How do you increase your self esteem when depressed

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16. I understnd that you are clinically sick, which means, in this case,

that you have no energy to deal with the property, not to mention the family members involved.
Sounds as though you have some anger as well - no judgment, just pointing out the fact.

Since family seems recalcitrant re their share of the labor in settling the estate, it might be helpful to write, or have written for you by an attorney, where you stand.
I'm assuming you are not the executor, or, if you are, you can either refuse the appointment or pay to have a third party (lawyer or other qualified person) do it for you.

I wish you well, and concur with those who suggest you get professional help.