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Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
31. It doesn't matter if people were offended.
Fri Jun 13, 2014, 09:10 PM
Jun 2014

And breastfeeding is not something to be graciously "tolerant" of. It's a protected behavior by law in most states, and for good reason.

"what does it say about"... who? The baby that needs to eat?

Oh, I'm sorry, my baby needs to eat right now, but some prune-faced shitwit is bothered. Here, allow me to accommodate them instead of my baby (because they're clearly the REAL infant in this situation.)

Babies need to eat, and as a father of kids who were breastfed, I can tell you secondhand but with some definite awareness, that successful breastfeeding is HARD. And no one does it with the deliberate intent of pissing people off or "forcing them to watch". They do it because it's a necessity, and usually the baby picks the time and the place.

Where was the mother supposed to go... let me guess, the bathroom, right?

Conversely, no one NEEDS to cradle and stroke their AR-15 in a starbucks.


People have the option to look away. In fact, the polite thing is not to gawk. I doubt she sat herself down at some strangers' table and did it.

Friendly's ain't so friendly! elleng Jun 2014 #1
Shame on that restaurant. CaliforniaPeggy Jun 2014 #2
Yes! Cause it is totally bizarre to feed your child while you feed yourself! Rex Jun 2014 #3
And now some friends of theirs are organizing a "nurse-in" there! opiate69 Jun 2014 #4
good for the mom!! wasn't this chain in the news just a few days ago for some other stupidity? niyad Jun 2014 #5
Was it? I'm on the west coast so I don't get much news from back home... opiate69 Jun 2014 #6
this: niyad Jun 2014 #7
Heh. That's what I get for skimming. opiate69 Jun 2014 #8
you are most welcome. niyad Jun 2014 #9
Yowch, a bit TOO "Friendly".... moriah Jun 2014 #20
Not so sure I like their brand of friendly Blue Owl Jun 2014 #10
One of my old stomping grounds. RiffRandell Jun 2014 #11
Ha! Mine too... opiate69 Jun 2014 #12
They are all closed. RiffRandell Jun 2014 #13
She can certainly stand her legal ground, but if she gets roasted on social media,... badtoworse Jun 2014 #14
Well. That's an odd response. laundry_queen Jun 2014 #21
Yeah, and so is all kinds of nasty speech. What is your point? pnwmom Jun 2014 #25
If tits fired bullets, you'd see them in chain restaurants everywhere jberryhill Jun 2014 #15
+1 Hekate Jun 2014 #16
And another +1 DFW Jun 2014 #17
I was thinking of posting about this, but thought better of bringing it up. badtoworse Jun 2014 #18
What a load. laundry_queen Jun 2014 #22
As far as I could see she was very discreet and nonchalant about it. troublesome_mind Jun 2014 #26
dear goddess, PLEASE tell me you forgot the sarcasm icon, because, if you seriously meant that niyad Jun 2014 #27
It's about pissing people off by exercising your rights. badtoworse Jun 2014 #29
It doesn't matter if people were offended. Warren DeMontague Jun 2014 #31
I've seen women breastfeeding many times. badtoworse Jun 2014 #32
Apparently according to whom? Warren DeMontague Jun 2014 #34
Well, we know boobs are out to destroy society.... moriah Jun 2014 #19
In fairness, the restaurant probably has a policy against bringing in food from outside Orrex Jun 2014 #23
Duzy. hunter Jun 2014 #28
But goddess forgive you if you ask them to warm Ilsa Jun 2014 #35
Yeah, no Hooters food! nt Ilsa Jun 2014 #36
I have faults, what can I say Leme Jun 2014 #24
Friendly's is about to get schooled, I think. Warren DeMontague Jun 2014 #30
No doubt. My niece's story is going viral a bit too opiate69 Jun 2014 #33
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