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Catmusicfan

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Sun Jun 18, 2017, 10:20 PM Jun 2017

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New to the board. So I live with my hubby in a red county south of Pittsburgh. Forward/liberal thinker all my life. Hubby and I bought our first home and we decided to adopt two 1year old cat brothers (yes, they are brothers) Manhattan (Manny)and Brooklyn (Brooks) -named by the rescue center. We had gone to Petco to see what the process was to adopt the kittens they always have displayed. When we got there a rescue center had cats for adoption. Manny & Brooks in same cage they explained Brooks totally depended on Brooks and they didn't want to break them up because they had people interest in Manny not Brooks. Both my hubby and I felt for them we adopted them. Poor things have hid from us for the most part.

Brooks trembled when we touched him. They would hide a lot. At one point the center -I guess- worried we would return them said don't give them, especially Brooklyn to hide in. I found it disturbing and followed my gut. I let them hide I made sure their food& water just outside the master bedroom. I lay on the bed and when they came up I greeted them with their name, a slow blink and a bow of my head. Lay treats out so they come in which they then run back into hallway I was gaining ground slowly -VERY-slowly.

So yesterday back at Petco and the animal rescue is back with 2 cats. I had no desire to speak with them Hubby did & fell I. Love with a very loving 1Year old female Hubby knew I felt bad I couldn't touch them. Asked if I would look at this cat because someone suggested a third cat might help bridge the link between us and them. So I agreed. Mollie very loving and loves cuddling. They said Mollie lived with Manny & Brooks for a while I Feb. We brought her home had put her in a separate room to get her use to us. She wasn't having it Mollie came into our room and when the boys came up to eat she went to them. No hissing some chasing. Today with a bribe of chicken Manny let me let him for 5mins. This evening he laid on bedroom floor. Brooks came in and sat too.

Told this to give u an idea of who I am. Also any suggestions would be welcome ed.

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Hi [View all] Catmusicfan Jun 2017 OP
Welcome. Good to hear. elleng Jun 2017 #1
Thanks. I will let look into that section Catmusicfan Jun 2017 #8
welcome to DU :) luvMIdog Jun 2017 #2
Thank you Catmusicfan Jun 2017 #9
How wonderful you and your husband are to take in THREE adoptees! csziggy Jun 2017 #3
Thanks for the links I will post pics as soon as I am on my laptop Catmusicfan Jun 2017 #10
Be patient. Scarsdale Jun 2017 #40
Welcome! You know we love our cats here. The Wielding Truth Jun 2017 #4
Cool. I see the laugh out loud toons. Catmusicfan Jun 2017 #11
Hi...... mrmpa Jun 2017 #5
Kind of a crazy area we live in isn't it. Catmusicfan Jun 2017 #12
Thank u for adoptings!!! shenmue Jun 2017 #6
Least we can do. Catmusicfan Jun 2017 #13
Welcome to DU. We are animals lovers here so you'll get on just fine! Maraya1969 Jun 2017 #7
Cool. Catmusicfan Jun 2017 #14
Hi! Welcome and have fun with your new family members! Lyricalinklines Jun 2017 #15
Thanks Catmusicfan Jun 2017 #21
We used to do feral rescue Lithos Jun 2017 #16
Thanks I have hope. Manny is letting pet him a little more. Catmusicfan Jun 2017 #22
Welcome to DU, Catmusicfan! femmocrat Jun 2017 #17
Thanks. Will check in Catmusicfan Jun 2017 #18
Welcome! Wawannabe Jun 2017 #19
I understand... Catmusicfan Jun 2017 #23
Welcome to DU! cwydro Jun 2017 #20
Thanks. I think there are signs of hope. Catmusicfan Jun 2017 #24
gives a big fat HOWDI and welcome AllaN01Bear Jun 2017 #25
Thank you Kindly, Sir. Catmusicfan Jun 2017 #26
Welcome to DU. Doreen Jun 2017 #27
Thanks Catmusicfan Jun 2017 #35
Welcome! I'd recommend looking into Jackson Galaxy's videos and books... bettyellen Jun 2017 #28
oh yes, We are looking at Jackson's stuff. Catmusicfan Jun 2017 #29
I love the "meat glove" LOL.... bettyellen Jun 2017 #30
Thanks... I try. Manny is really coming out Catmusicfan Jun 2017 #31
I added a console to make a window seat that's shareable for my guys. The other thing that helped bettyellen Jun 2017 #32
I will need to look into that. Catmusicfan Jun 2017 #33
Basically their behavior is cyclical based on their life in the wild. bettyellen Jun 2017 #37
Give them some time. TNNurse Jun 2017 #34
you are right. Catmusicfan Jun 2017 #36
I'm a dog person now - My wife is very allergic to cats The Polack MSgt Jun 2017 #38
The fiercest, most feral cat I've ever rescued eventually gave in to the power of the brush. byronius Jun 2017 #39
Hi! Batship Jun 2017 #41
Hi Batship! ailsagirl Jun 2017 #43
Hi Catmusicfan Jun 2017 #44
Welcome to DU, Catmusicfan ailsagirl Jun 2017 #42
Welcome! Aristus Jun 2017 #45
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