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In reply to the discussion: Al Franken still hasn't denied grabbing women [View all]arthritisR_US
(7,306 posts)will make claims against true predators in the future much more difficult to prosecute, imo. In my 61 years Ive been to countless event where my picture was taken with a male significant. Some put their hand on my shoulders, some my butt and others my waistline. None of them did I consider to be violated during the incident. Some women thought the chap was being fresh with them but many of us were oh for gawd sake if thats being fresh to you then you really need to stop asking for pictures.
I recall only one incident where the chaps hand was creeping up my waistline and playing with my bra, I forcefully whispered to him move that hand or prepare for it to be broken . He responded appropriately. Women have a voice and need to use it at the time. Men dont read minds and whats offensive to one woman isnt to another so when posing for pictures all we women have to say is where we are comfortable with the others hand resting.
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