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rrneck

(17,671 posts)
Sat Apr 13, 2013, 06:06 PM Apr 2013

I've noticed something... [View all]

If "mansplaining" is

To explain (something) condescendingly (to a female listener), especially to explain something the listener already knows, presuming that she has an inferior understanding of it because she is a woman.


What is this?

http://www.democraticunderground.com/10022666059#post91

"as pointed out yesterday an example"


http://www.democraticunderground.com/12591107#post2

boston bean explained to you quite clearly the difference between using 'gender' only and not also including sexism and misogyny. This has been talked about for some time now. You can find it on an old ATA here, you can probably find it in the dozens of posts in the Welcome thread Gormy Guss started to talk about this, you can also find it on the Meta threads if you have access.

It has been explained quite clearly, over and over.

I think we all realize this will not be the cure all, but not even trying it out is sending a really bad message.


http://www.democraticunderground.com/12591107#post6

There will always be the exception and someone will go over the line and get banned for that, as you pointed out and as we all understand, but the Overall Unacceptability of posts like these is well understood. It is clear. As a bell.



These are just the three examples that I recall, but I seem to have run across it with fair regularity. I am wondering if the creation of a special type of condescension known as "mansplaining" was created to satisfy a market for developers of ideology to claim ownership of a type of human failing shared by both sexes? If that is the case, what human failings have been coopted for as an hommage to the male gender?
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I've noticed something... [View all] rrneck Apr 2013 OP
There are undoubtedly situations where women engage in this behavior. Warren Stupidity Apr 2013 #1
Of course it's commonplace. rrneck Apr 2013 #2
it should be, I think. I think gender should be taken out of the equation and we should try to Tuesday Afternoon Apr 2013 #3
I agree that we should try to respect each other as humans, and as individuals. Warren DeMontague Apr 2013 #5
I agree. I do not use the term myself but, if you are condescending toward me, Tuesday Afternoon Apr 2013 #7
ab-solutely. Warren DeMontague Apr 2013 #9
well, lord knows! I am not either. I think i am pretty infamous in that regard. - Tuesday Afternoon Apr 2013 #11
Nah. Plus, your name invokes such a mellow song. Warren DeMontague Apr 2013 #15
When people look for things to stereotype they often find them Gore1FL Apr 2013 #23
Well, I've just been thinking... rrneck Apr 2013 #8
I agree that as the 1% get a strangle hold on all of us that these gender issues are Tuesday Afternoon Apr 2013 #17
They're different because they don't have to care. rrneck Apr 2013 #19
"I'm trying to find out who's at the creek bank with a bucket." lumberjack_jeff Apr 2013 #24
Well, to be fair rrneck Apr 2013 #25
Except, it's basically used to shut down any explanation coming from someone who is male. Warren DeMontague Apr 2013 #4
"typically male behavior pattern " Bonobo Apr 2013 #21
Who said there are no typically female behavior patterns? Warren Stupidity Apr 2013 #22
In your last example, she seems to be implying that admin can't or wont understand Warren DeMontague Apr 2013 #6
I wonder how one could argue convincingly from a position of that kind of certainty rrneck Apr 2013 #10
"why bother ourselves with reality where there's an agenda to be pushed?" Warren DeMontague Apr 2013 #12
Pushing agendas pays better than walking a picket line. rrneck Apr 2013 #13
I'll say this: I think for some things there are simply larger forces at work. Warren DeMontague Apr 2013 #14
We can all agree equality is a good thing. rrneck Apr 2013 #16
No shit. Warren DeMontague Apr 2013 #18
Use of language and the meaning of words... Buffalo Bull Apr 2013 #20
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