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westerebus

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15. No need to apologize Warren.
Fri May 25, 2012, 09:37 PM
May 2012

You framed your OP as an introduction and invited questions. I have no way of knowing you were referring to domestic violence, until I queried what your plans were for handling violence in general, as you are very adamant about one form of violence in particular which in my reading is not clear in your original OP, which is why I asked.

I gave you three specific instances than could have been answered with a yes or no. Instead, you choose to toss out a taunt: post something and find out. Not once, but, twice. I'm not here to challenge you Warren. I'm asking a question.

There's no reason to be so defensive. As I stated, I want to know up front what is open for discussion as it refers to violence which is a very broad subject. I understand your opposition to domestic violence, I'm opposed to it also. My father was a violent drunk, I have personal experience with it having been on the receiving end. I've never been able to justify why he did what he did. But, I know it had consequences that affected me and my brother and sisters.

If you intend to prohibit discussion of domestic violence on the grounds someone tried to justify it, how will we ever get the message out of how the family is effected by it. It's not just the adults that are abused by domestic violence. Is that a subject you don't think can be discussed?

Hey All [View all] Warren DeMontague May 2012 OP
Yeah, as men historically we've had some advantages.. Upton May 2012 #1
I sort of touched on that, and yeah, i would hope this would be a good place to talk about it. Warren DeMontague May 2012 #2
I'd say about 10% of men have enjoyed some great advantages 4th law of robotics May 2012 #3
I'm not real big on guilt, personally. Warren DeMontague May 2012 #5
You and that fucking conscription shit. trumad May 2012 #19
How do you know if or how I've been affected by the draft? Upton May 2012 #20
Bait you? trumad May 2012 #21
At least we're getting somewhere.. Upton May 2012 #22
Post removed Post removed May 2012 #23
Believe what you wish.. Upton May 2012 #24
Never been a politician but I discuss politics Broderick May 2012 #25
Nice post. Union Scribe May 2012 #4
Excellent post. lumberjack_jeff May 2012 #6
Thanks, Jeff. Warren DeMontague May 2012 #7
Awesome post! Zorra May 2012 #8
I agree with each and every word you posted Warren. hifiguy May 2012 #9
cool with me Broderick May 2012 #10
On violence. westerebus May 2012 #11
Im sorry, i dont understand the question as it pertains to what i wrote. Warren DeMontague May 2012 #12
You may want to edit your OP then. westerebus May 2012 #13
I'm not editing my OP, sorry. Warren DeMontague May 2012 #14
No need to apologize Warren. westerebus May 2012 #15
It'd appear we're talking PAST each other. 1) WHERE have I said "I intend to prohibit discussion"? Warren DeMontague May 2012 #16
Thank you Warren. westerebus May 2012 #17
Fair enough, its all good. I make the mistake, sometimes, of writing off the top of my head Warren DeMontague May 2012 #18
I T W is cool with this. In_The_Wind Feb 2013 #26
Kicking. I also consider myself a feminist. Bonobo Apr 2013 #27
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