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In reply to the discussion: How to know that you hate women [View all]JustAnotherGen
(31,818 posts)Of Verbal and Emotional Abuse -
Hatred is appropo.
When you've seen it and heard it with your own 'heart' - you know.
It's hatred. They haaaaaaaaaaaaaate you. It's palpable. The only thing they love about you is your ability to 'take it'. They show their hatred by inflicting pain.
Never this way pass again - and it's important for those of us who HAVE been on the receiving end to let the woman who maybe finds this thread on a simple google search -
It's hatred honey.
Run hard and run fast. He does not love you. He hates you.
Because once she understands that - she can walk away.
My hope is she does as I did and leaves the relationship before it turns violent.
On the ground, real time, tactical - she needs to understand there is NO LOGIC or reason. She just needs to get away from him as quickly as he can.
And that's what I offer on this thread - Who cares why - to that woman. He hates you - so leave!
One thing this type of person does - they 'rationalize'. . . I guarantee you one of these people could use your words to rationalize his behavior. And to his wife/partner/girlfriend again I say - watch the buzz words - listen - HEAR them. And get out.