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In reply to the discussion: Personally I think China's 1 Child Policy to be socially responsible policy [View all]southernyankeebelle
(11,304 posts)Today times have changed. I realize young people today are going to have sex even before marriage. I not stupid about that. I also have a granddaughter and when it comes time her mother should have the talk with her and birth control pills. I don't want her coming home pregnant. I seen her mother pregnant at 16 having a baby in high school. That runs in her family. Both her sister and her own mother were pregnant. In my family none of us did that. So my daughter-in-law came home pregnant the 2d time with my son. My son married her because he didn't want her child being called a bastard. Of course he loved her. So now I have a granddaughter and a step grandson who I love dearly. Sex is a beautiful thing. I just don't believe in bed hopping. Men and jump from bed to bed and the other guys say that a boy. But now women are called whores. Go figure. To me bed hopping on either side I consider whores. But that is me. I don't let guys off the hook. I believe if my granddaughter found the right person and then she decides to get married then let her get on the birth control pill. Simple and plan. I will tell you this much there are many women to hate having sex and only do it because they have to. I enjoy it with my husband but we don't do it as much because we both are older and have medical issues. Sometimes he isn't in the mood. Sometimes am not in the mood. But no where did I say Lust.