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Samantha

(9,314 posts)
84. Nikita has come back home
Fri Jul 19, 2013, 06:28 PM
Jul 2013

I feel good about this decision I made this morning, although I was really upset for 2 hours. The decision to let Nikita decide what she wanted seems right because I gave her the opportunity to go. And go she did.

When she first stayed in the house, she was carried in in a trap. When she came home, she was carried in in a trap.

So last evening the man who helped trap her called to see how the kittens were doing. I told him they were doing great. They loved their room. They were using the litter box. They were playing quite a bit. And they were napping. They are also eating well, and pooping even better!!! He was thrilled to hear that.

And then he asked if I had released Nikita. I said I had not. I told him I was thinking about letting her stay in the house. I thought this would be a good transition time since I had the kittens. He at first disagreed, telling me she was a feral cat and I had to let her go. I kept saying I wanted to keep her inside, and he outlined a lot of things I needed to do, conditions that I just could not meet. But he emphasized again she could not be with the kittens.

So I ultimately decided it was her decision where she would live, in or out, and if she came back in, I would show her where to find her babies.

So Monet has discovered if she jumps onto the vanity, she can look out a window. Today she discovered she can jump from the vanity into the bed perched atop of a cat scratching post. The last time I looked she was asleep in it.

Sunny and Elise were "sleeping together" in the new bed I had bought for the room. I hope this does not become a habit!!! Bo was running around trying to find a partner for another wrestling match. Dane was keeping a low profile, probably under their hiding place. They go under the couch when they want to be out of sight.

I call out each one's name and then throw a Pounce treat at them. I am teaching them their names so that when one misbehaves, I can call out the name and verbally discourage him (or her). That way all of the kittens know specifically which one is sitting in the hot seat, so to speak.

So happy was I to see Nikita, I went out and sat on the porch with her for awhile. She ate a tremendous amount of food, almost sucking it down in gulps. She also drank a lot of water. Then she walked to me and started rubbing my legs, and laid down beside me. I gave her cat massage as usual. I kept telling her I loved her. She seemed pretty calm and relaxed.

So I stood up and walked to the screen door and opened it. "I have your babies," I told her. She looked inside as if contemplating whether or not to come in. I thought she was going to. But she turned around and started eating again. I kept telling her I have your babies. Believe it or not she knows that key word. She also knows the word food, and the phrase "see you later."

So I think she will come in, perhaps not tonight. And when she does, it will be her choice. And that I believe is the way it should be.

We will see. But I am going out tonight to get another litter box and some more litter. I am pretty sure I will be needing it.

She is shedding a lot. When I was petting her, her hair was blowing out like crazy. I have one of those cat combs, and I am thinking she might let me use it on her tomorrow.

Thank for listening.

Sam

what a great post, especially tonight. thankyou! Kali Jul 2013 #1
Cat servant! Samantha Jul 2013 #2
I am so glad I live all the way across the country Kali Jul 2013 #3
The problem is I really want to keep them all Samantha Jul 2013 #4
thank you for this!! KT2000 Jul 2013 #5
I can never develop a plan of action because Nikita always has her own plan Samantha Jul 2013 #7
Awww, you're a grandma! Congratulations! protect our future Jul 2013 #6
I believe Nikita sees the situation as quite the opposite Samantha Jul 2013 #19
what a wonderful story. i'm a crazy cat lady too. trueblue2007 Jul 2013 #8
Thank you trueblue2007 -- amd that's a funny story you have of your own! Samantha Jul 2013 #10
Is there a group near where you live that avebury Jul 2013 #9
There are many homeless animals here as well Samantha Jul 2013 #11
I am lucky that I could funnel my through the avebury Jul 2013 #12
Thank you for that information Samantha Jul 2013 #13
I would handle the kittens a lot. hay rick Jul 2013 #21
Well, I guess if you could get thru that, I can manage this Samantha Jul 2013 #24
Do you happen to know at what age a female must be before she becomes pregnant? Samantha Jul 2013 #35
I am not sure of the age but it is pretty young. avebury Jul 2013 #36
The kittens were 7 weeks old Sunday (yesterday) Samantha Jul 2013 #37
It can be really hard to determine the sex of kittens. avebury Jul 2013 #38
That would be fine and thank you Samantha Jul 2013 #41
I just caught a break at work. avebury Jul 2013 #42
Thank you so much for this update and the pictures! Tuesday Afternoon Jul 2013 #14
Thank you so much Samantha Jul 2013 #15
Recommend! KoKo Jul 2013 #16
Thank you, KoKo Samantha Jul 2013 #17
Loved reading it all..and it's a BRIGHT LIGHT...to read it ... KoKo Jul 2013 #26
What a surprise! BrotherIvan Jul 2013 #18
You were one of the people that really gave me a lot of moral support when I was coping Samantha Jul 2013 #23
Thanks so much for the kind words BrotherIvan Jul 2013 #27
I am going to write you tomorrow about this scenario Samantha Jul 2013 #31
Here is one question Samantha Jul 2013 #40
Great question BrotherIvan Jul 2013 #43
Today and tomorrow are going to be very rough days for me and the kids Samantha Jul 2013 #44
Yes, that box will be enough for them for now BrotherIvan Jul 2013 #45
Could you take a look at my post 54 and tell me what you think? n/t leaving soon Samantha Jul 2013 #56
I suspect that you and Nikita have the same sense of humor. protect our future Jul 2013 #20
I have kind of thought we have some quirks in common Samantha Jul 2013 #87
Thanks for the update. Good luck finding them good homes. n/t Fla Dem Jul 2013 #22
Awww! They're adorable!! RavensChick Jul 2013 #25
We are neighbors -- I am in College Park Samantha Jul 2013 #29
my cat chloe used to follow us on dog walks hopemountain Jul 2013 #28
Hey,hopemountain, your cat chloe is special Samantha Jul 2013 #30
Kicking and recommending... love_katz Jul 2013 #32
Well, I see from your screen name that I have a chance of appealing to your good nature Samantha Jul 2013 #33
The only piece of advice I can think of to offer, at this time,... love_katz Jul 2013 #34
I grew up a dog person until I got my first avebury Jul 2013 #61
Beautiful babbies! Good job! GreenPartyVoter Jul 2013 #39
Aw...what a great outcome for Nikita and her kids. Sending a link to my nephew (and his girlfriend) mnhtnbb Jul 2013 #46
Thank you so much Samantha Jul 2013 #50
They are adorable! kurtzapril4 Jul 2013 #47
What a wonderful story. Thank you for taking care of life long demo Jul 2013 #48
Be Strong PlayFair8888 Jul 2013 #49
She cried all last night in the trap and it broke my heart Samantha Jul 2013 #51
So it sounds like Nikita is through surgery and doing well? LoveMyCali Jul 2013 #52
She had the surgery today. I pick her up tomorrow Samantha Jul 2013 #55
It is important to socialize the kittens to make them more adoptable. avebury Jul 2013 #58
That was a really smart move. When I talked with the avebury Jul 2013 #59
I am going soon but it is 97 degrees outside and a temperature alert is going into effect at Noon Samantha Jul 2013 #60
Do you know anybody that could loan you a dog crate that is big enough to keep her contained but avebury Jul 2013 #62
I have only a small carrier for Cheyenne and the shed is packed tight with lawn stuff Samantha Jul 2013 #63
Starting out be keeping her in the crate and the avebury Jul 2013 #64
Thank you - I have been outside now again and I know I can't release her outside for sure Samantha Jul 2013 #67
Just butting in BrotherIvan Jul 2013 #70
What do you mean butt in -- you have helped me to make it to this point Samantha Jul 2013 #72
Sounds better than expected! BrotherIvan Jul 2013 #76
Totally agree! nt avebury Jul 2013 #78
I am going to pick her up today and there is a temperative 97 degrees here in DC; heat index higher Samantha Jul 2013 #57
Looking forward to hearing how Nikita is doing. love_katz Jul 2013 #53
I pick her up after 10:00 am Thursday Samantha Jul 2013 #54
If the kittens are inside with you, put her with them! BrotherIvan Jul 2013 #65
I sent a PM to you as well BrotherIvan Jul 2013 #66
You hit on what is driving me crazy Samantha Jul 2013 #68
The big concern is the surgical wound BrotherIvan Jul 2013 #69
Keep her inside if you can. love_katz Jul 2013 #74
OK, this is how concerned I am for your fur babies. Le Taz Hot Jul 2013 #81
This advice means a lot to me Samantha Jul 2013 #82
Give them time to get used to the Le Taz Hot Jul 2013 #83
Perhaps you know the answer to this question Samantha Jul 2013 #93
For the pooping where they're not supposed to poop Le Taz Hot Jul 2013 #94
You are really quick Samantha Jul 2013 #95
Le Taz Hot is giving EXCELLENT advice BrotherIvan Jul 2013 #97
Today's shocking developments Samantha Jul 2013 #98
HA HA it's like a brothel in there! BrotherIvan Jul 2013 #99
Our experience PlayFair8888 Jul 2013 #71
Well, for right now (this day) I believe I have accidently done the right thing Samantha Jul 2013 #73
That is a great idea to keep one of the kittens as a companion avebury Jul 2013 #75
One of our neighborhood female had a litter of kittens. avebury Jul 2013 #77
We have kept a kitten PlayFair8888 Jul 2013 #79
If you love her, let her go Samantha Jul 2013 #80
Nikita has come back home Samantha Jul 2013 #84
They are all KC Jul 2013 #85
Thank you so much Samantha Jul 2013 #86
PLEASE LOOK FOR AN IMPORTANT UPDATE MONDAY OR TUESDAY Samantha Jul 2013 #88
Any news on Nikkita LoveMyCali Jul 2013 #89
Nikita is home and thriving -- she is doing very well Samantha Jul 2013 #90
I'm so glad that things seem to be working out LoveMyCali Jul 2013 #91
One person here told me her organization does this at about 14 weeks Samantha Jul 2013 #92
I will definitely donate! BrotherIvan Jul 2013 #96
THE THREAD IS UP IN GENERAL DISCUSSION Samantha Jul 2013 #100
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