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deurbano

(2,946 posts)
47. For me, it was RFK-- the GOOD one!
Fri Jul 26, 2024, 05:35 PM
Jul 26

I was in 8th grade, just parroting my parent's choice (Nixon) until I heard Robert Kennedy on the radio, and that was that. I was up watching the election returns the night he was killed, and was just devastated. Because my parents were pretty political, I had been vocal in my support of Nixon (without having a clue), so at my 8th grade graduation (the day RFK died), my English teacher asked me if I was happy! (That still stings...)

My parents were Southern Democrats from the MS Delta (I spent my first two years there, before they moved to Bakersfield), and when I was about 40, I learned my dad had been a member of the White Citizens Council, and that both parents knew the men who killed Emmett Till. (We lived in Glendora, and his body was pulled out of the river not far from there.) My mom attended the trail, and neither parent ever expressed any regret about the murder of a 14-year-old Black child. They had voted for JFK in 1960, but switched to the Republican Party once they found him too supportive of integration, especially in schools. We had an album by a kind of "folk" group called "The Goldwaters," that came out before the assassination, with a lot of songs mocking him and his administration: "Bobby, Bobby, we've been thinking, when you studied for the Bar, did you read the Constitution, did you ever get that far?" And: "Barry's gonna win in '64, the New Frontier will be no more..." Etc. (Including imitations of the Boston accent.)

My parents loathed JFK so much that I was stunned at the country's reaction to his death (when I was nine). I didn't "get" it at first, and just assumed everyone would be relieved. Within a few months, though, JFK had become my new hero, since I always fell hard for hagiographies. I really started departing from the family line about then, especially in questioning my parents' views on race... but after RFK, I was definitely never going to vote Republican.

Baby Boomers going nuts over Kamala. [View all] kerry-is-my-prez Jul 26 OP
we Baby Boomers know what aging does to a mind and a body... agingdem Jul 26 #1
I've been surprised at how many people assume baby boomers are pissed about Biden. Ms. Toad Jul 26 #4
No. I don't think they remain angry about Biden--the way in which the "shove-out" became so public & humiliating, yes hlthe2b Jul 26 #6
thank you- well stated nt et tu Jul 26 #7
Absolutely agree with your observation that we need to be assessing an individual rather than another number. Ms. Toad Jul 26 #11
Good points. calimary Jul 26 #22
The fates have been cruel to Joe Biden but he never stopped loving and working for this nation's people and the world Attilatheblond Jul 26 #34
What a gorgeous post, saluting a genuinely beautiful soul. calimary Jul 27 #54
Good points and post my Dem friend... democratsruletheday Jul 26 #28
I agree. I didn't see the debate, so I had to rely on other opinions. Ocelot II Jul 26 #29
I'm sorry about your brother. It would be impossible for me not to internalize/personalize his decision-- hlthe2b Jul 26 #2
My parents were very Republican so I think that's why he sticks to it. kerry-is-my-prez Jul 26 #3
What made him transition from moonscape Jul 26 #24
Yep - He told me he's beginning to believe in conspiracy theories. kerry-is-my-prez Jul 26 #32
Thanks. Interesting that most of my childhood moonscape Jul 26 #41
Boomers realize The Wizard Jul 26 #5
Yes - I retired a year ago. I think the stress of working kerry-is-my-prez Jul 26 #14
As I became more disabled XanaDUer2 Jul 26 #25
I'm actually doing better brain wise now that I retired. kerry-is-my-prez Jul 26 #33
As a boomer, I am so happy to see this! BigDemVoter Jul 26 #8
Reagan fared worse with Boomers than with the older generations DBoon Jul 26 #36
Thanks! BigDemVoter Jul 26 #44
Roads not taken.... OAITW r.2.0 Jul 26 #53
Certain astrophysicists believe in the "Many Worlds" theory. Parallel Earths w various degrees of differences. electric_blue68 Jul 27 #58
We BOOMERS want Social Security and Medicare to NOT be cut! ProudMNDemocrat Jul 26 #9
Exactly. Can we please fix social security.. honest.abe Jul 26 #16
Eliminate the Gross Earned Income cap. ProudMNDemocrat Jul 26 #17
Yep. Seems a no brainer. honest.abe Jul 26 #18
That's it!!! Been hoping for it for YEARS! NM Grins Jul 26 #23
Post removed Post removed Jul 26 #10
Kamala Harris was born on October 20, 1964. generalbetrayus Jul 26 #12
An 18 year span for which the youngest have little in common with the oldest, yet the stereotyping always hlthe2b Jul 26 #13
Thank you for that. llmart Jul 26 #39
My husband is 1961 Unwind Your Mind Jul 27 #61
Kamalamania? anamnua Jul 26 #15
Yep I'm nuts honest.abe Jul 26 #19
she IS a baby boomer Skittles Jul 26 #20
Some would say she's late Generation Jones and/or and early Generation X. megahertz Jul 26 #26
I have seen her called Gen X Skittles Jul 26 #27
Yeah, she has a foot in both being born at the end of 1964. nt still-prayin4rain Jul 26 #48
I'm a Boomer. As is my husband (originally a Republican back in the day) peggysue2 Jul 26 #21
if your brother is a never trumper, why does he feel compelled to vote for him now? nt Javaman Jul 26 #30
His identity is tied up in being a Republican. My kerry-is-my-prez Jul 26 #37
perhaps, you can convince them, just to not vote for the president. Javaman Jul 26 #38
Hard to believe that Harris and Trump are both Boomers Polybius Jul 26 #31
Saw on the news that 40 million Boomers have died since 2016 Kaleva Jul 27 #56
She's also ours! (Last of the Boomers!) Hands off, GenX! deurbano Jul 26 #35
A lot of grew up during the hippy era with Watergate kerry-is-my-prez Jul 26 #42
For me, it was RFK-- the GOOD one! deurbano Jul 26 #47
What a story, ty for sharing! DontBelieveEastisEas Jul 26 #51
What an amazing, and intense story re your parents! electric_blue68 Jul 27 #57
Lol! We can share! nt ecstatic Jul 26 #43
I'm... myohmy2 Jul 26 #40
Why is your brother Figarosmom Jul 26 #45
nice uponit7771 Jul 26 #46
Depending on how the demographic is defined, I'm either a boomer or just a tad younger than boomers. TomSlick Jul 26 #49
As a fellow poor retired person living on SS, below the Federal Poverty Level, I totally agree with what's been said. elocs Jul 26 #50
Yes!!! My usually Republican friend is leaning towards the Dems. kerry-is-my-prez Jul 26 #52
KnR! Hekate Jul 27 #55
We have been fighting for this moment UpInArms Jul 27 #59
Some if us thought we might not live to see a woman president. yorkster Jul 27 #60
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