90 meetings in 90 days?

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5. another neutrally voiced question

and as above, and as to my standard you are not obligated to answer me publically or privately. your life experience will vary from my observations. ..... " watch my motives carefully to avoid trying to control his recovery which would be getting into my disease". why are you feeling that you need to be involved on any level at all? you described him as an Ex if you have minor children together i can see that you would have to be involved. adult children would seem to be a more at arms length connection, but those would seem to be the only unbreakable and necessary connection ever. you can sell businesses, property, but children are lifetime connections.
some people are just plain toxic together....could the combo of the the two of you be toxic for you? supportively iris