues, family issues, cancer, grief, anything. The only hard and fast rule is that you have something to contribute in some field or other. And that you wear your name tag.

I got invited in 1999, and got hooked. I have been to every one since. Unless you act like a real asshole (e.g. Steisand, a few Republican extremists), you are always invited back. I got to be friends there with Richard Viguerie, and THAT guy is the devil incarnate, the political Prince of Darkness. But at Renaissance, you can actually sit down and talk to him, and he's happy to chat. He'll call you full of shit, and you'll call him full of shit, but it's done in an unlikely, but genuinely cordial atmosphere. And he wears his name tag just like everyone else.

straight ahead . to the first star to the right till morning, james t kirk and peter pan. AllaN01Bear Jul 25 #1
I met the real Captain James Kirk DFW Jul 25 #37
hihwodi. AllaN01Bear Jul 25 #69
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WHo is this person? i dont recognize her. Name please? Amaryllis Jul 25 #3
Which person would that be? n/t DFW Jul 25 #36
Yeah, which one? ShazzieB Jul 25 #66
This is awesome, thanks so much for sharing! nt still-prayin4rain Jul 25 #4
Even after all this time DFW Jul 25 #38
For sure! still-prayin4rain Jul 25 #62
And these lottery winnings were tax-free DFW Jul 26 #90
Lovely story. pfitz59 Jul 25 #5
I hit the jackpot in the female category DFW Jul 25 #39
Happy Anniversary DFW. I always enjoy the timeline images you post. irisblue Jul 25 #6
Thanks, Iris! DFW Jul 25 #40
Oh thank you so much for this wonderful article, the pictures and your beautiful family. I wouldn't have missed this SheilaAnn Jul 25 #7
Nor would I! DFW Jul 25 #41
What a beautiful story and pics. Thanks so much for sharing! 50 Shades Of Blue Jul 25 #8
Thanks for taking the time! n/t DFW Jul 26 #91
Thanks for sharing your photos of your great life riverbendviewgal Jul 25 #9
The late, and still missed, Stan Lee had a great description of them DFW Jul 26 #85
Wonderful malaise Jul 25 #10
Thanks, Malaise! n/t DFW Jul 25 #42
I wish I could rec this several times. lpbk2713 Jul 25 #11
I definitely won the lottery, you are quite right! DFW Jul 25 #43
Ja! Das ist zher gut. Danke. Botany Jul 25 #12
Quite a beautiful shot. Probably not taken around Dusseldorf or environs. erronis Jul 25 #34
Not my pic, but...... DFW Jul 25 #44
No it is Cleveland's eastern suburbs. Botany Jul 25 #50
And the Cuyahoga is now a model of a clean river... erronis Jul 25 #70
Beautiful photo! ShazzieB Jul 25 #67
Good catch! DFW Jul 26 #92
Happy Anniversary KS Toronado Jul 25 #13
That was just parked on a street corner in Victoria. DFW Jul 25 #45
OMG! What a sweet story! BComplex Jul 25 #14
Dumb luck definitely played a part in our story. DFW Jul 25 #47
Love this - Happy Anniversary! nt TBF Jul 25 #15
It's the anniversary of our having met, not our wedding DFW Jul 25 #53
Thank you for posting this. Mr. Evil Jul 25 #16
More like I took a wild shot and happened to hit the bullseye by accident DFW Jul 25 #51
DFW...You are a stud. rubbersole Jul 25 #17
Naaah, just a lucky nerd! DFW Jul 25 #48
🤫 rubbersole Jul 25 #64
Love story, great life, wonderful pictures! calimary Jul 25 #18
Thanks for the kind words, Calimary! n/t DFW Jul 25 #52
I've said it before, DFW, and I'll say it again . Permanut Jul 25 #19
Your wife knows whereof she speaks! n/t DFW Jul 25 #49
You have led, and continue to lead... 3catwoman3 Jul 25 #20
Thanks, Catwoman! DFW Jul 26 #95
Thank you for sharing these wonderful photos and the beautiful memories they represent. alwaysinasnit Jul 25 #21
Thanks for that DFW Jul 26 #93
Wow! oberle Jul 25 #22
I don't know about her DFW Jul 25 #56
What a beautiful photo montage! A life well lived for you and your wonderful wife, and your kids. n/t PatrickforB Jul 25 #23
I was lucky to tag along DFW Jul 26 #96
Incredible! Two lives, SO well lived peppertree Jul 25 #24
We only played the hand fate dealt us DFW Jul 25 #58
Bless your blessed lives - all of you. Thank you so much for this post. NBachers Jul 25 #25
Thanks for the visit! n/t DFW Jul 26 #98
Happy anniversary DFW! LA Blue Bengal Jul 25 #26
Thanks! DFW Jul 26 #99
💖 Marc, that was the best thing I'll read all day. You brought a tear to my eye. 💖 Hekate Jul 25 #27
Thanks, Hekate! DFW Jul 26 #101
I am beyond impressed. I'm in awe. PCIntern Jul 25 #28
I hope the post of the decade will come on January 20th, 2025. DFW Jul 25 #60
Happy endings for nerds always makes for a great story! PatSeg Jul 25 #29
Very astute! DFW Jul 26 #102
Oh yes, much better than revenge! PatSeg Jul 26 #108
Fate, love, and a very good life Wild blueberry Jul 25 #30
Cheers back! DFW Jul 26 #109
Happy, happy! 😍🥰❤️ 🍷 Oopsie Daisy Jul 25 #31
Danke sehr! n/t DFW Jul 26 #116
Love your pictures and your stories, DFW Alice Kramden Jul 25 #32
Thanks Alice! n/t DFW Jul 26 #117
Remember "back then" few of us thought we'd live to see 30 years. Now you have 50 years of FailureToCommunicate Jul 25 #33
Thanks, but we didn't get married ten minutes after we met (although I probably would have!) DFW Jul 25 #35
Okay, so I may not have read your post as FailureToCommunicate Jul 25 #72
Wow! Thank you for that wonderful story! CaptainTruth Jul 25 #46
Thanks Captain! n/t DFW Jul 26 #94
Lovely mcar Jul 25 #54
Thanks for that! n/t DFW Jul 26 #121
Heart-warming story wordstroken Jul 25 #55
It's my only way of inviting you all to the party! n/t DFW Jul 25 #57
I enjoyed the party! wordstroken Jul 25 #68
Absolutely love your story and all the beautiful photos! Happy Anniversary! highplainsdem Jul 25 #59
Thanks Highplainsdem! DFW Jul 26 #126
Your heartfelt love story never fails to inspire me. dawg Jul 25 #61
I sure did, anyway DFW Jul 26 #124
Congrats on 50 years of happiness Bayard Jul 25 #63
Put in one post, it seems that way DFW Jul 26 #128
Beautiful, all of you! Dave says Jul 25 #65
Especially her! DFW Jul 26 #129
Your love shines so brightly can't help but see it shine on you Dave says Jul 26 #144
If I might make a suggestion... Liberal In Texas Jul 25 #71
Thanks for the tip! DFW Jul 26 #83
HAPPY 'anniversary!' elleng Jul 25 #73
Thanks, Ellen! n/t DFW Jul 26 #118
You, sir, have indeed had a wonderful life🙂 nt Javaman Jul 25 #74
It has had its bumps and scares along the way. DFW Jul 26 #100
Just yesphan Jul 25 #75
Thanks! DFW Jul 26 #111
I love the way youo tell a story -- it ALWAYS makes me immensely happy: thank you for sharing. fierywoman Jul 25 #76
It doesn't seem like 50 years DFW Jul 26 #120
What an extraordinary life! biophile Jul 25 #77
Oh, yes, we do NOT take it for granted DFW Jul 26 #122
That Axis wedding sure turned out fine. Lucky you. And lucky her. Bundbuster Jul 25 #78
An old French friend of mine used to remind me of a wise comment from over a century ago DFW Jul 26 #125
Congratulations to you both on your amazing adventures! May they continue for many more years! CaliforniaPeggy Jul 25 #79
No need to apologize. I haven't gotten to all of the replies yet, even a day later! DFW Jul 26 #130
I can't help but wonder ... eppur_se_muova Jul 25 #80
Bill Clinton is always very happy to wear that name tag DFW Jul 26 #82
Interesting, and I like the egalitarian vibe ! Not a hater of La Streisand, but somewhat confirms her rep. eppur_se_muova Jul 26 #145
Sorry about that! DFW Jul 26 #150
Thanks for sharing this great story and all your wonderful photos! FakeNoose Jul 26 #81
I am an even luckier man DFW Jul 26 #103
Happy Meetaversary Sir! FHRRK Jul 26 #84
Thanks for that! DFW Jul 26 #104
Absoulutely fantastic story -Here's to many more years together! GoneOffShore Jul 26 #86
We never know how many DFW Jul 26 #106
Eat your heart out hallmark vercetti2021 Jul 26 #87
LOL! DFW Jul 26 #89
What a wonderful love and life story! BlueMTexpat Jul 26 #88
We never know, of course DFW Jul 26 #97
Wonderful post my fellow Euro-dwelling friend, and a huge happy anniversary!! Celerity Jul 26 #105
Tack skall du ha! DFW Jul 26 #107
ahhh, well save the card for your next anniversary! lol, it is not number of years specific Celerity Jul 26 #110
Fair enough! DFW Jul 26 #112
an aside.. How is Cecile Richards doing? I saw a pic of you with her, and I have been so worried since her brain cancer Celerity Jul 26 #114
Not well, I fear. DFW Jul 26 #115
so sorry to hear that, she is an amazing woman, just like her mum Celerity Jul 26 #142
This reminds me of a Frank Sinatra quote... SKKY Jul 26 #113
I think I can also say DFW Jul 26 #131
Well played Sir. Well played. SKKY Jul 26 #132
Hanging out with my three favorite Tucsonans! ChazInAz Jul 26 #119
Gabby, Mark and I rang in the new year together on Jan. 1, 2011 DFW Jul 26 #133
My wife and I had an office ChazInAz Jul 27 #155
Sometimes, fate just has a way of saying, "not today." DFW Jul 27 #156
The eery thing is this. ChazInAz Jul 27 #157
I hope you eventually got to tell her. DFW Jul 27 #158
I never saw her, again. ChazInAz Jul 27 #159
Beautiful story. Beautiful life. Clouds Passing Jul 26 #123
Thanks! DFW Jul 26 #134
Wow -- Happy 50th! What an interesting life and storythe two of you have shared!. KPN Jul 26 #127
Without her, it would have been nothing DFW Jul 26 #135
Wonderful journey bdamomma Jul 26 #136
Spread out over fifty years DFW Jul 26 #137
Now, that, DFW, mucholderthandirt Jul 26 #138
I don't know if we'll make it to 122 DFW Jul 26 #139
How wonderful! GPV Jul 26 #140
Thanks! DFW Jul 26 #148
Congrats on your 50th! Mr.Bill Jul 26 #141
If you found the right one at 41 DFW Jul 26 #147
Thank you. Mr.Bill Jul 26 #149
Kick and rec! Wednesdays Jul 26 #143
Vielen Dank! n/t DFW Jul 26 #146
That's great. Congratulations 🎈 underpants Jul 26 #151
Thanks! DFW Jul 26 #152
Congrats! Didn't know Mark Kelly was so short. sinkingfeeling Jul 26 #153
Not really short DFW Jul 27 #154
Congratulations to you both for your 50th Anniversary! Niagara Jul 27 #160
Thanks, Niagara! DFW Jul 27 #161
Something beautiful happened. Kid Berwyn Jul 27 #162
It takes two to Tango DFW Jul 27 #163
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