Why Men Never Discuss Body Image Issues

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6. Mixed messages

I understand what you are saying and agree. There are a number of people that expect men to "do something" about issues within the male community, but when those issues/problems are brought up, the accusations of "whining" and demands to "man/sack up" are made. This issue in particular will inspire homophobic attacks because "gay men are vain", and therefore, a man who cares about his appearance is "light in the loafers" or "womanly." At the same time, we see attacks on male public figures' appearances (I know I have done it too), that were they made against a female public figure, accusations of "misogyny" would fly. More and more, men are judged by their appearance. There has always been a bit of judging, but it was usually related to classism.