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MarianJack

(10,237 posts)
16. Beautiful letter.
Sat May 23, 2015, 08:53 AM
May 2015

Parents (at least sane ones) ALWAYS love their kids unconditionally. Our 15 year old son is heterosexual. He is starting to date girls, some of them very lovely young women. My wife's and my pride in him is rooted in the wonderful man he is growing into, not the fact that he is attracted to females instead of males. 2 of those moments have involved his interactions and attitudes towards LGBT people.

The first was when he was in 5th grade. A classmate came out to him and his response was to tell the boy was that it didn't matter because he was his friend regardless.

The second was when we were at the 2012 Maine State Democratic Convention. I was a delegate and he was the hardest working Page at the convention. When we were buying some buttons for ourselves and Mom, HE selected one for himself that said it SO well. It said something that all of the homophobic fundie bigots like the Duggars should get through their soft, empty heads. BTW, my son still wears the button on occasion.

The button simply says "Some People are Gay. Get Over It!"

My wife and I are VERY proud parents. I may be clueless saying this, but when I became a father I knew that I would always LOVE my son. A very pleasant surprise is how much I RESPECT him.

We do, however, frequently wanna knock him through the floor!

PEACE!

k and r dembotoz May 2015 #1
ripped my heart out marym625 May 2015 #2
K & R! n/t RufusTFirefly May 2015 #3
Outstanding ! Thanks for the post. mahannah May 2015 #4
K&R! Omaha Steve May 2015 #5
I wish I knew her personally. Wow. Just... Wow. vanlassie May 2015 #6
K & R + 1000 libdem4life May 2015 #7
If anything deserves to go viral... annabanana May 2015 #8
+100 narnian60 May 2015 #32
+1000 flying rabbit May 2015 #63
K&R..... daleanime May 2015 #9
The way some people live in this world 'causes me to cry. BlueJazz May 2015 #10
What a ohheckyeah May 2015 #11
Kicked and recommended! Enthusiast May 2015 #12
How saddening! beerdragon May 2015 #50
The religious conservatives claim that people choose to be gay. Enthusiast May 2015 #51
When they claim that people choose to be homosexual Fortinbras Armstrong May 2015 #65
Their argument has no legs. That's why things are rapidly changing. n/t Enthusiast May 2015 #66
We do have DU groups here for those who embrace religion Rhiannon12866 May 2015 #67
Don't EVER piss off a mother! What a righteous rant! Dustlawyer May 2015 #13
We are a country of judgmental bullies. Oneironaut May 2015 #14
Very well written. The emotion leaps off my computer monitor. FLSurfer May 2015 #15
The letter was written in 2000; so her dad wouldve been in his 20s in WW2 7962 May 2015 #18
Letter was written in April 2000. Maedhros May 2015 #36
Beautiful letter. MarianJack May 2015 #16
Now THAT is one heck of a letter!! 7962 May 2015 #17
When you are truly better awoke_in_2003 May 2015 #31
K & R !!! Thespian2 May 2015 #19
K&R nt brer cat May 2015 #20
I remember that letter and the one that precipitated it cali May 2015 #21
I can't remember when I first saw this letter, but it was on DU and I've re-posted it several times Martin Eden May 2015 #23
Reading that letter again brought back a flood of conflicting emotion cali May 2015 #24
Brilliant letter in many regards. As the father of a gay son I can truly relate to her pain. Scuba May 2015 #22
I'm in tears. SusanCalvin May 2015 #25
Tremendous....Will the haters ever get it? randys1 May 2015 #26
No, they never will awoke_in_2003 May 2015 #34
K&R! Thanks for posting this! Far too often today religion is a code word for hatred, in fact, RKP5637 May 2015 #27
Outstanding! CrispyQ May 2015 #28
K & R mountain grammy May 2015 #29
Yes, finally most of us agree. It'll take more than a lifetime to clear out the haters. erronis May 2015 #39
Bravo ! ashling May 2015 #30
K & R romanic May 2015 #33
Extremely well written letter. Sadly we live in a society that promotes self-righteous rhett o rick May 2015 #35
Bravo, Ms. Underwood! Aristus May 2015 #37
bless her and her son's souls heaven05 May 2015 #38
K&R Solly Mack May 2015 #40
Awesome letter. EEO May 2015 #41
K & R RecoveringJournalist May 2015 #42
Interesting how the right wing loonies preaching "family values" tend to be the ones that violate 4lbs May 2015 #43
Greatest. Response. Ever. Moostache May 2015 #44
K+R Ineeda May 2015 #45
Excellent post Martin! scubadude May 2015 #46
she fired both barrels at these so and sos allan01 May 2015 #47
Powerful. Thanks for reprinting it here today. nt No Vested Interest May 2015 #48
That is magnificent. hifiguy May 2015 #49
K, R, Bookmarking. n/t BlancheSplanchnik May 2015 #52
That certainly kicks the Myth of Liberal Vermont in the teeth....HARD. MADem May 2015 #53
K&R! myrna minx May 2015 #54
WONDERFUL letter Skittles May 2015 #55
How Very Well I Know titanicdave May 2015 #56
Thank you. Pooka Fey May 2015 #57
If ever there was an agenda .... the_sly_pig May 2015 #58
K & R historylovr May 2015 #59
To watch your child Iwillnevergiveup May 2015 #60
Amen! cui bono May 2015 #61
Damn right!!! That's all I can say. calimary May 2015 #62
K&R. So well put. We need more people like that and Binkie The Clown May 2015 #64
SUPERB!!! calimary May 2015 #68
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