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Trillo

(9,154 posts)
34. Thank goodness for the Internet.
Sat Apr 18, 2015, 10:23 AM
Apr 2015

Last edited Sat Apr 18, 2015, 11:33 AM - Edit history (1)

It sounds like abstinence-based sex education is only a little worse than what me and my classmates had back in the late 60s or early 70s.

That quote about 'if the girl says "no", that's the one you want'. OMG. Abstinence-based sex ed is training stalkers and future rapists?

This is a major travesty, religious teachings, even if religion isn't specifically mentioned, have no place in any public school. Public schools should be about teaching and learning known facts, and helping the kids to learn. They should not be teaching 2000 year old superstitions and doing intentional harm which later needs unlearning.

Homosexuality needs to be discussed non-judgmentally, not given a passing and insulting mention and move on as if heterosexuality is the only orientation worth discussing. If one partner is homosexual, and the other heterosexual, you are not sexually compatible. Same goes with a sexual and an asexual. These kinds of potential mis-matches fail the 'pursuit of happiness' goal.

Sexual education should be about more than potential disease and birth control, and it should not be about fear and contempt.

If discussion of abstinence occurs, it should only be in the context of other information and approaches.

Dropping like a stone. FourScore Apr 2015 #1
don't they just show childbirth videos anymore? MisterP Apr 2015 #2
Whatever happened to that film they showed us undeterred Apr 2015 #4
I missed that one... Spitfire of ATJ Apr 2015 #12
I remember those! PatrickforO Apr 2015 #22
The "screaming baby" film was the best one Warpy Apr 2015 #53
Things are pretty sad! peace13 Apr 2015 #3
Such a great read. I just wish it was fiction. DamnYankeeInHouston Apr 2015 #5
KnR. That is both awesome and awful. Hekate Apr 2015 #6
Fabulous, and terrifying all at the same time.... truebrit71 Apr 2015 #7
Wow!!! Unbelievable! riderinthestorm Apr 2015 #8
Sex and bowling. MissB Apr 2015 #9
See, I like that. F4lconF16 Apr 2015 #50
Poor kids. I hope their parents give them better information. Shrike47 Apr 2015 #10
That's a whole lot worse than no sex ed at all. SheilaT Apr 2015 #11
Our sex education was basically nothing at all csziggy Apr 2015 #39
Hilarious! That was fun to read, thank you! scarletwoman Apr 2015 #13
Oh my god ismnotwasm Apr 2015 #14
What a condescending jerk this lady is Yupster Apr 2015 #15
it is okay to pillory ignorant asshats paid with public funding to create zombies. JanMichael Apr 2015 #46
and an author too! latest book alp227 Apr 2015 #16
Post removed Post removed Apr 2015 #17
Oh really? "a typical hysterical mom" Arugula Latte Apr 2015 #20
hey now, bucko Warren DeMontague Apr 2015 #26
You know what's funny? I saw the European Union avatar and Arugula Latte Apr 2015 #35
Enjoy your stay! PeaceNikki Apr 2015 #32
No, she does not. Trillo Apr 2015 #33
You must have been on your phone during spelling class. zappaman Apr 2015 #36
Welcome to DU... SidDithers Apr 2015 #41
and you sound like a typical low count misogynist troll. i mean. see how easy that is. nt seabeyond Apr 2015 #48
Fabulous Post! Abstinence only sex ed does the opposite. leftieNanner Apr 2015 #18
Funny thing--I never had any trouble at all discussing sex with my kids. tblue37 Apr 2015 #28
Once we began to have the discussions leftieNanner Apr 2015 #57
I went into such detail with my son and sex education that he actually said notadmblnd Apr 2015 #54
I got that too! leftieNanner Apr 2015 #55
it's amazing how well our kids do when we're honest and open with them. notadmblnd Apr 2015 #56
love her, barbtries Apr 2015 #19
I can't believe they're still teaching that just say no nonsense. lovemydog Apr 2015 #21
Exactly, telling them not to just tells a teen it is desirable treestar Apr 2015 #40
Whenever I see bullshit ike this hifiguy Apr 2015 #45
damn, that was a good read!!!! BlancheSplanchnik Apr 2015 #23
Wow! Like a time machine back to 1960 and my mother's lexington filly Apr 2015 #24
She was a lot ohheckyeah Apr 2015 #25
Kick! haikugal Apr 2015 #27
My favorite was the line about scissors for aborting the paper babies. nt tblue37 Apr 2015 #29
Yeah, that was great! haikugal Apr 2015 #30
Mine too. n/t FourScore Apr 2015 #31
Thank goodness for the Internet. Trillo Apr 2015 #34
Parenting done right. K&R LadyHawkAZ Apr 2015 #37
Phew! Redolent with W.O.D. crap. Much the same approach & as likely to fail.nm Eleanors38 Apr 2015 #38
....sex is the most awful, filthy thing on earth and you should save it for someone you love." Tierra_y_Libertad Apr 2015 #42
What a great Mom. Scurrilous Apr 2015 #43
Good for her. hifiguy Apr 2015 #44
k and r niyad Apr 2015 #47
Public school malthaussen Apr 2015 #49
K&R !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! n/t RKP5637 Apr 2015 #51
An Absolute Riot! Thanks for posting! BlueJazz Apr 2015 #52
Excellent. n/t. DirkGently Apr 2015 #58
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