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hfojvt

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23. my family was sorta upper middle class
Fri Dec 28, 2012, 11:38 AM
Dec 2012

but there were five kids and my parents saved a lot, so we lived somewhat cheap, rather than trying to keep up with the Joneses. Dad had a credit card, but I remember us having to search for a gas station that took it, because not all of them did.

Our house was small by today's standards and the basement was unfinished. I can still remember dad laying the tile in the basement and building a wall to separate the kids play area from the laundry/shop area. Our first TV was black and white and we had a party line phone. The rooms got carpeted one at a time and the house got expanded. A screen porch was added in the back as well as a 2nd garage, although our driveway was a single lane that widened and not a two lane. Dad drove an old station wagon, but in 1976 bought a "new" one - last year's model at a discount, but still used the old one. The new one mostly sat in the garage and was used for vacations. Dad sold it about seven years ago and the exterior was still mostly in mint condition.

For some reason, a family room was added in 1980 even as I, the 2nd oldest was graduating. As I remember it though, I was sorta planning to goto Germany with the German class, and had that happened, it would have eaten up that money for the family room. However, with all of these expansions to the house, dad did a good portion of the work himself. Even my little brother did a lot as he was taking industrial arts at the time. I mostly remember doing a lot of hauling - of concrete blocks and packs of shingles.

A Whole Different World... KharmaTrain Dec 2012 #1
Middle Class means you are comfortable financially and socially. liberal N proud Dec 2012 #2
+1000 orpupilofnature57 Dec 2012 #10
I watch these young couples buying their first property on HGTV CrispyQ Dec 2012 #3
Not only updated, top of the line appliances, etc. we can do it Dec 2012 #27
No granite countertops???? SoCalDem Dec 2012 #33
Now...GET OFF MY LAWN! tjwash Dec 2012 #4
Your parents sound like my parents :) kentauros Dec 2012 #5
Primarily, I think owning a home IDoMath Dec 2012 #6
More and more Americans today are in the lower straits of society financially, but many think RKP5637 Dec 2012 #7
In my family, we consider middle class rich... nt Comrade_McKenzie Dec 2012 #8
Bought my first house in 1977 Sherman A1 Dec 2012 #9
We bought our first one then too..and we lost sleep worrying SoCalDem Dec 2012 #11
Same here Sherman A1 Dec 2012 #12
Growing up we were the middle class wanabee's. appleannie1 Dec 2012 #13
Our cable spool dining table... trof Dec 2012 #14
Oh my.. you were fancy!! SoCalDem Dec 2012 #18
Cable spool tables are awesome! Odin2005 Dec 2012 #20
I still have one slackmaster Dec 2012 #21
We thought of ourselves as middle class growing up Proud Public Servant Dec 2012 #15
How funny you should bring this topic up. I was thinking this morning and telling my southernyankeebelle Dec 2012 #16
My next door neighbor was a blue-collar worker... KansDem Dec 2012 #17
I'm that age right now and to me "middle class" means... Odin2005 Dec 2012 #19
I always thought "A Raisin in the Sun" was a good example of moving the middle Heather MC Dec 2012 #22
my family was sorta upper middle class hfojvt Dec 2012 #23
I'm 51. When I was 15 dotymed Dec 2012 #24
What Makes You Middle Class Is Your Net Asset Value (NAV) Yavin4 Dec 2012 #25
People who were secure LWolf Dec 2012 #26
My parents grew up in a time when one could abelenkpe Dec 2012 #28
This message was self-deleted by its author ann--- Dec 2012 #29
To me being Middle Class meant you worked hard, and were compensated. DaveJ Dec 2012 #30
I thought we were after we bought our first home tularetom Dec 2012 #31
Things are like they are now b/c the rich and corporations bought their politicians. Dustlawyer Dec 2012 #32
Middle class? Left Turn Only Dec 2012 #34
Married in 78 mgardener Dec 2012 #35
I'm struck by an amazing thought reading this thread dickthegrouch Dec 2012 #36
My father's family was dual income in order to live more middle class Nikia Dec 2012 #37
right now I'd consider being middle class being able to pay my insurance premiums and copays liberal_at_heart Dec 2012 #38
I would add something to that Skittles Dec 2012 #40
My story is hoo-hum, but my grandparents did not believe in mortgages LeftInTX Dec 2012 #39
A new modest car every three years. closeupready Dec 2012 #41
I was brought up by a depression era survivor and a WWII survivor Skittles Dec 2012 #42
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