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In reply to the discussion: The Isla Vista shooter COULD have gotten a girlfriend [View all]LisaL
(44,973 posts)64. But he didn't even try to approach these women.
And he didn't want to be with just any woman. He expected very attractive blonds to just approach him, without him even trying. That really is not realistic.
Just like he expected to win a multi-million dollar jackpot and threw a tantrum when he didn't. He had very unrealistic expectation because he believed himself to be so special.
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"they can't see that there is more to the definition of beauty than a pretty face and a nice body"
redqueen
May 2014
#4
Absolutely right. Which is why we have four year olds worried about "getting fat" as if the
Number23
May 2014
#98
It truly is. I also find it sickening that the very concept is mocked and ridiculed
redqueen
May 2014
#106
You can't know that. One report says he was hearing voices. Depending on what he was hearing,
pnwmom
May 2014
#43
That's your opinion. But what is fact is that he was being prescribed an anti-psychotic,
pnwmom
May 2014
#62
"The researchers posit that these differences are evolutionary". Posit=assume as a fact
uppityperson
May 2014
#25
Yes that is exactly it. He never wrote about approaching a woman and actually being turned down and
seaglass
May 2014
#29
I've not watched the video, but getting a girlfriend isn't as easy for some people...
Silent3
May 2014
#10
Not necessarily. He may well have, probably did, turn anyone off immediately.
Schema Thing
May 2014
#11
Exactly what I was going to say. It would be quite easy to repel everyone you meet
stevenleser
May 2014
#18
He assumed every woman he saw was fucking the man next to her- and that POV shows
bettyellen
May 2014
#23
"This Roger guy emits warning signals like a rotating radar antenna": MineralMan
Hekate
May 2014
#46
True. But a strong daughter will be better able to handle the shit that gets thrown at her.
pnwmom
May 2014
#45
Thank you (and squinch and redqueen above you) for your kind words (NT)
Proud Public Servant
May 2014
#131
"To imagine that you can fix the problem by raising the "right" kind of daughter . . ."
Lex
May 2014
#133
He wasn't exactly what I would call an approachable person in the first place
herding cats
May 2014
#80
No, he thought there were many gorgeous girls at school, and was unable to meet anyone on his own.
bettyellen
May 2014
#81
Sigh. I am actually interested, which is why I brought it up. If you would check, you
Common Sense Party
May 2014
#84
someone here confessed they hated feminists because one single woman many years prior had
bettyellen
May 2014
#79
what you have to realize about that kind of resentment, is that you are denying others their
bettyellen
May 2014
#100
He was as shallow as he was disturbed. His obsession with all things "blonde" was absolutely pitiful
Number23
May 2014
#99
Anyone of any age (18+) of any gender can get a girlfriend. Elliot Rodgers problems is he didn't
MillennialDem
May 2014
#101
I find it hard to believe the child of a Hollywood director couldn't get a girlfriend
hughee99
May 2014
#118
I realize people with normal social skills can't understand how someone can't get a girlfriend.
LisaL
May 2014
#119
From what I've read about this guy he had a mental disorder, and had only ever approached a woman
Erose999
May 2014
#122
Animals can sense when another of their species is not right...and we,too, are animals.
Ikonoklast
May 2014
#127