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In reply to the discussion: A feminist issue - caregiving of elderly parents [View all]blueamy66
(6,795 posts)25. It ended up being my BF's brother because of the exact same reasons.
But he became a bit bitter about it. I don't blame him, I guess. But he insisted on going to see their Dad every single day after working very long days. Every single day. I couldn't do that for my Dad at the end. I would miss a day every now and then and felt bad about it.
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"Most people in this country are still content with the traditional arrangement of the man being
bettyellen
May 2014
#18
I'm aware that the overall trend the past 50 years has moved women into the workplace.
bettyellen
May 2014
#21
It seems evident that you would like to believe that. You'd also like to believe the salary gap is
bettyellen
May 2014
#23
So basically your claim is your own perceptions trump competently conducted studies
Major Nikon
May 2014
#31
my perceptions line up perfectly what states found in their public sector jobs for the past 24 years
bettyellen
May 2014
#41
Like I said, there is no good data comparing compensation in the private sector. Got anything else?
bettyellen
May 2014
#49
why do you think one woman- your sister- has ANYTHING to do with statistical trends? she doesn't.
bettyellen
May 2014
#42
Good for her- I hope she is more successful than average with her plan to stay out of the job market
bettyellen
May 2014
#50
LOL, I don't know a single woman who "focused on homemaking". They stay home a few months
bettyellen
May 2014
#30
"Daughters are more than twice as likely as sons to become caregivers for their mothers."
bettyellen
May 2014
#19
Not only that, you're on your own for medical insurance, unless you're Medicare-eligible. That is,
raccoon
May 2014
#10
I'm personally affected by two elderly parent scenarios, and in both of them a son ...
11 Bravo
May 2014
#24
So you understand how women feel when they are expected to do it by their brothers.
bettyellen
May 2014
#43