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appleannie1

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13. Growing up we were the middle class wanabee's.
Fri Dec 28, 2012, 10:32 AM
Dec 2012

My dad had worked at Rockwell as a drill press operator until Rockwell moved the plant to the south because his workers wanted a pension plan. Dad finally found work as a bartender and mom as a cook at a bar/restaurant. From that point on we lived on hand me downs and free food.
I quit school at 16 and got a job as a nurses aide. I walked 5 miles to work so I did not have to pay streetcar fare. Both my younger brothers were able to graduate, join the Navy and go to college on the GI bill. I got married twice and by 30 had six kids, his, mine and ours. We bought a huge old farmhouse in the country that we remodeled into a beautiful 5 bedroom house. We had a one acre garden and I canned all our fruits and vegetables, made all the family's clothes and got my GED. We bought a tow behind camper and went on weekend camping trips and saved all year for vacations to places like Disneyworld. When all the kids were in school I got a job as a police and fire dispatcher. Four of my kids went to college, one manages an international race team that last year won a world championship in the LMP II. class, one died and one is mentally challenged. All of my kids are hard workers and doing well. I like to think it is because of the example we set for them. I don't regret my tough upbringing. It taught me how to make nothing into something useful and to value and take care of what I have. And all of my kids are close even though they live all over the world. My granchildren are now teaching their kids values and the self respect one feels from earning and sharing. So at the age of 70 I have great memories. I know my hubby and I were outraged by Romney's 47% remark. We earned the right not to pay taxes on our SS and since we both paid into it with sweat and blood, we do not view it as a handout.

A Whole Different World... KharmaTrain Dec 2012 #1
Middle Class means you are comfortable financially and socially. liberal N proud Dec 2012 #2
+1000 orpupilofnature57 Dec 2012 #10
I watch these young couples buying their first property on HGTV CrispyQ Dec 2012 #3
Not only updated, top of the line appliances, etc. we can do it Dec 2012 #27
No granite countertops???? SoCalDem Dec 2012 #33
Now...GET OFF MY LAWN! tjwash Dec 2012 #4
Your parents sound like my parents :) kentauros Dec 2012 #5
Primarily, I think owning a home IDoMath Dec 2012 #6
More and more Americans today are in the lower straits of society financially, but many think RKP5637 Dec 2012 #7
In my family, we consider middle class rich... nt Comrade_McKenzie Dec 2012 #8
Bought my first house in 1977 Sherman A1 Dec 2012 #9
We bought our first one then too..and we lost sleep worrying SoCalDem Dec 2012 #11
Same here Sherman A1 Dec 2012 #12
Growing up we were the middle class wanabee's. appleannie1 Dec 2012 #13
Our cable spool dining table... trof Dec 2012 #14
Oh my.. you were fancy!! SoCalDem Dec 2012 #18
Cable spool tables are awesome! Odin2005 Dec 2012 #20
I still have one slackmaster Dec 2012 #21
We thought of ourselves as middle class growing up Proud Public Servant Dec 2012 #15
How funny you should bring this topic up. I was thinking this morning and telling my southernyankeebelle Dec 2012 #16
My next door neighbor was a blue-collar worker... KansDem Dec 2012 #17
I'm that age right now and to me "middle class" means... Odin2005 Dec 2012 #19
I always thought "A Raisin in the Sun" was a good example of moving the middle Heather MC Dec 2012 #22
my family was sorta upper middle class hfojvt Dec 2012 #23
I'm 51. When I was 15 dotymed Dec 2012 #24
What Makes You Middle Class Is Your Net Asset Value (NAV) Yavin4 Dec 2012 #25
People who were secure LWolf Dec 2012 #26
My parents grew up in a time when one could abelenkpe Dec 2012 #28
This message was self-deleted by its author ann--- Dec 2012 #29
To me being Middle Class meant you worked hard, and were compensated. DaveJ Dec 2012 #30
I thought we were after we bought our first home tularetom Dec 2012 #31
Things are like they are now b/c the rich and corporations bought their politicians. Dustlawyer Dec 2012 #32
Middle class? Left Turn Only Dec 2012 #34
Married in 78 mgardener Dec 2012 #35
I'm struck by an amazing thought reading this thread dickthegrouch Dec 2012 #36
My father's family was dual income in order to live more middle class Nikia Dec 2012 #37
right now I'd consider being middle class being able to pay my insurance premiums and copays liberal_at_heart Dec 2012 #38
I would add something to that Skittles Dec 2012 #40
My story is hoo-hum, but my grandparents did not believe in mortgages LeftInTX Dec 2012 #39
A new modest car every three years. closeupready Dec 2012 #41
I was brought up by a depression era survivor and a WWII survivor Skittles Dec 2012 #42
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