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Croney

(4,661 posts)
Fri Apr 9, 2021, 11:32 AM Apr 2021

One Godblessyou over the line... [View all]

I go to Zumba classes four times a week. My gym hired a new desk person to take temperatures and greet members. He was very friendly, which was fine.

When I left the desk he'd say Godblessyou. When I passed him on the way out he'd say it again. It started feeling a little creepy. I mentioned it to a couple of class friends and they found it odd but just laughed it off.

One day I asked him, politely, not to say it. He continued. I spoke to a manager, who at first asked me "if I was a person who..." and I stopped him, saying I shouldn't have to explain myself and I'd asked the person not to say it, and it probably wasn't a job requirement. He agreed.

Today when I went in, the desk person apologized and I quickly and happily accepted. When I left, he said have a good afternoon.

Many people would not be bothered by constant Godblessyou's in a secular setting, but I was. I'm glad I made my feelings known.

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You handled it well and intelligently. vlyons Apr 2021 #1
Oh thank you. Croney Apr 2021 #2
You could've responded, "And bless your heart." tblue37 Apr 2021 #3
I generally say Susan Calvin Apr 2021 #7
back in my first year of college (a small Methodist school but quite liberal and secular) wcmagumba Apr 2021 #4
Ugh. I'm glad it's not just me. Croney Apr 2021 #5
Good for you. n/t Brainstormy Apr 2021 #6
Excellent. progressoid Apr 2021 #8
most of my co-workers know I'm an atheist OriginalGeek Apr 2021 #9
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