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Thu Jul 25, 2013, 05:21 PM Jul 2013

Ohio Plans Unspeakably Cruel Appeal Of Dying Man’s Last Wish [View all]

Source: ThinkProgress

John Arthur is dying. He is in the terminal stages of Lou Gehrig’s disease and has entered hospice care. Arthur is also gay, and in a 20 year relationship with a man named Jim Obergefell. Because the couple’s home state of Ohio will not allow them to marry, Arthur and Obergefell recently flew to Maryland together and were legally married on the tarmac — just weeks after the Supreme Court’s landmark marriage equality decision in United States v. Windsor. Arthur was unable to rise from his hospice bed.

In his final days, Arthur wants to honor his commitment to his husband. He wants his own death certificate to list Obergefell as his “surviving spouse.” And he wants to die knowing that his partner of 20 years can someday be buried next to him in a family plot bound by a directive that only permits his lawfully wedded spouse to be interred alongside him. And, on Monday, a federal judge ruled that Arthur should indeed have the dignity of dying alongside a man that Ohio will recognize as his husband.

And now, Ohio Attorney General Mike DeWine (R) wants to take that dignity away from Mr. Arthur. The day after a judge issued a temporary restraining order requiring Ohio to list Arthur’s husband as his “surviving spouse” on his death certificate, DeWine announced that he would appeal this decision and try to strip a dying man of his final wish.

There are marriage equality cases with sweeping national implications. This is not one of them. The judge’s order is limited exclusively to Arthur and Obergefell. Indeed, as the judge explains, “there is absolutely no evidence that the State of Ohio or its citizens will be harmed by the issuance” of an order requiring Ohio to acknowledge the two men’s marriage. “No one beyond Plaintiffs themselves will be affected by such a limited order at all.”

Read more: http://thinkprogress.org/justice/2013/07/25/2354941/ohio-plans-unspeakably-cruel-appeal-of-dying-mans-last-wish/

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Just love those compassionat conservates. SheilaT Jul 2013 #1
jebus fucking christ Kali Jul 2013 #2
Wow... AtheistCrusader Jul 2013 #3
What a sick, disgusting, cruel person Mr. DeWine must be. bunnies Jul 2013 #4
There are no words for the kind of person Mike DeWine is. CincyDem Jul 2013 #16
I was wondering if this was the same DeWine that used to be in the house. bunnies Jul 2013 #22
Yeah - he was a Congress-dick in the mid 80's. CincyDem Jul 2013 #27
Im just sitting here watching him get pummeled on FB. bunnies Jul 2013 #30
As it should be. CincyDem Jul 2013 #40
All must be erased Seedersandleechers Jul 2013 #43
Look on the top left... bunnies Jul 2013 #44
DeWine kardonb Jul 2013 #55
No shit. I'm a born and bred Ohioan, liberalhistorian Jul 2013 #45
You're right ... no words ladym55 Jul 2013 #90
What a fucking ASSHOLE! William769 Jul 2013 #5
We won't forget this Mr. Mike DeWine. BlueJazz Jul 2013 #6
A comment from the comments section of the article. William769 Jul 2013 #7
Hear, hear! smallcat88 Jul 2013 #21
Let me guess, I bet Mike DeWine is a Family Values Christian. Fantastic Anarchist Jul 2013 #8
There are very, very few Christians like that. alarimer Jul 2013 #19
Indeed and that's what I meant. Fantastic Anarchist Jul 2013 #24
Okay, I just Wiki'd him. Fantastic Anarchist Jul 2013 #28
How well I remember that, lol! liberalhistorian Jul 2013 #49
You should search his name on facebook obama2terms Jul 2013 #62
Another conservative Catholic theHandpuppet Jul 2013 #47
Go to his site here >> BlueJazz Jul 2013 #9
Run with it, Dems. Ash_F Jul 2013 #10
so how come marriage equality is allowed to be determined by 'states rights' azurnoir Jul 2013 #11
Excellent Point!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! n/t RKP5637 Jul 2013 #13
Because hypocrisy is the sauce DC likes best. Bluenorthwest Jul 2013 #32
Because marriage laws are state laws, and drug laws are federal laws. (nt) jeff47 Jul 2013 #91
This fucken nonsense needs to stop ASAP. Persecutionists and RKP5637 Jul 2013 #12
Percussionists? The Velveteen Ocelot Jul 2013 #15
Yes! We need more drummers!!! Better rhythm! nt Ilsa Jul 2013 #23
Definitely! My auto-spell error called in the drummers! n/t RKP5637 Jul 2013 #57
I hate it when that happens. But it mostly Ilsa Jul 2013 #69
Shades of Emily Litella! markpkessinger Jul 2013 #82
LOL, she was great! RKP5637 Jul 2013 #93
Ohhhhhhhhhhhhh, a typo, fixed it! RKP5637 Jul 2013 #56
"Percussionists and torturers" ??? demwing Jul 2013 #25
I believe him to be a victim of auto-spellchecker. HubertHeaver Jul 2013 #35
That's a relief. I was worried that we were being invaded by The Velveteen Ocelot Jul 2013 #38
Oh, my, the image that liberalhistorian Jul 2013 #51
A rowdy noisy bunch indeed! RKP5637 Jul 2013 #61
MORE COWBELL! riqster Jul 2013 #63
+++ 1,000 +++ RKP5637 Jul 2013 #64
Yep, I called them all in to make a bunch of noise over it! My typos get RKP5637 Jul 2013 #59
Yep, exactly what happened. LOL, I need to do that more often, I get RKP5637 Jul 2013 #58
LOL !!! Fixed it! Damn auto-spell! RKP5637 Jul 2013 #54
Good fucking grief! HappyMe Jul 2013 #14
Evil, hateful bastards, aka Republicans. nt SunSeeker Jul 2013 #17
Just when I think I can't hate Republicans more than I do, they reach a new low. alarimer Jul 2013 #18
I hope John Arthur gets his dying wish lunatica Jul 2013 #20
His FB page is getting HAMMERED! bunnies Jul 2013 #26
These people are fking unbelievable catchnrelease Jul 2013 #29
Republicans must enjoy being mean Warpy Jul 2013 #31
I'm beginning to think that's really true. The Velveteen Ocelot Jul 2013 #39
K & R chowder66 Jul 2013 #33
This is the last fucking straw blowhio, let me the fuck out of the shithole we can do it Jul 2013 #34
Related VIDEO below Tx4obama Jul 2013 #36
Thanks for posting that. William769 Jul 2013 #37
Fuck You DeWine. irisblue Jul 2013 #41
I see DeWine is a Roman Catholic SCVDem Jul 2013 #42
Why would he? theHandpuppet Jul 2013 #48
Isn't this one different? nt SCVDem Jul 2013 #74
Not when it comes to gays theHandpuppet Jul 2013 #78
Ain't Republicans special? Faygo Kid Jul 2013 #46
DeWine is just a puppet. sulphurdunn Jul 2013 #50
Well, of COURSE! The man's dying, and DeWine is pro-LIFE! WinkyDink Jul 2013 #52
Good one! mimi85 Jul 2013 #53
K and R (nt) bigwillq Jul 2013 #60
DeWine and the rest of his ilk sheshe2 Jul 2013 #65
k and r niyad Jul 2013 #66
Mark DeWine needs to be thrown out, indicted and sentenced to prison. Mr. David Jul 2013 #67
Mark DeWine should be ashamed. I mean really. What a pathetic WestSeattle2 Jul 2013 #68
Jesus. riqster Jul 2013 #70
And to top it off...a recent post on his FB page talks about 2theleft Jul 2013 #71
K&R hwmnbn Jul 2013 #72
WWJD?..... madrchsod Jul 2013 #73
K & R Scurrilous Jul 2013 #75
I would like to know what this marriage has to do with DeWine. PDJane Jul 2013 #76
DeWine is a hateful little worm. alfredo Jul 2013 #77
I hope this haunts him for the rest of his life. nolabear Jul 2013 #79
UPDATE at the bottom of the page cited du_grad Jul 2013 #80
Because this case is too public now theHandpuppet Jul 2013 #86
We may be 2nd class citizens, but DeWine is a no-class citizen! Behind the Aegis Jul 2013 #81
The only positive thing is that virtually every comment on his FB page is excoriating him... nomorenomore08 Jul 2013 #83
GOPee attack against basic human decency. blkmusclmachine Jul 2013 #84
He is being torn up on almost every thread and post he has. bearssoapbox Jul 2013 #85
No words Botany Jul 2013 #87
Just take a moment deutsey Jul 2013 #88
How does Ohio, which cut pensions employees paid into, spooky3 Jul 2013 #89
Jesus wept. Moostache Jul 2013 #92
There are people who serve justice, their client, their conscience and/or then there's this hit laserhaas Jul 2013 #94
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