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[Tobin S.]

2. If all you want is a hook up it doesn't sound like a bad deal

From my time on a dating site I learned that a lot of people are mainly interested in that sort of thing and not much else. But you can find some folks who are serious about relationships there, especially if you live in a populous area. I met my wife on OKCupid.

I would imagine that it's harder for women on those sites sorting out who might be the real deal and who is just looking for kicks. On a good dating site the men still outnumber the women 3 to 1 and many of those men lie about their marital status and such. But I think you'll know him when you see him. The right one that is. My wife said she knew after our first date.

Anyway, it's worth keeping up a free membership I would think.