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H2O Man

(73,537 posts)
Sun Nov 16, 2014, 05:21 PM Nov 2014

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The family and friends of the fellow who recently shot two of my relatives have been spreading a handful of lies, in an attempt to justify his violence. I understand that they are attempting to make sense out of a senseless act. More, I can appreciate that there can be a level of discomfort when the media reports that one's family member or friend committed a brutal, unprovoked attack upon two innocent victims.

Their original story went like this: Two non-residents, passing through the area, selected their family member to rob. They forced him off the road, and confronted him with weapons -- a gun and a knife. It was only after being stabbed three times that their hero -- a retired NYC cop and current part-time deputy sheriff -- acted in self-defense, shooting the father and son hoodlums.

While this is an extremely weak work of fiction (he was arrested literally 5 minutes after telling this to the detective interviewing him), my relatives find it insulting and hurtful. In an era when rumors and lies spread by way of social media, unchallenged all too often, the fact that no newspaper, or television/ radio station has reported on it, hasn't stopped it from spreading.

Hence, I have submitted four "guest op-eds" to the four most important newspapers in our region. Today, the first one appeared in the Binghamton, NY newspaper. I was pleased to find that the editors had included a photograph of the murderer with my essay; while I do not favor judging based upon appearances, I think that photo captures the guy's essence.

Below is a link to the op-ed. I've had a pretty positive response from people who have read it. In each of the four essays, I tried to focus on a different aspect of the shooting incident and the legal process. I hope that they serve the intended purpose: to provide education to the general public.

Also, I recognize that I've been posting quite a few times about this case. I suppose that you've figured out that it has been occupying a lot of my time recently. I really do want to thank all of you who read what I'm posting, and express your support for me at this difficult time. DU's grumpy old (water) man surely does appreciate it!

Peace,
H2O Man

http://www.pressconnects.com/story/opinion/readers/2014/11/16/legalities-aside-right-wrong-clear/19044001/

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Op-Ed [View all] H2O Man Nov 2014 OP
Please don't apologize for posting on this.. Your DU family is concerned and appreciates the updates hlthe2b Nov 2014 #1
Thank you so much. H2O Man Nov 2014 #5
I have to think that the truth will prevail... hlthe2b Nov 2014 #8
I would like to agree with this so very very much. Raine1967 Nov 2014 #23
K&R!!! Ditto! Dustlawyer Nov 2014 #27
We are with you at this difficult time WaterMan malaise Nov 2014 #2
Thank you. H2O Man Nov 2014 #11
That would be wonderful malaise Nov 2014 #18
Thank you for updating. onecaliberal Nov 2014 #3
Thanks. H2O Man Nov 2014 #12
I'm sure it will be a small relief onecaliberal Nov 2014 #15
Your Op-Ed is excellent... Spazito Nov 2014 #4
Yes, it certainly is... hlthe2b Nov 2014 #6
Thank you, my Friend. H2O Man Nov 2014 #14
I am glad your OpEd is already having positive effects... Spazito Nov 2014 #35
You are family, and we want to know. Hekate Nov 2014 #7
Thank you! H2O Man Nov 2014 #20
k&r... spanone Nov 2014 #9
Thanks! H2O Man Nov 2014 #31
Keep us updated... madamvlb Nov 2014 #10
Let me know H2O Man Nov 2014 #32
In the next few weeks.... madamvlb Nov 2014 #42
Excellent Op-Ed panader0 Nov 2014 #13
Thank you. H2O Man Nov 2014 #33
I appreciate your updates, and your reasonableness & honesty. I'm not sure if I'd be so restrained. NBachers Nov 2014 #16
Good question. H2O Man Nov 2014 #17
Yeah, Guzy seems to have the entire procedure down pretty well. Not exactly a wedding-night virgin NBachers Nov 2014 #21
Hang in there. Raine1967 Nov 2014 #24
There are a number H2O Man Nov 2014 #34
Damn, I keep forgetting how close this is.... daleanime Nov 2014 #19
Thank you. H2O Man Nov 2014 #46
appreciate the update... handmade34 Nov 2014 #22
Your op-ed is exceptional. pacalo Nov 2014 #25
Excellent. raven mad Nov 2014 #26
Even it times of loss and morning, you aspire to teach......... Half-Century Man Nov 2014 #28
Thank you. elleng Nov 2014 #29
An excellent op end, H2O Man... ms liberty Nov 2014 #30
For me, this is something of a "local story". FourScore Nov 2014 #36
Prayers to your family, H2O Man yourmovemonkey Nov 2014 #37
Thank You for Sharing Your Family's Difficult Story Again Oldtimeralso Nov 2014 #38
You know, H20 Man Iwillnevergiveup Nov 2014 #39
I admire you MannyGoldstein Nov 2014 #40
Jefferson thanks you. Bernardo de La Paz Nov 2014 #41
powerful -- and yes the photo adds. nashville_brook Nov 2014 #43
Keep writing about this, I want to sse this thing through with you even if its long distance support marble falls Nov 2014 #44
The link to the Op Ed did not work for me. zeemike Nov 2014 #45
I certainly support your struggle to make sense of this tragedy, and greatly admire your FailureToCommunicate Nov 2014 #47
Thank you. H2O Man Nov 2014 #54
I can't imagine your grief BrotherIvan Nov 2014 #48
Thank you, Brother Ivan! H2O Man Nov 2014 #53
Whatever support you need, whatever we can give long distance, just ask BrotherIvan Nov 2014 #55
I hope that you're not one of the last of the grown-ups Mopar151 Nov 2014 #49
Thank you so much. H2O Man Nov 2014 #52
My best wishes on a fitting and speedy resolution on this case. sybylla Nov 2014 #50
My four siblings H2O Man Nov 2014 #51
My husband's family are staunch Dems and long-time farmers. sybylla Nov 2014 #57
I suspect that H2O Man Nov 2014 #59
I bet you're right. sybylla Nov 2014 #60
K&R gademocrat7 Nov 2014 #56
Great Read Sir ProfessorGAC Nov 2014 #58
K&R. My heart goes out to you and yours. myrna minx Nov 2014 #61
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