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In reply to the discussion: Is it productive to repeatedly remind white people of how privileged they are? [View all]Starry Messenger
(32,375 posts)296. I have struggled with ALL of those things as a white woman.
And recently too. But you don't speak for me. I understand that as suck as things have been in my life, the added obstacle of trying to do my life as not white would be even more of a struggle.
Posts like yours make DU suck.
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Is it productive to repeatedly remind white people of how privileged they are? [View all]
Nye Bevan
Jan 2014
OP
yeah, I am all too familiar with this bullshit too. what an incredible leap to make. revolting...
bettyellen
Jan 2014
#27
"Are there some things we can do to foster better understanding?" Yes, like discussing
morningfog
Jan 2014
#32
I do note that President Obama's approach was not to lecture whites about their "privilege" (nt)
Nye Bevan
Jan 2014
#34
he is certainly hinting at it, in a pretty gutless manner. guess he follows that "x isn't allowed
bettyellen
Jan 2014
#89
Never been a fan of "only people of race X are allowed to talk about subject Y" (nt)
Nye Bevan
Jan 2014
#46
Seriously? I make an analogy to Watergate and I am "minimizing them as no big deal"?
Nye Bevan
Jan 2014
#250
not giving the person who concern trolls racial issues here the benefit of the doubt:
CreekDog
Jan 2014
#253
here's more bullshit from you: "Why are blacks overrepresented as NBA coaches?"
CreekDog
Jan 2014
#251
I understand why you want to change the subject from your ignorance of Watergate,
Nye Bevan
Jan 2014
#252
i understand why you don't want attention in your thread about racism to your "reverse racism" posts
CreekDog
Jan 2014
#254
yes, we are interested more interested in the opinion of a fellow progressive
CreekDog
Jan 2014
#290
I believe that my statement in the post you replied to has general applicability,
Nye Bevan
Jan 2014
#247
Again, you're playing games, trying to make it sound like I said you, a white person, couldn't talk
CreekDog
Jan 2014
#268
Sounds like someone wanting to (yet again!) remind white people how privileged they are.
morningfog
Jan 2014
#18
So, those OPs do bother you enough to post this poll. Never mind your 'interesting'
idwiyo
Jan 2014
#45
Not so much that they "bother" me, but they invariably seem to descend into bickering
Nye Bevan
Jan 2014
#48
the comparison to black crime makes it sound like something Sarah Palin would say…. or rather
bettyellen
Jan 2014
#128
The "white progressive versions of people of color" can be just as bad, if not worse,
Liberal_Stalwart71
Jan 2014
#257
Are you married?? *smile* Thank you so very much for this! We need more to speak out!
Liberal_Stalwart71
Jan 2014
#264
Again, about as useful as posting "(insert something negative here) is about blacks".
Nye Bevan
Jan 2014
#216
Black people DO NOT commit more crimes than whites. Your racism is showing right there!!
Liberal_Stalwart71
Jan 2014
#138
Don't post any Wikipedia shit! Post crime statistics! FBI stats! Not wikipedia. Most crimes ARE NOT
Liberal_Stalwart71
Jan 2014
#145
You posted violent crimes. Most violent crimes committed by blacks are directed at other blacks.
Liberal_Stalwart71
Jan 2014
#150
What does that have to do with the conversation about eradicating racism in this society????
Liberal_Stalwart71
Jan 2014
#162
you use every opportunity to downplay an instance of racism or racial inequality
CreekDog
Jan 2014
#270
you are completely right, now the OP is trying to bait you into getting a hidden post- this is
bettyellen
Jan 2014
#168
"This entire thread is incredibly offensive." As is 99% of the shit that comes from the OP
Number23
Jan 2014
#196
The only "useful strategy" for combating racism is to openly acknowledge its existence, period.
nomorenomore08
Jan 2014
#174
Nye doesn't want to talk about "white privilege" he wants to talk about "black privilege", look:
CreekDog
Jan 2014
#259
We all live in a racist society. We all have to examine ourselves for internalized racism.
LeftyMom
Jan 2014
#12
Language is important here, it is not productive to remind them "how privileged" they are
Hippo_Tron
Jan 2014
#13
I think most of us here agree that "stop and frisk" and voting rights are important issues.
Nye Bevan
Jan 2014
#44
It is racist and it is morally wrong, and it is another example of white privilege.
morningfog
Jan 2014
#78
Nice! I applaud you! We need more white people--especially white men like you and Tim Wise--to tell
Liberal_Stalwart71
Jan 2014
#233
When white people deny or dismiss or down play racism they need to be smacked with
morningfog
Jan 2014
#77
Then they don't understand that just by mere virtue of being born with white skin....
Tarheel_Dem
Jan 2014
#65
I'm not claiming that every white DUer objects to being lectured to about their privilege.
Nye Bevan
Jan 2014
#298
In theory a large enough dose of option 2 should eliminate the need for option 1
LadyHawkAZ
Jan 2014
#15
it won't. your views on racism against blacks, Benghazi and IRS are well known here
CreekDog
Jan 2014
#280
No but keep trying. Everyone knows the players here, they know what I would and wouldn't say
CreekDog
Jan 2014
#285
I don't think repeatedly throwing the idea of privilege in people's faces accomplishes much
stevenleser
Jan 2014
#22
Okay Steven, did you read David Brooks' ridiculous marijuana article yesterday?
Hippo_Tron
Jan 2014
#61
"Hectoring tone" is right. And that is being kind. (other words like self-righteous come to mind)
quinnox
Jan 2014
#88
like the tone of your screen name honoring a gun, rather than Eleanor Roosevelt
CreekDog
Jan 2014
#273
"...make white people feel guilty for being white." And we have *liberals* saying things like this?
nomorenomore08
Jan 2014
#177
Fuck! That's something that fucking Newt Gingrich would say!! When conservatives call liberals
Liberal_Stalwart71
Jan 2014
#263
And notice the high fives that followed. And from the most predictable of places too.
Number23
Jan 2014
#301
The way you worded the poll suggests the question of whether white privilege exists is up for debate
morningfog
Jan 2014
#35
A perfect illustration of the us versus "them" mindset that I don't think is especially productive.
Nye Bevan
Jan 2014
#52
I have no problem with "us" versus "them" if by "them" you mean MRA's, racism-deniers, and other
nomorenomore08
Jan 2014
#178
If 64% of DU'ers deny the existence of systemic racism then I am out of here yesterday!
nomorenomore08
Jan 2014
#182
We all have varying levels of overall "privilege" due to our individual characteristics.
nomorenomore08
Jan 2014
#185
The overemphasis on class is typically an attempt to dismiss the importance of race.
Liberal_Stalwart71
Jan 2014
#144
Sorry, I just looked through the thread for a post that denies that white privilege exists,
Nye Bevan
Jan 2014
#92
you missed people whining about their sorry white lives? or calling it "privilege" ?
bettyellen
Jan 2014
#93
Ah, so when a white person says that they are poor, they are "denying" that white privilege exists,
Nye Bevan
Jan 2014
#95
it's obvious from the pushback and lack of recs that everyone knows what you were saying when
bettyellen
Jan 2014
#103
I agree with the people who called you out on your use of scare quotes around privilege...
bettyellen
Jan 2014
#127
There is plenty as there is plenty of focus on various forms to avoid the biggest one, class.
TheKentuckian
Jan 2014
#107
it's a waste of time discussing random personal anecdotes whether it is Chris Rock or a single DUer
bettyellen
Jan 2014
#191
What the hell are you going on about Beyoncé for? I thought the quote was germane to what I wanted
TheKentuckian
Jan 2014
#218
It is possible to do things like campaign against the disgraceful racial bias in the death penalty
Nye Bevan
Jan 2014
#96
I prefer "do you agree that there is a racial bias in how the death penalty is applied?"
Nye Bevan
Jan 2014
#99
Like anything, it's possible to discuss issues without being militant about it.
ProgressSaves
Jan 2014
#104
The concept is valid, but misunderstanding and misuse of the word is rife
WatermelonRat
Jan 2014
#112
I think discussion is good. if you don't want to hear it you can trash the thread or don't read it.
hrmjustin
Jan 2014
#120
As long as state justices like Edith Jones tells us, "African Americans and Hispanics are predispose
LanternWaste
Jan 2014
#135
the OP dog whistled the same sentiment be introducing the concept of "black crime"…..*jaw dropped*
bettyellen
Jan 2014
#137
a knee jerk leap from white privilege to black crime is NOT Obamaesque, or merely lazy….
bettyellen
Jan 2014
#166
Well, on the positive side, out of 3000+ pageviews and 112 DUers voting in the poll,
Nye Bevan
Jan 2014
#167
Cheerleaders in high school get many views and are quite popular too, regardless of any irrelevance
LanternWaste
Jan 2014
#189
How about "part of white privilege is the ability to ignore white privilege, so just STFU
geek tragedy
Jan 2014
#139
People who don't see that they are priveleged will shut down when you mention it
Bettie
Jan 2014
#140
Absolutely & this thread is a perfect demonstration of why. The privileged don't like being
Egalitarian Thug
Jan 2014
#157
I chose "neither" because it's not an either/or. And honestly, framing it that way seems to border
nomorenomore08
Jan 2014
#187
okay, that helps, thx. I guess it is obvious, then, that white privilege exists.
Vattel
Jan 2014
#194
I'd like to remind people of all colors how destructive Republican politicians are to all Americans.
OmahaBlueDog
Jan 2014
#195
Suggesting that 68% of DUers are gullible enough for me to manipulate them by a "push poll"
Nye Bevan
Jan 2014
#208
i think you dont understand what privilege means in this context. it is not the
La Lioness Priyanka
Jan 2014
#206
the term was appropriated in academia and is used/understood incorrectly
La Lioness Priyanka
Jan 2014
#236
OP, I'm shocked, but I shouldn't be that this thread is still open and hasn't been locked.
Liberal_Stalwart71
Jan 2014
#223
Threads discussing issues on which DUers are split two thirds to one third are rarely locked.
Nye Bevan
Jan 2014
#224
67% of DUers are not racists. However, this thread is evidence that racism exists.
Liberal_Stalwart71
Jan 2014
#226
A thread that posts a poll question is necessarily not itself a solution for addressing racism.
Nye Bevan
Jan 2014
#227
That poll itself and how it was worked was not productive. It was hostile and biased.
Liberal_Stalwart71
Jan 2014
#231
I say it's unproductive because most people don't want to acknowledge being wrong
alp227
Jan 2014
#271
meh, some folks are guilty because of their white privilege, sorry, cant resolve you
randys1
Jul 2015
#308