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In reply to the discussion: Why are young feminists so clueless about sex? [View all]smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)sex, in that I think people should be free to do what they want to do as long as nobody is hurt or abused.
That being said, I really don't see much wrong with this article, despite the fact that it was written by a "conservative feminist". The statement "But most women are only able to have good sex with men they feel connected to and trust; for most men, thats not the case." is kind of at the core of this in that one night stands are usually good for men, but it's not always true for women.
Women don't always have orgasms with partners they don't know well or who aren't invested enough in trying to figure out what pleases them. That's why it's different. For men, if they get off, it was good. For a lot of women, sex with someone we don't know or who doesn't know or care enough to please us can be pretty disappointing. It's just not worth it if its not good for us too.