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Ysabel

(2,080 posts)
23. No, it isn't dumb my family had already disowned me...
Fri Nov 8, 2024, 02:16 PM
Nov 8

anyway...

My dad thinks it's perfectly fine to point out to me large breasted women and talk about how much he admires them. He is also unsympathetic about me being raped numerous times. He thinks I did something wrong like went to the wrong party perhaps...

My brother got together with a woman who is a Nazi. So is her brother. Her father was SS. No way do I want anything to do with any of them ever...

Do you think I should?

Regardless, I won't and it's for safety reasons and perfectly legit and perfectly fine for me to not ever communicate with them...

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My husbands sister who is married to a maga and her best friend is a maga kimbutgar Nov 8 #1
That marriage isn't long for this world. BannonsLiver Nov 8 #2
I know my husband and mother in law are worried about that marriage as I kimbutgar Nov 8 #3
After 2016 get the red out Nov 8 #31
Hate to say it but an option is no fault divorce while it's still legal. paleotn Nov 8 #16
THIS THIS THIS. Trumpistas want to eliminate no-fault divorce. Hekate Nov 8 #19
My sister and her husband made it clear to me in 2016 and there's still no relationship Deuxcents Nov 8 #4
that entire forum is gold Coexist Nov 8 #5
This was one of the better comments - GoneOffShore Nov 8 #11
Yup Coexist Nov 8 #34
Let's just hope that the parents don't decide to exact a little revenge... OldBaldy1701E Nov 8 #6
Any MAGA family Mr. Evil Nov 8 #7
"This isn't nearly as fun as they thought it would be". llmart Nov 8 #8
Makes me think mwmisses4289 Nov 8 #12
That is an incident I have never forgotten & have quoted as necessary. It brilliantly captures... Hekate Nov 8 #21
link or video? Nimble_Idea Nov 11 #43
We are staying home Thanksgiving SARose Nov 8 #9
Several colleagues told me today that they have frozen out MAGA family. Pacifist Patriot Nov 8 #10
We told trumpets... idahoblue Nov 8 #13
good Nimble_Idea Nov 11 #44
My nieces husband is one. My neighbor who has a teenage daughter and son with autism is one. TommieMommy Nov 8 #14
And there's way more on that reddit thread... ancianita Nov 8 #15
This is nothing new to me. The magats in my extended family have been on notice since Donny's first term. paleotn Nov 8 #17
Thank you for sharing that. I spent a little time reding through some of niyad Nov 8 #18
"Disowning" family over politics is dumb Renew Deal Nov 8 #20
No, it isn't dumb my family had already disowned me... Ysabel Nov 8 #23
May you be safe in mind and body Hekate Nov 8 #29
Right now, it's temporary. To be decided..... kerry-is-my-prez Nov 8 #24
Maybe. But as an editorial in Le Monde pointed out, there's no excuses for America this time around... Hekate Nov 8 #26
Yes, of course, what's a little Nazi Party membershp among blood relations!!!! hatrack Nov 8 #28
It's needed for the mental health of many of us. La Coliniere Nov 8 #30
Not only is disowning not "dumb", I fucking recommend it. Unfriend/unfollow excise a few MAGA fuckstains today. SoFlaBro Nov 8 #33
You can kick it with all the regressives and Nazis you like due to an accident of fate. TheKentuckian Nov 8 #35
"One can neither agree with a fascist nor be friends with one, unless one is a fascist..." GoneOffShore Nov 9 #37
It's really just that simple JoseBalow Nov 9 #39
I'm avoiding talking to my twin brother. He's a Republican who used to really dislike Trump kerry-is-my-prez Nov 8 #22
My parents will never meet their grandchild. NoveltySocks Nov 8 #25
"F*ckers thought it was just a football game" crimycarny Nov 8 #27
They're about to be rage-fucked along with the rest of us. Basso8vb Nov 8 #32
Page wildflowergardener Nov 8 #36
FO MAGAt snowflakes. FAFO Hassler Nov 9 #38
Thanks for this... orwell Nov 11 #40
Struggling with this right now Johnny2X2X Nov 11 #41
Republican sense of humor is sick. They Emile Nov 11 #42
(hava) Happy Thanksgiving y'all speak easy Nov 12 #45
I have been doing this for years DemonGoddess Nov 12 #46
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