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hay rick

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71. I imagine he was a good father to you when you were raised.

Tue Dec 3, 2024, 12:33 PM

Dec 3

If he taught you to hold yourself and others accountable, it is appropriate for you to hold him accountable now. It's very sad.

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Well, I just had my last meal with my dad, I think. [View all] Coventina Dec 3 OP

sorry. Hug to ya. Eko Dec 3 #1

I'm so sorry. Baitball Blogger Dec 3 #2

I've lost some family to this madness, too, so I have some idea how you're feeling. Deuxcents Dec 3 #3

How dreadful for you, my dear Coventina . . . CaliforniaPeggy Dec 3 #4

After that, how did you leave it with your dad? soandso Dec 3 #5

We politely thanked each other for listening, and said goodbye. Coventina Dec 3 #7

Sorry to hear that, Coventina soandso Dec 3 #9

Nah NoRethugFriends Dec 3 #20

I'm VERY sorry. elleng Dec 3 #6

I wish he had died without me knowing about this ugly new chapter. Coventina Dec 3 #8

he probably changed ecstatic Dec 3 #10

He was always anti-abortion and anti-LGBT+, but never thought that there were plots and Coventina Dec 3 #12

Please see my comment below... Woodycall Dec 3 #25

I cannot stress enough barbtries Dec 3 #73

My mom gets worse every time she gets Covid. Hope22 Dec 3 #18

She has had Covid multiple times? jfz9580m Dec 3 #46

Yes at least four times. Hope22 Dec 3 #50

Sorry to hear thar jfz9580m Dec 3 #81

Yes she is tough! Takes a bounce for sure. Hope22 Dec 3 #84

Yikes jfz9580m Dec 3 #89

I try. Hope22 Dec 3 #93

Coventina SimplyHadEnough Dec 3 #23

81 Coventina Dec 3 #24

At age of 81, I would just let this slide. You will hurt yourself more than he is hurting you now. boston bean Dec 3 #49

I hear you boston bean. My mother and sister were a part of my family triad from #ell. Hope22 Dec 3 #66

Personal attacks require a line to be drawn. yardwork Dec 3 #75

Thank you. Hope22 Dec 3 #78

Easy to say, hard to do. maxsolomon Dec 3 #68

I agree Callie1979 Dec 3 #98

I had a similar thought about my mother. CrispyQ Dec 3 #57

I'm sorry, that sounds awful. BlueCheeseAgain Dec 3 #11

I'm so sorry for your loss. live love laugh Dec 3 #13

Yup. The same Fox News body snatchers took my dad as well. SunSeeker Dec 3 #14

I am so sorry, Coventina. HeartsCanHope Dec 3 #15

My heart goes out to you. I'm so sorry for your pain. Hope22 Dec 3 #16

I'm sorry. Propaganda works. Hassler Dec 3 #17

I'm sorry, that must be incredibly painful. markodochartaigh Dec 3 #19

Something that may help you understand Woodycall Dec 3 #21

ANy way you know to watch it without cable? Amaryllis Dec 3 #102

You can watch it... Woodycall Dec 3 #106

You still need a link.I have a link to watch MSNBC for free. Was hoping not to have to pay. Dont have any streaming, Amaryllis Dec 4 #114

I am sorry LetMyPeopleVote Dec 3 #22

I'm so sorry you've lost your Dad that way. kimbutgar Dec 3 #26

My parents have fallen down the Fox News rabbit hole Diraven Dec 3 #27

My brother in law and his wife - the same. yardwork Dec 3 #76

I feel very bad for you Skittles Dec 3 #28

Thanks Skittles. I keep thinking how ashamed his mother would be. Coventina Dec 3 #29

I know a West Pointer who brings up trans folk, Soros, Hunter Biden Skittles Dec 3 #30

I tell them that we should love transsexuals. Once I was told, yes we do, but they shouldn't have more rights than others DontBelieveEastisEas Dec 3 #32

during the BLM protests Skittles Dec 3 #35

And even feelng the pain doesn't necessarily work. ShazzieB Dec 3 #86

When not much time, I try to stick to just 2 points. The 1st is that DontBelieveEastisEas Dec 3 #31

I am so sorry. Let us hope he will return to reality soon. LoisB Dec 3 #33

If only they could hear themselves. Figarosmom Dec 3 #34

they wanted Hillary locked up Skittles Dec 3 #37

Yeah its all Figarosmom Dec 3 #40

I'm never sure whether to feel scornful of... 3catwoman3 Dec 3 #108

Or the stories Figarosmom Dec 3 #112

Somewhat off-topic, but an amusing memory. Our older son... 3catwoman3 Dec 4 #113

Religion is a superstition. Linda ladeewolf Dec 3 #109

Thats true Figarosmom Dec 3 #111

I dunno Jilly_in_VA Dec 3 #85

I donno Figarosmom Dec 3 #88

So awful, so sorry for you Meowmee Dec 3 #36

they are white male repukes so they get a pass! Skittles Dec 3 #38

MAGAts are **SO** gullible for poorly rendered video fakes -- maybe we need a video of Blacks doing J6 ?? eppur_se_muova Dec 3 #105

I am so sorry to hear this. LastLiberal in PalmSprings Dec 3 #39

I have no family thanks to dump CountAllVotes Dec 3 #41

Feeling bad for you. We have all lost one or two close friends or relatives. This time it is different. Jit423 Dec 3 #42

Some years ago, we were at an annual neighborhood holiday... 3catwoman3 Dec 3 #110

It's devastating watching loved ones fall for propaganda Niagara Dec 3 #43

Oh, my. That's a really tough one. leftyladyfrommo Dec 3 #44

They are stolen from us by FOX Tesha Dec 3 #45

I'm sorry Bettie Dec 3 #47

I'm so sorry. Losing family to a cult must be awful. Crunchy Frog Dec 3 #48

I'm sorry, Coventina. Its so sad Clouds Passing Dec 3 #51

Please do what you can to keep that bridge open. JohnnyRingo Dec 3 #52

Yes, I agree. Elessar Zappa Dec 3 #54

I understand your frustration and pain. Bluepinky Dec 3 #53

So sorry. I've generally liberal family members who've gotten wobbly over the years... haele Dec 3 #55

Very sorry to hear this. bluestarone Dec 3 #56

I just can't understand denying the Jan6 riot SCantiGOP Dec 3 #58

Sorry for you. Those are all the same things my cult-addled brother and sister travelingthrulife Dec 3 #59

I am so sorry. Fla Dem Dec 3 #60

I cannot imagine what you are going through. sellitman Dec 3 #61

Heartbreaking. Just so sad... Mike 03 Dec 3 #62

We lost our daughter. I'm so sorry. It's been very painful. Can't see my grand kids. She doesn't vaccinate them. onecaliberal Dec 3 #63

That's just awful. ismnotwasm Dec 3 #64

That is very hard, but having been there with my brother... NNadir Dec 3 #65

I had my last conversation with my step brother when he said all the liberals in MN were causing all the problems turbinetree Dec 3 #67

I lost my dad to Reagan for a few years AverageJoe Dec 3 #69

it is frightening how many fascists are walking among us cadoman Dec 3 #70

I imagine he was a good father to you when you were raised. hay rick Dec 3 #71

I'm so sorry. barbtries Dec 3 #72

I'm sorry for your loss. yardwork Dec 3 #74

I'm so sorry LittleGirl Dec 3 #77

I am so sorry for your loss. beveeheart Dec 3 #79

I understand wendyb-NC Dec 3 #80

I can't imagine how that must feel. I'm sorry. Scrivener7 Dec 3 #82

I didn't see anyone saying to change the subject to father memories. Festivito Dec 3 #83

Coventina. roamer65 Dec 3 #87

I'm so sorry you're facing this, Coventina Sundance1220 Dec 3 #90

It appears your fatyher has walked into a minefield. rasputin1952 Dec 3 #91

My parents were Republican but liberal when it came to social issues. kerry-is-my-prez Dec 3 #92

So sorry to hear this... Happy Hoosier Dec 3 #94

Trump has destroyed so many relationships. My former BFF of 36 years dumped me because I'm not MAGA. OMGWTF Dec 3 #95

Yeah, it sucks losing a family member. OldBaldy1701E Dec 3 #96

So sorry. I lost my brother to Fox, and then covid killed him. I hate these people, but I'm sorry you lost Dad. Evolve Dammit Dec 3 #97

To me, you're a hero for standing up for yourself and others that think along the same lines as you do. SWBTATTReg Dec 3 #99

I'm sorry for you (and him) The Mouth Dec 3 #100

Welcome to my world. oldmanlynn Dec 3 #101

Pops had chosen unwisely Blue Owl Dec 3 #103

My Heart Pucks mom Dec 3 #104

Do you love your father? CommonHumanity Dec 3 #107